maestro
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Post by maestro on Dec 6, 2023 19:48:37 GMT
I love approaching and opening as a subject, mostly because most PUAs do not even do this. Me included, I've been through the whole thing where I go out maybe 3-4 times a a week and still don't apparoach. I am committed to the newbie drill and approaching 12 sets per night which is about 3 per hour and 20 min. per approach. I am also going to do the Stylelife Challenge to get over approaching girls and trying new openers, right now I have a "routine stakck", my opener is "Hey guys! Looks like the party is over here!" I then turn to my "target" and say "If I wasn't gay you'd so be mine"-my disqualifier-I then use the "hands off, hands off, that will be 5 bucks everytime you touch!" which works and usually they will touch you if you are peackocked correctly. Then I start to go into my material which are DHV stories and two DHV routines as well as some magic that I've practiced. This seems pretty solid and I am going to keep it and keep adding to it as I advance. Does anyone have trouble saying you are gay in set and then recovering from it? For example she could tell others in the group that you are gay? I know Mystery says "Actually my brother is the gay one, these are black nails not pink. Back off Cecil! Gay bars over there!" I want to expiriment with "Actually my sister is the gay gay one of the family, she was married to a girl for months and then she decided to go back to men! Crazy family.." This can work because my sister is actually a lesbian who sometimes goes for guys too. Let me know!
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 7, 2023 13:27:29 GMT
Alright, mate, let's simplify. First off, ditch the elaborate routine. Being genuine beats a scripted act any day. Playing the "I'm gay" card? Risky move. If it doesn't match who you are, it's bound to backfire. Instead, be real, engage naturally, no smoke and mirrors. And hey, your family stuff? Cool, but keep it genuine. Authenticity sticks; routines fade. Be yourself, not some rehearsed act. Focus on connection, not scripted lines. That's where the real game's at.
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maestro
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Post by maestro on Dec 10, 2023 1:55:38 GMT
Thanks for the response, the reason I have a routine is to practice my delivery and have something to say but I ofcourse like the idea of being genuine and real. After or druing this I'm always watching and seeing where she's at so I can still be genuine and have a normal conversation, this just gives me something interesting to say and have stories to tell etc.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Dec 10, 2023 16:12:51 GMT
I remember when I first started gaming, I would do the routine thing...and it worked. Then as I kept gaming I found myself not being myself... because that "act" had to keep going. I'm not a "peacock" wearing guy. I'm not this "hey, guys this looks like where the parties at" type of guy. I'm just me... whatever that is. I prefer day game because I don't need to dress a certain way or be this "owner of the club" asking people off they are enjoying themselves. If that's you and it fits your authentic style DO IT! No matter what I say it anybody says. Whatever keeps you gaming and having fun. FUCKING DO IT! I remember when I first started, it was all me. It was all new and I loved it! I was out talking to girls and having a good time. Most importantly gaming had me out of my house!! I shared my new found hobby with family and coworkers... And they were negative (not their fault-they just don't understand this lifestyle). People nowadays don't make it a point to go out and meet people. and so i believed what they said..."it's a waste of time", "how many numbers you got", "no girlfriend yet", etc. This negativity infected my thoughts and so I stopped. Keep doing what you're doing. You'll find your place, game allows us to be who we are. Women just bring this out of us. That newbie drill is awesome. Don't get hung up on the 20min whatever. I started with 1 hello equals 1 approach lol... Then i started different things. As the previous poster stated... Hellos are awesome. I tell them why I am talking to them. Then I start testing/qualify them to see if they meet my standards. No gimmicks, no magic tricks. Just eye contact. Pleasant smile and genuine Convo. Nothing trying to sound like a player like, "hey baby" (unless I'm trying to do something on purpose) yo nevermind that... There's no rules!! Sometimes I do a thing where I'm nervous (ill "act" nervous lol) I'll stutter and say something like "uH,uh hi... I forgot the pickup line was gonna use..my name is..." Keep gaming player!
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 11, 2023 13:38:51 GMT
Yo, real talk, brother. I feel you on the routines, but don't lose that authentic spark. It's what makes you stand out. Screw the negativity, keep doing you, and remember, there are no set rules in this game. By the way, it was cool hearing your story.
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maestro
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Post by maestro on Dec 11, 2023 14:14:24 GMT
Thanks man, I appreciate the response! I'm just still working on getting out there and calibrating over time!
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 14, 2023 11:47:14 GMT
No problem man, I'm here if you need any help!
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luckykk
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Post by luckykk on Mar 3, 2024 18:21:56 GMT
There's a girl at school who I'm extremely in love with, but I know not to put her on a higher pedestal than mine.I'm first, trying to learn how to pick up other girls, to finally try it with her. I want to have the right hit.I'm a beginner. To this day, I haven't approached a single girl, I don't know how to do it. I'm going to try this "Hi" and "Hello" strategy.
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