maestro
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Post by maestro on Dec 6, 2023 20:58:34 GMT
I believe the best thing for inner game is to start going out 3-4 times a week and practising, preferable 4 times a week. I noticed when I was living in Mexico and just started going out I started feeling a vibe within me whenver I entered a bar or club and I would give off the energy of a player and I would do better. I also started thinking correctly, i.e. if the girls were 9's or 10's I would intuitively know not to approach them unless I already had girls with me, needed pre-selection. Or if I do approach them not to show too much interest at first. It started to click, so if you do this and keep doing this eventually you will start to vibe like a player and that's when you start getting good. Thank you.
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 8, 2023 14:28:35 GMT
Solid insights there. Consistent exposure can indeed enhance your social intuition. Curious, how do you balance the player vibe with authentic connections?
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Post by maestro on Dec 10, 2023 1:42:09 GMT
The player vibe is useful when you approach and when building "social proof" in the venue however when you get into isolation with the girl or friends you just have to know when to turn off the high energy social guy and start to have a conversation. I'm not a complete expert at this as sometimes I do have trouble switching but if you've already merged sets and you're getting attraction you can just start having a conversation, I would say keep the player vibe for the most part but switch to "qualification".
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 11, 2023 14:59:03 GMT
It's a dance, knowing when to shift gears. Player vibe works upfront, but when you're in isolation, dial it down. By the way, what's the most challenging part for you when making that switch?
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Post by maestro on Dec 11, 2023 15:05:04 GMT
I think it's knowing when to dial down the high energy because if your in a conversation with a girl it can get annoying when your not willing to just listen and talk, I've messed this up before and you seem like a "dancing monkey" it's the equivalent of a "drunk girl" who just wants "to go and dance" all the time. Dial it down and enjoy that she wants to be in isolation with her, obviously this should be your chosen "target". If your doing anything active at this point it should be planned like creating a "jealousy plotline" which typically happens in C1 according to mystery. I.E. during isolation you merge her into a new group and pick a new target in the group or merge her into a previous group with a previous target or introduce her to a pawn or a pivot for example. Something to create jealousy but that doesn't mean to be a "dancing monkey" when in isolation. Cheers.
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 12, 2023 14:40:18 GMT
I hear you, and it's good to recognize the need for balance in interactions. It's essential to maintain a dynamic conversation, not just be a constant entertainer. Being attentive, actively listening, and showing genuine interest in what she has to say is key. Respect her space and enjoy the connection without overwhelming her with constant high energy. Keep it real and respectful, friend. Cheers!
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