Silver
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Post by Silver on Nov 12, 2019 5:46:35 GMT
who around her games girls in relationships and succeed in it?
recently ive been gaming girls then i would find out they in relationships.
one thing ive picked up is when they want to cheat they wont mention anything about a bf until you need to know or if things are getting personal.
my question how many of you guys have been threw this senario and what where some steps you took from the initial meeting to getting a lay.
i know its not right going after girls in a relationship however lets talk about going for girls in relationships and some bf destroyers
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Post by R.C on Nov 12, 2019 11:27:53 GMT
i know its not right going after girls in a relationship Why not? Imagine if companies would only go after unemployed people. Who, btw, if they're any good, won't stay that way for long. The best, and only bf destroyer for that matter, is the bf himself. People in happy and fulfilling relationships don't cheat. Just like people working high paying jobs they're passionate about don't get snatched. If, on the other hand, they're already unhappy, they'll be open to other opportunities. |
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Nov 12, 2019 14:55:28 GMT
Most of the best looking women are often in relationships. If their partner is no longer making the grade she will be window shopping for a replacement, and if you play your cards right that replacement could be you!
That said, it doesn't mean you keep ploughing away when she says she has a boyfriend from the get go. If she says it when she is back at your place, then if she was faithful and happy with her bf, she wouldn't be at yours in the first place.
Also it can be risky, and you have to be prepared to deal with the bf if he find out and pays you a visit
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Post by JackZero on Nov 12, 2019 16:04:44 GMT
I'm going to agree with R.C and take it a step further. A girl in a relationship, from what I've experienced, is easier to get than the girl that is single. She knows the guy that she's in a relationship with. The longer that they've been in a relationship, the less likely that either one of them want to rip the other's clothes off. This is because the two of them tend to be so familiar with each other that there is no excitement left when it comes to being passionate about each other. This makes seduction easier for another guy when it comes to this.
Is there a boyfriend destroyer. IMO, the best boyfriend destroyer is displaying that you sexually desire the girl. She already has a boyfriend, so there is no reason for you to pretend that you are going to make a better one. There is no need for you to even act like you want to replace him. Since she has a guy that wants to rip her clothes off less and less as time goes by, if she finds one that does desire that will be far more attractive because it allows her to fantasize.
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Post by N2thevoid on Nov 12, 2019 17:37:02 GMT
While I appreciate what RC is saying, it really whittles down to your own moral precepts.
Like his example of a company poaching people, nobody will consciously choose to monkey branch unless that other branch is more enticing.
If the draw is strong they will find a way to rationalize doing so to try and absolve themselves of any feelings of guilt (and often shame).
Contrary to Hollywood headlines, no body can be 'stolen'. For someone to cheat they're the ones taking the greater risk but it is a voluntary choice. Contrary to the argument that seduction is a form of manipulation.
For the single person I would ask yourself to question whether it sits well with you or not that your new partner cheated. I know the argument can be made that most everyone has the propensity to cheat (some more than others of course), if the conditions were 'ripe'.
If this is something that'll eat away at your psyche, then was it worth it? Or who knows, maybe she becomes the love of your life and the two of you live happily ever after.
I can attest what Jack is saying, remember that the most intoxicating thing a woman can experience is desire from a man they perceive to be of value. Women will actively and often unconsciously put themselves in situations where cheating is more likely to occur, when their relationship begins to lose its lustre OR they are just fed up in which case the love is gone but the attachment still holds. This is why many a time a woman will wait for the next available suitor before jumping ship. All she needs is a reason to believe she can hold onto something else (in this sense many women deal with a 'scarcity mindset'). It's also why often times girls will end up on dating apps hours if not days once their current relationship ends - either to prevent themselves from turning back (their not trusting their own instincts that its over), or simply to avoid feeling the pain of having to grieve the last relationship.
At the end of the day you've got to ask yourself if its worth it.
For me it's not worth the drama. I hardly know the chick, and there are so many cute ones unattached w/o all this baggage attached I'd rather get to know. Your call.
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Silver
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Post by Silver on Nov 14, 2019 8:21:27 GMT
Imo ive seen that woman in relationships are easier to get . Because of the reasons jack points out.
Ive so far picked up that when shes really not interested she will mention in the first interaction she has a bf .
What happened to me recently. I met this hb8 cute black hair good ass and face. She told me i should invite her on facebook whoch i did then we spoke and i tried setting up a date at home which she said no to . There was a alternative but i could pick up this might lead nowhere and decided not to meet up with her or plough to see her . I checked out her bf and she was in a relationships so i stoped messaging her . 2 days later i tried to get back in contact with her then she dropped the bf bomb which was a indicator that she wasnt interested in.
