Prince
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 19:26:27 GMT
Long story short. I met this fucking 10 on tinder 4 months ago. Exchanged numbers. Tried to set a date on 2 separate occasions over a span of 3 weeks. Both times she came up with bullshit excuses on the day of the dates and canceled. The second time she canceled I simply replied "ok".
Fast forward 3 months and she texted me out of the blue one morning: "hi, how are you?" I replied and chatted a bit and then set a date for a few nights later. She showed up, we had drinks, awesome chemistry, passionate making out, dancing, but no fucking. She said she needed more time kinda bullshit. I acted cool. She left. Next morning she texted "I had a great time with you last time" i replied with pretty much the same and asked her what she was doing that day. She said she was taking a trip for 3 days and I said to let me know when she got back.
While on her trip she would still text me randomly asking how I was doing and stuff. She came back Tuesday night and I asked to see her Wednesday night. She suggested Thursday night (tonight) I said ok.
This morning the following exchange took place:
Her: honey, I'm going somewhere with my mom tomorrow, can we see each other Saturday instead of tonight?
Me: tonight is fine, I'll drop you of tomorrow morning on my day to work.
Her: but if I leave home for my mom's in the morning traffic is gonna be heavy.
Me: what time do you want to go to your mom's?
Her: I wanna go tonight and spend the night, we need to be somewhere tomorrow early morning.
Me: ok, but I can't Saturday.
Her: what about Sunday?
Me: this Sunday I'm working late until 10 or 11 pm. But Monday is fine.
Her: do you always work on weekends?
Me: most of the time when it's busy I stay at work on weekends.
I sent my last text 2 hours ago. No reply since.
Now I know I fucked up, I should have just responded to her 1st text saying Saturday was ok.
What should I do now? Should I text her saying hey I worked Saturday out or something? Or any other suggestions?
By the way if it's of any importance she is a famous model with 2 million instagram followers and her own TV show.
Thanks guys.
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Post by JackZero on May 31, 2018 19:34:13 GMT
Question 1...why do you believe that you should have said that Saturday was okay when if it wasn't? Question 2...why didn't you offer a good day for you?
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 19:39:24 GMT
Question 1...why do you believe that you should have said that Saturday was okay when if it wasn't? Question 2...why didn't you offer a good day for you? 1.Because although not the best day, Saturday was ok. I'm off Wed and Thu but I don't think she knows that. Maybe she thought I worked 7 days and thought it was weird. I could do Saturday but the next day at work I'd be a little sleepy. 2. I did offer Monday (I can always take tuesdays off) that's when she asked if I always worked on weekends and when I said most of the time she didn't say anything anymore. Can I salvage this?
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 19:42:41 GMT
Maybe ask if she wants to get together Sunday 11 pm or say I can work something out for Saturday, or tell her I'm off wed and thu and see if she can meet during the week or any other thing you might advise?
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Post by JackZero on May 31, 2018 20:09:46 GMT
Question 1...why do you believe that you should have said that Saturday was okay when if it wasn't? Question 2...why didn't you offer a good day for you? 1.Because although not the best day, Saturday was ok. I'm off Wed and Thu but I don't think she knows that. Maybe she thought I worked 7 days and thought it was weird. I could do Saturday but the next day at work I'd be a little sleepy. 2. I did offer Monday (I can always take tuesdays off) that's when she asked if I always worked on weekends and when I said most of the time she didn't say anything anymore. Can I salvage this? I don't see anything to salvage. Contact her and do Saturday.
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Post by siezectrl on May 31, 2018 20:10:37 GMT
I think after this-
"Her: I wanna go tonight and spend the night, we need to be somewhere tomorrow early morning."
I would have followed up with something like Me- I understand, have fun with your mom and I will see you then. Me- However, you have to make it up to me by cooking for me, what time will you be here Saturday?
