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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 17, 2024 23:09:35 GMT
What's up Players. Today, was a pretty good day. Hit the mall, after sitting at home, bent on the couch, afraid to go out and approach. I finally decided to go out. I roamed around the mall and didn't really say much. Approach Anxiety had me F'dup. Well, I guess I said hello to a couple broads, and by a couple I mean literally two. Got rejected quick. Made me feel like i didn't have the juice. It was cold and I don't mean the weather. When I decided to go back home. The last girl I stopped was really nice, and kinda into me. Although she expressed she had a man, she profusely apologized and complimented me. I was trying to take here compliments on with gratitude, but all those other rejections had me kinda slumped and in my head. But i gotta say, it really did make my day. She was gorgeous with a pretty smile. Til next time, players. Trust the process.
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Post by JackZero on Jan 17, 2024 23:24:13 GMT
What's up Players. Today, was a pretty good day. Hit the mall, after sitting at home, bent on the couch, afraid to go out and approach. I finally decided to go out. I roamed around the mall and didn't really say much. Approach Anxiety had me F'dup. Well, I guess I said hello to a couple broads, and by a couple I mean literally two. Got rejected quick. Made me feel like i didn't have the juice. It was cold and I don't mean the weather. When I decided to go back home. The last girl I stopped was really nice, and kinda into me. Although she expressed she had a man, she profusely apologized and complimented me. I was trying to take here compliments on with gratitude, but all those other rejections had me kinda slumped and in my head. But i gotta say, it really did make my day. She was gorgeous with a pretty smile. Til next time, players. Trust the process. I'm not normally a person that would advise Hail Mary plays, but the last girl...I probably would have done one. I would have told her to take my number and if her man ever did anything to mess up that she could call me. I'd also say that I hope for you he doesn't mess up but for me, I hope he does. That's just me though.
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Post by maestro on Jan 18, 2024 6:00:55 GMT
Haha, hail mary play seems good!
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 19, 2024 23:45:36 GMT
What's up Players. I went out for a walk this evening after work. Went around the mall. My game started off slow. A little nervous. Saying hi to the girls i liked. It wasn't going too well. Then I said fuck it, and decided to just start saying hi to EVERY freakin' body I saw. Hey, it worked. Guess, that's what it took for me to get some exposure. I think what it was, is that I remembered some lyrics that made me think about why I'm out here, doing this. It was something about being relentless or something about doing what the rest are afraid to do. Something around those lines. Anyway, this is what happened. I gained a lotta confidence. I had a smile on my face like nothing can stop me now. It was a bunch of crash and burns. Butt it was the last girl I approached that made it all smooth landing. I meet tender woman, sitting all alone. I approached cautious cause I could've swore she was just waiting on her man. She was tall and thick. Way outta my league. Like an amazonian. Well anyway, I made contact and to my surprise, she was all smiles. A twinkle in her pretty eyes. I quickly got in to it and asked if there was a lucky guy and her response knocked me off my feet...she's actually into girls (she pointed at her rainbow wrist watch). And so my response was, "whaaaat that's great we have something in common" or something around those lines. She laughed. She had such a pretty face and smile. We spoke about this and that for awhile. It was peaceful. Of course, I kept flirting telling her things. These are the types of conversations i love getting into. Genuine and with a Beautiful woman. I can't lie, this amazonian had me feeling intimidated, but I kept bulldozing with it. So refreshing. As you can see players. This game goes up and down and neutral, maybe even all at the same time sometimes. You just never where it'll take you out who you will meet. Til next time. Enjoy the process.
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Post by maestro on Jan 20, 2024 5:29:13 GMT
Great job getting out there, do you do nightgame? I would say to dabble with that, I enjoyed reading this!