One girl in my journal i slept with my cousins friend she as well had a bf but she only told me the following day after we had sex.
To the guys going after the girls in relationships look at the red flags guys when pursuing we dont want anyone getting beaten up lol.
That being said. Once familiarity has sunk in and the passion has died in a relationship chances are one will think about or look for something more thrilling .
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Nov 14, 2019 18:58:20 GMT
* The girl you're hitting on in a relationship could be in a dead relationship. I've developed FWB's from that scenario.
* Girls sometimes simply say they are in a relationship just so you'll go away.
* Girls that are responding favorably to your slick seductive ways are not satisfied in their current circumstances. Relationship or not.
* Most girls have made up their minds if they'd fuck you or not before you're two sentences in.
* IME 99.9% of hot girls have SOMETHING going on behind the curtains.
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Post by N2thevoid on Nov 15, 2019 7:49:30 GMT
"* IME 99.9% of hot girls have SOMETHING going on behind the curtains. "
As in another option(s) they're open to?
Care to elaborate?
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Nov 15, 2019 18:02:55 GMT
"* IME 99.9% of hot girls have SOMETHING going on behind the curtains. " As in another option(s) they're open to? Care to elaborate? Yes other options. As well as orbiters that 'think' they are the boyfriend. FWB's that REALLY think they are the boyfriend. Guys that are kept as emergency dildos that also agree with everything they say and take them to dinner as well. Sometimes even ligit boyfriends but you Mr Slick, happen to appear to be a better option. If they are actually free it won't be for long. |
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Post by curtis72 on Nov 16, 2019 1:04:49 GMT
i know its not right going after girls in a relationship Why not? Imagine if companies would only go after unemployed people. Who, btw, if they're any good, won't stay that way for long. The best, and only bf destroyer for that matter, is the bf himself. People in happy and fulfilling relationships don't cheat. Just like people working high paying jobs they're passionate about don't get snatched. If, on the other hand, they're already unhappy, they'll be open to other opportunities. If she's willing to cheat on her bf and be dishonest, it doesn't exactly present the best of character with someone you'd like to know further. This isn't to say she'd definitely cheat on you, but I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with somebody who doesn't have great morals. With jobs, it comes with the territory and the "just business not personal". |
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Post by blueberryblack on Nov 21, 2019 20:38:13 GMT
Why not? Imagine if companies would only go after unemployed people. Who, btw, if they're any good, won't stay that way for long. The best, and only bf destroyer for that matter, is the bf himself. People in happy and fulfilling relationships don't cheat. Just like people working high paying jobs they're passionate about don't get snatched. If, on the other hand, they're already unhappy, they'll be open to other opportunities. If she's willing to cheat on her bf and be dishonest, it doesn't exactly present the best of character with someone you'd like to know further. This isn't to say she'd definitely cheat on you, but I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with somebody who doesn't have great morals. With jobs, it comes with the territory and the "just business not personal". All is fair in love and war.
Business is war. Love is...  |
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Post by N2thevoid on Nov 21, 2019 20:47:04 GMT
If she's willing to cheat on her bf and be dishonest, it doesn't exactly present the best of character with someone you'd like to know further. This isn't to say she'd definitely cheat on you, but I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with somebody who doesn't have great morals. With jobs, it comes with the territory and the "just business not personal". All is fair in love and war.
Business is war. Love is... Question is would you be singing the same tune when the shoe's on the other foot. OR (more likely), would you be on here griping about the one that got away and how to win her back (and that's when we direct you to the article on leaving your ex alone). |
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Post by blueberryblack on Nov 21, 2019 21:00:29 GMT
All is fair in love and war.
Business is war. Love is... Question is would you be singing the same tune when the shoe's on the other foot. OR (more likely), would you be on here griping about the one that got away and how to win her back (and that's when we direct you to the article on leaving your ex alone). The world keeps directing me to the article on leaving my ex alone as well.
And I think the ones that get away kind of lose their shine after a while.
I usually deal with it by getting high, drunk, or both, then proceeding to find someone I find good enough to bed, and someone who finds me presentable enough to fuck. Whilst I'm fucking the above mentioned, I tend to poke and prod the dead ones, if they're around.
Can't help it. Chances are some of them might suck me off. (has happened before. Once.).
What about you? What do you do?
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Post by N2thevoid on Nov 21, 2019 21:09:13 GMT
I forgive and move on, take the learning lesson(s) and become a better person.
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Post by blueberryblack on Nov 21, 2019 21:47:19 GMT
I forgive and move on, take the learning lesson(s) and become a better person. Zen. |
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