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Post by HipSoSlick on Feb 18, 2024 21:42:05 GMT
What's up, Players! So, let's talk about kicking off those interactions, shall we? One opener I've found pretty effective is just diving straight into what matters to you. Ask her something that gives you a glimpse into who she is and whether she's someone you vibe with. For instance, toss out a question like, "What are you looking for?" and see where it takes you. And hey, if she throws back a response like "I want a REAL MAN," dig deeper. What does that even mean to her? Keep that eye contact locked in, too – it's all about that connection.
Now, here's a little tip: slow down, buddy. Take your time strolling around, let the world move a bit slower around you. Speak your mind, be present, and sprinkle in some wit (trust me, it's way more effective than just being funny). And don't be afraid to tease her a bit – like, when she's in the middle of chatting away, I may sneak in a fake flinch and wipe my cheek, as if she just sprayed me with her words. It's all about keeping things playful, right?
And let's get real for a sec – all that jargon about "demonstrating high value" and whatnot? Yeah, I've been there, done that. Tried the tricks & routines in the book, and sure, they worked... for a while. But here's the thing: you can't keep up an act forever. I found my groove when I ditched the scripts and just started being myself. No games, no gimmicks – just genuine connection. Because let's face it, I'm the catch here. It's all about finding someone who fits into my world, not the other way around.
Oh, and quick side note: do a little search on the dating scene in your city. More women than men? Jackpot. But if it's a sausage fest out there, you might wanna consider broadening your horizons to different cities. Just saying.
Bottom line? Don't be a phony. If you're not the type to shower a girl with flowers or open car doors, then don't force it. Be authentic, stick to your guns, and let the chips fall where they may. Because trust me, women can sniff out BS from a mile away. And when you try to play Mr. Nice Guy just to get in her panties? Yeah, it's gonna blow up in your face eventually.
Remember, every interaction is a learning experience. Embrace the journey, embrace the risks, and above all, enjoy the ride. You got this, players. Until next time, keep it real.
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Post by maestro on Feb 19, 2024 14:21:05 GMT
Nice man, you gave it a shot that's good. Just so you know most pickupartists say they don't really like bars and clubs but they just go for the practice, that's great that daygame works for you... You can always scope out the night scene and see which bars or clubs you find the coolest, nice job!
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Post by JackZero on Feb 20, 2024 0:37:58 GMT
What's up, Players! So, let's talk about kicking off those interactions, shall we? One opener I've found pretty effective is just diving straight into what matters to you. Ask her something that gives you a glimpse into who she is and whether she's someone you vibe with. For instance, toss out a question like, "What are you looking for?" and see where it takes you. And hey, if she throws back a response like "I want a REAL MAN," dig deeper. What does that even mean to her? Keep that eye contact locked in, too – it's all about that connection. Now, here's a little tip: slow down, buddy. Take your time strolling around, let the world move a bit slower around you. Speak your mind, be present, and sprinkle in some wit (trust me, it's way more effective than just being funny). And don't be afraid to tease her a bit – like, when she's in the middle of chatting away, I may sneak in a fake flinch and wipe my cheek, as if she just sprayed me with her words. It's all about keeping things playful, right? And let's get real for a sec – all that jargon about "demonstrating high value" and whatnot? Yeah, I've been there, done that. Tried the tricks & routines in the book, and sure, they worked... for a while. But here's the thing: you can't keep up an act forever. I found my groove when I ditched the scripts and just started being myself. No games, no gimmicks – just genuine connection. Because let's face it, I'm the catch here. It's all about finding someone who fits into my world, not the other way around. Oh, and quick side note: do a little search on the dating scene in your city. More women than men? Jackpot. But if it's a sausage fest out there, you might wanna consider broadening your horizons to different cities. Just saying. Bottom line? Don't be a phony. If you're not the type to shower a girl with flowers or open car doors, then don't force it. Be authentic, stick to your guns, and let the chips fall where they may. Because trust me, women can sniff out BS from a mile away. And when you try to play Mr. Nice Guy just to get in her panties? Yeah, it's gonna blow up in your face eventually. Remember, every interaction is a learning experience. Embrace the journey, embrace the risks, and above all, enjoy the ride. You got this, players. Until next time, keep it real. I'd swear that most of this is in line with exactly how I approach things. If you would have wrote this as it's own independent guide for approaching, I'd would have likely stickied it because it's simple, genuine, and more about you being good with yourself as opposed to being good with techniques and material.