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 21, 2024 3:58:26 GMT
RANDOM THOUGHTS:
What's up Players. A good opener I liked to use, after the 'direct' introduction, is, just ask them anything that is important to YOU. Whatever it is for you to know something about this woman, that will help you in deciding if you'd continue the interaction with this woman or not. EXAMPLE: "What are you looking for?" - "I want a REAL MAN." Fellas, what exactly is a 'real man'? Have her describe what that means to her. Keep eye contact with her. If she stares back into your eyes...don't look away. A little advice: Don't be too in a hurry when you walk. Take your time. Move slower than the rest of the crowd walking about you. Say what's on your mind, be in the moment, be witty (opposite of funny) don't be afraid to make fun of her...one thing I might do, while she's talking, and we're pretty close, as she talking - I'll flinch and wipe my lip or cheeks (face whatever) as if she just "talked-spit" on me... Just because I feel like it (and don't break character). I think this is what some of you call a NEG. ....and about that, all these words like NEG or "demonstrate high value" and these other scientific non-sense....I dabbled in the whole 'seduction' thing for a while. I learned certain 'tricks' that women fall for. And so I used them. And in most situations they worked. Unfortunately, I quickly found out, as time passed, that these tricks or routines I used.... I had to "keep them up". In other words, I had to keep this 'act' up. Eventually, I realized that I'm at my best when I'm in my 'natural' mindset. And so when I stopped focusing on doing this or saying that or "opening a bunch of sets" to demonstrate social value (nobody cares) Instead, when I started to focus on what I wanted, when I focused on MY interests, and just being straight up with women, no gimmicks... my attractiveness just flowed... instead of manipulating women with 'tricks', I was able to communicate on a 'sexual' level, without lying to the bitch. I enjoy being around women. I get to learn a lot about myself. I could care less about "demonstrating status" or whatever the fffuck else she approves of or not. I'm the fucking prize. I'm here to qualify her, if she's fits MY lifestyle and MY program, then she can roll with me. If she doesn't flow with me.... I could care less if I don't ever see her again. Because as soon as I'm done with her, I'm on to the next one walking by. Fellas, there are plenty of other options out there (depending on where you are) we can't waiste our time crying over a salty bitch. SIDE NOTE SUGGESTION: Do a quick Google search of the gender makeup within your City. If it's more women to men. You live in a great place. Because women are competing for guys attention. If you live where there are more men than women, and you're noticing your success with women is low to none, you may need to travel or move, because there are very few women they have control, because they know they are in high demand. Same goes with equal between the two sexes (its a liiiittle difficult - but not as extreme as the latter where you may need to move our whatever) Back to my random thoughts: Don't manipulate women. What i mean by that is, don't act around women in a different way than you really are. "Buying flowers", "asking a woman out on a date", "opening the car door", etc. If you don't REALLY do any of these things...STOP doing them! Because you're just trying to be perceived as "I'm a NICE GUY..." I'm not saying that doing these things are not right or cool. I'm just saying, if you're not that guy, stop doing them to seem like somebody you're not. Be yourself and act within your own beliefs and values. Most of these ladies out here "in the field", got a built in radar that can detect your bullshit, and they will use you to the bitter... Since..."shit, he's buying, I'm taking"... Like a sucker, Just to please her like a little WUSSY. What I'm saying is, when you go outta your way and use the "buying flowers" or whatever the fuck, as a "I'm gonna use/do this stuff as a tool" to get something I want, it'll most likely backfire on ya'. Maybe not that night, but once you get that chick and weeks pass, maybe months or years later - they'll dump your ass because you're not really this NICE GUY you presented yourself to be, you coward. Be straight up with these hoe's. Not ALL women are nor do they think the same, fellas. They WILL all respond to you differently in every situation. The reality of how a particular woman will respond to you in any particular situation, will surprise you. It's all about taking that proverbial risk. Because we have a greater chance in getting a particular outcome, because of ALL the probabilities we are putting ourselves in, ya'dig. We ALL started from somewhere within our game capacity. YOU ARE right where you're supposed to be with this game. Like I stated before, or something around these lines (when I mentioned the women in your city) check it... Sometimes you may have to go places that may be 'out of your way' to get what you want. Nowadays, because of my past experience with meeting women, it kinda feels like I can somehow tell if 'it's not gonna work' with this girl and this interaction is as far as it's gonna go - because of all those past experiences. Even after years (maybe because I stopped) I still see me as "taking a risk"... But the reality is that THERE IS NO RISK! Because you cannot fail. Every step, every level you get to with this game; you become even more comfortable doing it again and again. The whole shit starts to change from a...you WON'T succeed, to figuring out that you 'almost' CANNOT NOT succeed. Because you're doing what you came for. Funny thing about all this experience is... It takes commitment and the willingness to make mistakes - don't worry about the short-term outcome, but rather the LESSONS and SKILLS being learned for the long-term. Until next time players. Enjoy the process.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 24, 2024 23:23:49 GMT
