you dont have to go into clubs to slide

[jacob bailer]

my boy emilio once said, why go into the bars when you can stand outside, and approach the same broads, and it's actually wise. he saved a shit ton of money by not going into the bars, and would just stand outside the bars, and approach females before they went in, or after they came out. either way, it was pretty much the same chics who were in the bar. another advantage of waiting outside is that it wasnt as noisy, and the air was much fresher. when you want to talk to a chic, and loud music is playing, it's alot harder for you to communicate. if you're outside, she will hear you better. so honestly this theory can apply to alot of other things like concerts. like lets say you are a swifty, and theres a taylor swift concert in town. dont go to the concert. stand outside the concert and slide on every single female coming in or out of the venue.

[JackZero]

Dec 6, 2023 16:07:05 GMT jacob bailer said:

my boy emilio once said, why go into the bars when you can stand outside, and approach the same broads, and it's actually wise. he saved a shit ton of money by not going into the bars, and would just stand outside the bars, and approach females before they went in, or after they came out. either way, it was pretty much the same chics who were in the bar. another advantage of waiting outside is that it wasnt as noisy, and the air was much fresher. when you want to talk to a chic, and loud music is playing, it's alot harder for you to communicate. if you're outside, she will hear you better. so honestly this theory can apply to alot of other things like concerts. like lets say you are a swifty, and theres a taylor swift concert in town. dont go to the concert. stand outside the concert and slide on every single female coming in or out of the venue.

So how has this worked for you? There’s a logical sense of it being the same girls but it doesn’t really address the mood, attitude, and approachability.

[jacob bailer]

it hasnt worked for me, but neither has being inside the bars. at least outside i got a phone number, or two. i dont do well with night life in general. in fact, i have better luck in walmart parking lots or even on the bus. sometimes i do well in county fairs, but it's hit or miss. but for emilio, he gets more conversations outside the bars than inside, as i said, because of the noise, and dark environment. ive honestly never seen emilio with any chics aside from when he does cold approaches. another thing you got to consider is bars, and clubs are packed with people, whereas if youre at the entrance, it's only a few people, so theres also less distractions. being inside, and outside is definitely not the same, but you do get the same crowds of people, particularly in places like 6th street in austin. it's not logistically practical to on in many bars on 6 street, but if you just sort of hanging out at entrances, it just seems like it's more practical, especially if you don't have the money. i'm from the ghetto so we dont have that kind of money to spend, which also is why i more prefer walmart parking lots, or public transport. that's not to say i slide on every single female on the bus. sometimes, there wont be one for a whole month. it's really just hit or miss. one time i was standing outside a lingerie store, and found a female who was attracted to me. the key is really to pick up on the body language and move in fast

[JackZero]

Dec 8, 2023 1:17:57 GMT jacob bailer said:

it hasnt worked for me, but neither has being inside the bars. at least outside i got a phone number, or two. i dont do well with night life in general. in fact, i have better luck in walmart parking lots or even on the bus. sometimes i do well in county fairs, but it's hit or miss. but for emilio, he gets more conversations outside the bars than inside, as i said, because of the noise, and dark environment. ive honestly never seen emilio with any chics aside from when he does cold approaches. another thing you got to consider is bars, and clubs are packed with people, whereas if youre at the entrance, it's only a few people, so theres also less distractions. being inside, and outside is definitely not the same, but you do get the same crowds of people, particularly in places like 6th street in austin. it's not logistically practical to on in many bars on 6 street, but if you just sort of hanging out at entrances, it just seems like it's more practical, especially if you don't have the money. i'm from the ghetto so we dont have that kind of money to spend, which also is why i more prefer walmart parking lots, or public transport. that's not to say i slide on every single female on the bus. sometimes, there wont be one for a whole month. it's really just hit or miss. one time i was standing outside a lingerie store, and found a female who was attracted to me. the key is really to pick up on the body language and move in fast

I get what you are saying, and once you added the 6th street element...I sort of agree with that because of the party atmosphere that is on the streets.  Even though I haven't been there in years, I spent more time on the street outside than inside in the bars.

However, I think more of the issue for you may be where you are in your head when approaching.  Some guys thrive in bars in the crowd. The more packed the better.  They take advantage of the limited space because it forces close proximity during an approach. If you like that type of thing, you won't want to be outside if you have the choice between the two. If you have to pay to go in and that doesn't hit your wallet hard, outside wouldn't be the place you'd want to be. Perspective and mindset have a lot to do with success. That's why I asked how it worked for you in comparison of your friend. Either way, it's good that you know where you prefer to approach because you'll be more confident in that approach.

[Alex Penn]

Emilio's got a point – outside the box thinking. If it works, it works, right?

Approaching outside the noise has its perks. Fresh air, clearer communication, and, hey, saving money on the entrance fees. Smart move.

It's all about adapting your game to the environment. Being outside a concert or a bar doesn't limit your chances; sometimes, it enhances them.