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Post by guylikeshypnosis on Mar 8, 2024 11:39:39 GMT
What's up, Players! So, let's talk about kicking off those interactions, shall we? One opener I've found pretty effective is just diving straight into what matters to you. Ask her something that gives you a glimpse into who she is and whether she's someone you vibe with. For instance, toss out a question like, "What are you looking for?" and see where it takes you. And hey, if she throws back a response like "I want a REAL MAN," dig deeper. What does that even mean to her? Keep that eye contact locked in, too – it's all about that connection. Now, here's a little tip: slow down, buddy. Take your time strolling around, let the world move a bit slower around you. Speak your mind, be present, and sprinkle in some wit (trust me, it's way more effective than just being funny). And don't be afraid to tease her a bit – like, when she's in the middle of chatting away, I may sneak in a fake flinch and wipe my cheek, as if she just sprayed me with her words. It's all about keeping things playful, right? And let's get real for a sec – all that jargon about "demonstrating high value" and whatnot? Yeah, I've been there, done that. Tried the tricks & routines in the book, and sure, they worked... for a while. But here's the thing: you can't keep up an act forever. I found my groove when I ditched the scripts and just started being myself. No games, no gimmicks – just genuine connection. Because let's face it, I'm the catch here. It's all about finding someone who fits into my world, not the other way around. Oh, and quick side note: do a little search on the dating scene in your city. More women than men? Jackpot. But if it's a sausage fest out there, you might wanna consider broadening your horizons to different cities. Just saying. Bottom line? Don't be a phony. If you're not the type to shower a girl with flowers or open car doors, then don't force it. Be authentic, stick to your guns, and let the chips fall where they may. Because trust me, women can sniff out BS from a mile away. And when you try to play Mr. Nice Guy just to get in her panties? Yeah, it's gonna blow up in your face eventually. Remember, every interaction is a learning experience. Embrace the journey, embrace the risks, and above all, enjoy the ride. You got this, players. Until next time, keep it real. I'd swear that most of this is in line with exactly how I approach things. If you would have wrote this as it's own independent guide for approaching, I'd would have likely stickied it because it's simple, genuine, and more about you being good with yourself as opposed to being good with techniques and material. there's a conflict here. I know women can smell bullshit from a mile away, and that faking won't get anyone anywhere (consistently). But the fact is that for some people, being genuine is about being soft and clingy. Some people are just born that way. I'm not specifically adressing soft and clingy guys here, rather I'm trying to show you guys that a very high percentage of the guys don't have attractive characteristics when they're genuine. I've read Robert Greene's Seduction, it's written with the same 'genuinity' ideas. But when it comes to the bar, The Game and Speed Seduction will destroy RG. So here's the problem: some guys have unattractive characters ingrained on them. here's the easy fix: read Gurus and learn techniques. Here's the problem with the easy fix: that's not genuine, and if it's not genuine, it will create internal turmoil and mess up. So here's the ultra significant question: is there a way to become genuine with the easy fix? NLP and Psychotherapy believe that change is possible. So what if the aspiring-player studies the rules of the game and internalises it. In other words, makes it a part of what he is? if this question is answered well, everybody who reads this will become a mPUA with the right amount of work. if you guys have resourceful replies, fire them in. I've been messing with this question a lot not just for PU, but also for altering characters of procrastination and a lot of other bullshit we all carry around in our character. So far I've only struck at NLP as therapy is by definition an attempt for change. :-)
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Post by G-host on Mar 8, 2024 11:53:03 GMT
"Soft and clingy" haha at times that was one of my best qualities. She said "just own it", she wanted to be very wanted, possesed and MINE! Im not saying that thats how you should behave becuse many would run the other way from such neediness but there are exeptions.