What's up Players. Another day out gaming. No big deal. Nothing to really mention. Today was laid-back. Lite conversations. Bunch of Hi's. Eye contact. I want you looks, etc. But how I felt comfortable throughout my interactions - is what is notable to recognize. I was Nonchalant. I probably could've closed this one girl. But you know what, I think I didn't go for it because I'm looking for something different. I don't want to put myself in another situation where I know I'm "not supposed to be here." Today, I was in charge. I was outside getting my social exposure. Preparing myself for my future. I hope you know the struggle. I had no plans. I just went out and Funny thing is, some of these girls said no, but I didn't feel down and shit. I felt ... Confident. I didn't feel rejected. Can you just imagen how many guys approached them today? If any... I just won't know. What we DO know...I approached. That's a reality. I entered her life, brought her into my reality. She may talk bad about me to her friends or I might be on her mind, or she might've forgotten all about me the second we departed ways. Whatever it may be. The attention I gave her is a blessing. That's how's I feel about my approaches. I'm a blessing. Especially in the morning, when they're unexpected. Night game is a whole nother animal. There's no telling how many fellas will or have approached her, that night. We could say the same about daygame, however, a lot of these people need liquid courage or the excuse of some extravagant wardrobe they just rented for the night, whatever. It takes a different set of balls to approach a broad in the day (not really) but I feel like you do need to jump through a bunch of hoops, in my opinion, in nightgame. Whatever game you enjoy, night or day...Enjoy the process.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 26, 2024 23:48:42 GMT
What's up Players. New day. Think I gotta scale it back a bit. My expectations are getting the best of me. Comparing my game or projecting "where I should be" to "what really is"; it's kiiinda getting to me. That shit kinda wears me out, ya dig. I'm just out here politicking, trying to get chose. I'm telling y'all the truth, but you don't hear me, because it all sounds absurd. But if you've done the work, you'd know these verses are no joke. You'd know what happens when you're out hollering at the girls. Strictly on that sarge. You see me, they see me. Once I tap into the "i don't give a shit" mindset, and start approaching every living thing; I will get farther quicker with this game. Why? Because a female has the advantage of numbers (guys approaching her) and since I don't have that option (X number of girls approaching me), I'm out here approaching broads and getting my experience level up. Against all odds. It gets wild. Even when I only get part of it right. Ohh Like this last chick; she had me so nervous, how fine this little bitch was, I didn't even do the formal thing or whatever, hah.. i just asked her to meet for a date... WHAT!? Hahaha, "experience". That was my first time at "closing". Well, I might be lying... This accident has happened before and I recovered. It just sucks, "in the moment". You know, the same ol shit, rejection. This addiction don't quit. I know it sounds crazy. I'm not lazy is what I mean. I'm chasing ladies in some boat shoes with no socks. Water bottle at had, cause it's hot in the day time. Don't act like you never practiced. I'm not acting. Most times, I'm flying and crashing. I'm just greedy. I approach women like I'm starving for the pussy, just kidding. I just pop up on a bitch like, "boo!" She gets startled, but talking back to me like "it's cool". I'm not lying. I'm starting to feel comfortable with this shit again. It's been a while since I've been out in the field. I'm getting back to my shit, tho. Of course..... Til next time players. Enjoy the process. It gets better.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 29, 2024 1:29:17 GMT
What's up Players. I went out this morning. Hollering at the ladies. I think my approach goals may be different for yours, because even though I'm not getting lays or phone numbers, those are not what I'm doing this for (it's a perk; but not a goal). I might be getting and writing overly excitedly about a simple human interaction, whereas for you it's no big deal. I'm not used to walking up to random females and expressing my interests, etc. Anyway, I gotta studio near my Sarge venue. So maybe one-day I can get a bitch to come over and kick-it. Maybe she won't, then again maybe they will. Back to today. Today was kinda sweet. I Tried a new game: "Excuse me; I saw you walking here, and I just had to come say, 'Hello', my name's Roman, by the way." I also practiced my walking, posture, confidence, etc. Meta girl from France. Got her Snapchat. Let's see where it lands. Til next time players. Enjoy the process.
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Post by JackZero on Jan 29, 2024 1:43:19 GMT
What's up Players. I went out this morning. Hollering at the ladies. I think my approach goals may be different for yours, because even though I'm not getting lays or phone numbers, those are not what I'm doing this for (it's a perk; but not a goal). I might be getting and writing overly excitedly about a simple human interaction, whereas for you it's no big deal. I'm not used to walking up to random females and expressing my interests, etc. Anyway, I gotta studio near my Sarge venue. So maybe one-day I can get a bitch to come over and kick-it. Maybe she won't, then again maybe they will. Back to today. Today was kinda sweet. I Tried a new game: "Excuse me; I saw you walking here, and I just had to come say, 'Hello', my name's Roman, by the way." I also practiced my walking, posture, confidence, etc. Meta girl from France. Got her Snapchat. Let's see where it lands. Til next time players. Enjoy the process. Since you've mentioned it...what is your goal in the human interaction? Is it just to have one or is it to lead one?