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Post by JackZero on May 31, 2018 20:26:25 GMT
I think after this- "Her: I wanna go tonight and spend the night, we need to be somewhere tomorrow early morning." I would have followed up with something like Me- I understand, have fun with your mom and I will see you then. Me- However, you have to make it up to me by cooking for me, what time will you be here Saturday? I am not saying that this is bad advice because in fact it could be very good advice but you have to take in account if this is the personality that you've shown this woman so far. If you do personality shifts, she will likely start reevaluating if she believes that you are attractive.
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Post by siezectrl on May 31, 2018 20:36:25 GMT
I think after this- "Her: I wanna go tonight and spend the night, we need to be somewhere tomorrow early morning." I would have followed up with something like Me- I understand, have fun with your mom and I will see you then. Me- However, you have to make it up to me by cooking for me, what time will you be here Saturday? I am not saying that this is bad advice because in fact it could be very good advice but you have to take in account if this is the personality that you've shown this woman so far. If you do personality shifts, she will likely start reevaluating if she believes that you are attractive. You're right, this is more set in my personality than what the original writer's may be. I am always getting the girl to be someplace more intimate than out on the town. The last line could probably use an emoji to show teasing.
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 20:54:40 GMT
I don't think I need to get cute with the cooking reference. She already knows that we are going to be fucking next time we see each other.
Jack, about contacting her and setting Saturday up the only thing that worries me is that first when she offered Saturday, I firmly said I couldn't do Saturday. Know if I say Saturday is ok she might think I'm either so weak and desperate that I'm gonna change my work schedule to meet her (even when she changed our plans for tonight) or I was playing hard to get when I first said I couldn't do Saturday and then when she didn't respond to my offer about Monday I decided to stop playing and am accepting Saturday.
If I where to contact her and set Saturday up though, what's a good way to say it considering I already said Saturday wasn't ok?
Or I could just wait until Monday next week and try to set a fresh date?
Or is it better to just wait for her to get back to me?
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 20:58:05 GMT
Note that the 1st date she met me at the bar. For the second date she gave me her address to pick her up.
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Post by JackZero on May 31, 2018 21:10:03 GMT
Jack, about contacting her and setting Saturday up the only thing that worries me is that first when she offered Saturday, I firmly said I couldn't do Saturday. Know if I say Saturday is ok she might think I'm either so weak and desperate that I'm gonna change my work schedule to meet her (even when she changed our plans for tonight) or I was playing hard to get when I first said I couldn't do Saturday and then when she didn't respond to my offer about Monday I decided to stop playing and am accepting Saturday. If I where to contact her and set Saturday up though, what's a good way to say it considering I already said Saturday wasn't ok? "I pulled some strings and I can do Saturday" Don't worry about her thinking it's weak and desperate because it was the day she offered and she wanted to see you.
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Post by Prince on May 31, 2018 22:28:24 GMT
Jack, about contacting her and setting Saturday up the only thing that worries me is that first when she offered Saturday, I firmly said I couldn't do Saturday. Know if I say Saturday is ok she might think I'm either so weak and desperate that I'm gonna change my work schedule to meet her (even when she changed our plans for tonight) or I was playing hard to get when I first said I couldn't do Saturday and then when she didn't respond to my offer about Monday I decided to stop playing and am accepting Saturday. If I where to contact her and set Saturday up though, what's a good way to say it considering I already said Saturday wasn't ok? "I pulled some strings and I can do Saturday" Don't worry about her thinking it's weak and desperate because it was the day she offered and she wanted to see you. Thanks Jack! I sent her exactly that "I pulled some strings..." and in less than 2 seconds she replied: ok honey! Almost like she was on her phone waiting for me! Thank you guys! By the way is Arch or others still around?
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Post by JackZero on May 31, 2018 22:52:03 GMT
Haven't heard from Arch.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Jun 1, 2018 12:52:09 GMT
Well aren't you the shit!
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Post by N2thevoid on Jun 1, 2018 16:33:33 GMT
He's in jail awaiting trial for posing as the ice cream truck man cruising elementary schools and touching minors.
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