Do You Remember Your First Direct Approach Ever!

[slimshady]

So I'm trying to get back Into the game at age 40 still looking 20 lols so that's something. 

Non the less I'm just wondering for those who have approached girls b4 or even today



Do you remember your first EVER DIRECT APPROACH you did on a girl ... Doesn't matter If It was Day game OR night game alcohol or no alcohol I'm curious to know how you did and felt at that time  


My first DIRECT APPROACH

Was In a female shoes store here In Sydney Australia ... She was damn hot as and I made It my only goal for the day.

I found parking In the mall beside the Movies Cinemas, just outside of the movies there was the female shoe shop that no customers about lunch time It was and she was damn hot as hell.

I walk In and tell her ... Me: I just had to say you're fucking hot as hell! And come get your name? Her: T ... Nice I'm Slim (not real name lol) 

Didn't know where to go from here, I was trembling and shaking, she even looked me down and could probably tell that haha. 

I ended up asking her If she was keen to go out that night, she said NO after looking me up and down. haha.

I said no problem totally understand, afterwards I was still shaking and trembling  for about 5 minutes called my 2 wings at the time and told them, they were shocked and like What bought this on, I just promised myself I'd do at least one direct approach ... Since then never looked back.

I think Direct works best, Night, Day with or with out alcohol, but If you can do It with out Alcohol that's the real confidence  

[G-host]

Ah, the first time.. a bit scary but i thought for myself that, i only live once. That sort of motivate me to do it. And i did. Got rejected but i was proud of myself. Then it got better, I, became better. A fun experience was to hunt for them. They where all very polite thou, at least.

[G-host]

"I was trembling and shaking" haha 

[G-host]

Oh, i just remembered that this one i was talking about wasnt the first.. she was just the first of a period where i approached many women. But there was another several years before this. I asked out one that was working as a cashier at a store. She said that "her boyfriend wouldnt like it". To me it sounded that she actually had one or she was thinking of her future relationship and i wasnt gonna be him. It was cold and it was hard but i did it.

[G-host]

Did it get any easier for you or were you very nervous every time?

[G-host]

Jul 30, 2023 6:12:34 GMT slimshady said:

I walk In and tell her ... Me: I just had to say you're fucking hot as hell! And come get your name? Her: T ... Nice I'm Slim (not real name lol) 

I read your post again and got that you actually did go straight to her, well done mate!