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Post by guylikeshypnosis on Mar 8, 2024 11:57:26 GMT
What's up Players. Today, was a pretty good day. Hit the mall, after sitting at home, bent on the couch, afraid to go out and approach. I finally decided to go out. I roamed around the mall and didn't really say much. Approach Anxiety had me F'dup. Well, I guess I said hello to a couple broads, and by a couple I mean literally two. Got rejected quick. Made me feel like i didn't have the juice. It was cold and I don't mean the weather. When I decided to go back home. The last girl I stopped was really nice, and kinda into me. Although she expressed she had a man, she profusely apologized and complimented me. I was trying to take here compliments on with gratitude, but all those other rejections had me kinda slumped and in my head. But i gotta say, it really did make my day. She was gorgeous with a pretty smile. Til next time, players. Trust the process. There's a prooblem heeereee.... that's the informal introduction that's supposed to catch your attention. So, woman can smell BS from a mile away. agreed. (just quickly glance over this question) are you BS? (that's a deep question dude) (real deep) (but not the one you're to answer) here's the question you need to answer deeply: why are you not BS? as an individual, as a man, why are you not BS? the thing is, you sound like you're someone sick of sitting in your house and just 'trusting the process' because it gives you a fake delusion that makes you feel like you're not BS. (this is only a possibility) but if this possibility is true, if she can smell it from a mile away, your value drops to zero. till here is the prep that makes you think ----- now the content cum advice: There's a book by David Deida. The Way Of The Superior Man. Steal an online version and read the first chapters. It's about what I just prepped you on.
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Post by JackZero on Mar 8, 2024 16:46:17 GMT
I'd swear that most of this is in line with exactly how I approach things. If you would have wrote this as it's own independent guide for approaching, I'd would have likely stickied it because it's simple, genuine, and more about you being good with yourself as opposed to being good with techniques and material. there's a conflict here. I know women can smell bullshit from a mile away, and that faking won't get anyone anywhere (consistently). But the fact is that for some people, being genuine is about being soft and clingy. Some people are just born that way. I'm not specifically adressing soft and clingy guys here, rather I'm trying to show you guys that a very high percentage of the guys don't have attractive characteristics when they're genuine. I've read Robert Greene's Seduction, it's written with the same 'genuinity' ideas. But when it comes to the bar, The Game and Speed Seduction will destroy RG. So here's the problem: some guys have unattractive characters ingrained on them. here's the easy fix: read Gurus and learn techniques. Here's the problem with the easy fix: that's not genuine, and if it's not genuine, it will create internal turmoil and mess up. So here's the ultra significant question: is there a way to become genuine with the easy fix? NLP and Psychotherapy believe that change is possible. So what if the aspiring-player studies the rules of the game and internalises it. In other words, makes it a part of what he is? if this question is answered well, everybody who reads this will become a mPUA with the right amount of work. if you guys have resourceful replies, fire them in. I've been messing with this question a lot not just for PU, but also for altering characters of procrastination and a lot of other bullshit we all carry around in our character. So far I've only struck at NLP as therapy is by definition an attempt for change. :-) I must push back a bit here because you are implying something that was neither said nor implied, and given your newness, you likely haven't read much of the advice I would offer. Being genuine is authenticity, sincerity, and honesty in a person's thoughts, actions, and interactions with other people. No one has implied that it makes unattractive qualities as attractive(but it will give you a pass on some of those things). So let's to your ultra significant question: is there a way to become genuine with the easy fix? IMO, that's subjective because not everyone is the same, so easy may or may not fit the bill. However, if you go up to what I say what genuine is then you will see that there are certain qualities that it takes to being genuine. Do you believe that you can authentic, sincere, and honest in your thoughts, actions, and interactions? If you are being honest with yourself and recognize that you procrastinate, address why you do it, and execute a plan to stop doing it, do you really believe that you'll be someone who procrastinates? Do you think you'd be clingy if you followed that same template?
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 8, 2024 22:13:39 GMT
So here's the ultra significant question: is there a way to become genuine with the easy fix? NLP and Psychotherapy believe that change is possible. So what if the aspiring-player studies the rules of the game and internalises it. In other words, makes it a part of what he is? :-) The PickUp Community has sure come a long way since the days of "The Game" and with its wild MTV show era (early 2000s). Remember the days of YouTube stars “SimplePickUp” and now dead, “Fresh & Fit”? And let's not forget these now YouTube dudes with mics asking all sorts of bold questions to women. It's like everyone's a dating coach nowadays, right? Some of them are total clowns, doing anything for views, while others, like Fresh & Fit, try to keep it real but end up with bimbos promoting their OnlyFans. But you know what? Underneath all the hype, it's just about practicing until it becomes second nature. So yeah, while your question might sound deep, it's really just about putting in the hours until it's part of who you are.