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Post by HipSoSlick on Jan 29, 2024 2:49:46 GMT
What's up Players. I went out this morning. Hollering at the ladies. I think my approach goals may be different for yours, because even though I'm not getting lays or phone numbers, those are not what I'm doing this for (it's a perk; but not a goal). I might be getting and writing overly excitedly about a simple human interaction, whereas for you it's no big deal. I'm not used to walking up to random females and expressing my interests, etc. Anyway, I gotta studio near my Sarge venue. So maybe one-day I can get a bitch to come over and kick-it. Maybe she won't, then again maybe they will. Back to today. Today was kinda sweet. I Tried a new game: "Excuse me; I saw you walking here, and I just had to come say, 'Hello', my name's Roman, by the way." I also practiced my walking, posture, confidence, etc. Meta girl from France. Got her Snapchat. Let's see where it lands. Til next time players. Enjoy the process. Since you've mentioned it...what is your goal in the human interaction? Is it just to have one or is it to lead one? Yeah, no worries. So when I'm out in the field, I'm not out there with the "objective" of getting laid or to meet my new girlfriend (if any of these things happen...GOOD, alright, awesome) my goal is to work on my social skills, my confidence, being relaxed, being playful, being non-needy; these are my goals when I interact. I want to radiat positive energy. I'm practicing. But the thing about this type of "practice" is like being a parent. When it happens, it's just happens. Hence, if I get laid or meet a new girlfriend in the process... I'll just have to roll with it.
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Post by JackZero on Jan 29, 2024 3:14:35 GMT
Since you've mentioned it...what is your goal in the human interaction? Is it just to have one or is it to lead one? Yeah, no worries. So when I'm out in the field, I'm not out there with the "objective" of getting laid or to meet my new girlfriend (if any of these things happen...GOOD, alright, awesome) my goal is to work on my social skills, my confidence, being relaxed, being playful, being non-needy; these are my goals when I interact. I want to radiat positive energy. I'm practicing. But the thing about this type of "practice" is like being a parent. When it happens, it's just happens. Hence, if I get laid or meet a new girlfriend in the process... I'll just have to roll with it. I asked the question because you said that you have a place nearby. That kind of hit close to home for me when I started getting serious about getting good with women. My apartment at the time was down the street from a shopping center and across the street from a club and on the other corner a starbucks. My goal was to get girls over to the starbucks during the day and at night get them to the balcony where they can see my bedroom light on. The ultimate goal was to have them see me as an attractive man and the secondary goal was to get them to come to my place. So when you say you live near the place that you approach women, I'm telling you to take advantage of those logistics. All you need is an excuse to get them in there for just a few minutes. Once you are able to do that, follow through with the promise of it only being a few minutes unless they want to stay longer. I pretty much guarantee that most of them will want to come back. TIP: Get interesting things that will catch their attention. I used to keep a copy of the kama sutra on top of my bookshelf. I keep the game cards vs. humanity on my coffee table. I have a wine rack that holds 8 bottles of wine. (TIP: TIP: Snoop Dogg's wine always starts a conversation and it actually tastes good.)
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Post by HipSoSlick on Feb 18, 2024 1:59:43 GMT
What's up Players. Yesterday, I decided to shake things up a bit and head to the mall after work. Even though I was feeling a bit nervous about approaching women, I pushed myself to get out of the house.
As I walked around, I mustered up the courage to compliment the first girl who passed by. It felt good to take that first step. Throughout the evening, I focused on being confident and friendly.
One moment that stood out was when I saw this cute girl taking a picture by a sculpture. I hesitated, she walked away before I could muster up the courage to approach her, and I lost sight of her in the crowd. But I didn't let that stop me from mingling with others and even chatting with a guy who was also working on his social skills or whatever.
While not every interaction went as planned, I appreciated the learning experience. I chatted with different women and enjoyed connecting with them, whether it was just a friendly hello or some quick remarks.
One conversation with a Latina woman was particularly enjoyable, even though it didn't lead to anything romantic. I complimented her on her body and she expressed the same to me and liked that we could have a genuine conversation.
Towards the end of the evening, I bumped into the girl from earlier again. Despite her being in a relationship, we had a nice long chat, and she appreciated and found it “refreshing” that I approached her.
Looking back on the night, I'm reminded of how good it feels when I put myself out there and enjoy the process, regardless of the outcome. Every interaction, whether successful or not, helps me grow and learn.
Here's to more adventures and learning experiences in the future! Peace!
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Post by maestro on Feb 18, 2024 15:55:37 GMT
Nice man! Don't forget to try out other "target rich" enviornments like bars, clubs and parties or even the street. You can learn alot more by interacting in these enviornments! Cheers.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Feb 18, 2024 21:29:38 GMT
Nice man! Don't forget to try out other "target rich" enviornments like bars, clubs and parties or even the street. You can learn alot more by interacting in these enviornments! Cheers. Hey there, Maestro! So, I gave the whole night game thing a shot, but honestly, it didn't quite vibe with me like daytime interactions do. I mean, it's just not my scene, you know? I'm more into the whole daytime vibe – hitting up the streets, doing my regular thing, and just casually chatting with women along the way. I mean, why not, right? Plus, I live close to an outdoor mall with heavy foot traffic (tourists & locals) – you never know who you might run into! So yeah, I guess you could say I prefer the daylight hustle over the nightlife scene any day. But I guess I could mix it up a bit once in a while. Appreciated!
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