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Post by guylikeshypnosis on Mar 9, 2024 2:51:16 GMT
So here's the ultra significant question: is there a way to become genuine with the easy fix? NLP and Psychotherapy believe that change is possible. So what if the aspiring-player studies the rules of the game and internalises it. In other words, makes it a part of what he is? :-) The PickUp Community has sure come a long way since the days of "The Game" and with its wild MTV show era (early 2000s). Remember the days of YouTube stars “SimplePickUp” and now dead, “Fresh & Fit”? And let's not forget these now YouTube dudes with mics asking all sorts of bold questions to women. It's like everyone's a dating coach nowadays, right? Some of them are total clowns, doing anything for views, while others, like Fresh & Fit, try to keep it real but end up with bimbos promoting their OnlyFans. But you know what? Underneath all the hype, it's just about practicing until it becomes second nature. So yeah, while your question might sound deep, it's really just about putting in the hours until it's part of who you are. Nice Answer. I guess that's why even mPUAs stop using techniques after a while. This was insightful. Gave me a ton of motivation to keep putting in the hours.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 21, 2024 0:16:21 GMT
What's up Players, just wrapped up the evening stroll at the mall, and man, was it an adventure! From complimenting cute tops to striking up conversations with some amazing women, I faced my shyness head-on. First stop? Approaching a girl who turned out to be younger than expected – oops! But hey, no harm done, right?
As the night went on, I got up the courage to chat with more ladies, I started sharing my honest intentions with them about overcoming anxiety and just putting myself out there. Surprisingly, most women weren't into making the first move themselves and even expressed they wouldn't even give you a sign that they are into you, which got me thinking: why wait for a sign when you can create your own opportunity, ya dig?
Met some lovely souls along the way, like this girl with an infectious smile who made me forget all about my nervousness or this fashionista whose style I just had to compliment. Then there was this mystery woman who kept popping up in my proximity – it was interesting to me - but it was too late when I noticed her and picked up on it - next time!
Of course, not every interaction was a home run. There was an awkward moment with the hot chick who seemed to recognize me from earlier – I was about to approach her, then I sideways smiled, and quickly pivoted! And hey, sometimes you strike out, like with the last lady who wasn't feeling the vibe. But you know what? That's all part of the journey.
So, here's to facing fears, embracing the unknown, and making every rejection just another chapter in the book of life. Cheers to a great day of growth and discovery – stay tuned for more adventures on here or on my YouTube channel!
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 25, 2024 1:24:40 GMT
Hey there, just another day out mingling in the wild! So, I spotted this girl chatting away on her phone, and couldn't resist giving her a quick compliment. Done with her. Then, boom, this stunning girl appears, also glued to her phone. We had this awkward encounter right smack in the middle of the crosswalk – interrupted her call, but hey, she actually stopped and acknowledged me. Quick meet-up, no biggie, just way out of my league - but hey, she was all smiles. You just never know!
Kept mashing. Approached a group of friends who could've walked straight out of Sex and the City. One girl was super high-energy, she dug the approach - but the responses were like “Aww how cute” type, ya dig. I shrugged it off.
Then, spotted a cutie snapping pics of a sculpture, gave it a shot, turns out she's taken – oh well, at least I tried.
Made my way to this adorable Haitian chick, greeted her with a smile, and got a nice response. Just out here, strolling around, trying to be chill and social. Testing the waters, seeing who vibes with me and vice versa.
Next up, a cute store clerk standing outside. She seemed into it, let's see where it leads. Gotta remember her name though, she teased me about forgetting it.
Approached this Indian-looking girl, all shy and sweet, but she's taken too. Asked my usual question to clear things up, right from the start. “Are you single?” If she's into me and single, she'd say yes, right? If she's single but says she is seeing someone, not my jam anyway. Honesty's the name of the game.
Had a funny encounter with a girl who kept walking as I introduced myself. Stood my ground, didn't chase after her. No sweat, onto the next.
And oh, I love mimicking a serious face when a lady's giving me the stink eye. Throw in a compliment, let her know I'm not intimidated. If she's not feeling it, no worries, I'll just move along.
Had a chat with another girl who seemed a bit thrown off by the approach, but she said it was cool. We shot the breeze about meeting people in public, etc. you know how it goes.
Keep on keeping on, folks. The dating scene and single life chasing girls is a rollercoaster, but it beats sitting at home twiddling our thumbs any day. Just out here honing my social skills, until next time! Peace!
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 26, 2024 1:39:11 GMT
Yo, what's up, fellas! So, once again, back to the streets. No fancy pickup lines or anything, just your basic "hi" and "nice to meet you" kind of stuff.
The first girl I approached, ignored me and kept walking past me. She was zoned out with her little earplugs on. So, lets just blame it on the music.
Then there was this girl walking by with...mmm...luscious lips. I told her she looked amazing, and she just turned around and said thanks, and kept on walking. Classic. Ya’ know how that goes!
Next up, spotted a blonde chick chilling by herself. Had to go say hi, especially with those mesmerizing hazel eyes. Turns out she's from Spain. We had a random chat; asked her if she'd ever make the first move on a guy or at least give him a hint and she was like, "Nah, not my style." Out of nowhere, these two girls show up. Her friends. They felt the same way. And this is why you gotta approach, because you just never know, ya dig.
Found another cute girl solo, and she was vibing with my approach, whatever. She was cute, with green eyes and pretty thick, like she plays volleyball.
Then I decided to mess around with these two older ladies. Joked about being out of their league and all that. They got a kick out of it.
Spotted a real head-turner from a distance and had to do a speedwalk to catch up. She was even better up close, though a tad older than I expected. Still, told her she was worth the chase, and she dug it.
Had a chat with a dude who dropped some wisdom about making girls feel safe when you approach them. I don't know, but it made sense, you know?
Encountered this girl walking past me with a serious "don't talk to me" face. Took a chance, turned around, and told her she was beautiful. Ended up getting a huge smile in return. We exchanged names and asked if there was a lucky guy in her life, and she said yes. I joked, "There's always a lucky guy!!" We shared a laugh and went our separate ways. It was a good day. Peace.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 26, 2024 23:00:42 GMT
Yo fellas, what's happening? So, today was a rollercoaster of a day! My approach anxiety was on overdrive, or maybe I was just being super picky. I wandered around, and the first girl I got up the courage to talk to was chilling with a friend, making it extra awkward. It was a bundle of nerves, trying out a new line, or whatever you wanna call it. It was one of those days, you know? But hey, I did it! I got out of my comfort zone and threw myself into the dating scene. So, even though I was not exactly feeling like Casanova, I'm proud I took the leap. Cheers to putting ourselves out there, right?
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 28, 2024 0:07:55 GMT
Just another day in the jungle, fellas!
So, I started the day with all those thoughts buzzing in my head about approaching someone – you know, the usual mental stuff. But I said screw it and decided to go for it anyway, focusing on just being in the moment and having real conversations.
First stop, this lady who seemed more into her kiosk than me. I peeped this, so I took it easy, turned it into a bit of a game, and then when I was done rambling, knowing she was not listening to a word I was saying, gracefully bowed out with a compliment. She brushed me off, you know how they do? Deep down, though, she was probably loving the attention, secretly thrilled, you know! Haha right.
Next, a cute girl walking my way. Gave her a quick compliment, and she turned around, we swapped names, and casually asked about her relationship status. Turns out, she's taken, but hey, no harm in trying, right?
Then, I chatted up a tourist. Small town girl with a guy somewhere unknown, but hey, practice makes perfect. Just enjoyed the moment and had a laid-back convo with her.
Tried to bulldoze on some tall amazonian ladies, as I was coming up close, they opened the store door, which opened out, and road blocked my approach!
Despite the good vibes, those annoying inner voices tried to mess with my head – you know, the whole "you're not ready" thing. Brushed 'em off and kept mashing.
Spotted a gorgeous Haitian girl with a cute smile. Turns out, she's happily taken, but we hit it off anyway. Sometimes it's just cool to connect, no strings attached.
Caught the eye of a mystery girl as she dashed out of a store. Tried to make a move, but she must've had some kind of Jedi sense because she must've spotted my body language and bolted the other way. Gotta respect the hustle, I guess.
All in all, not a bad day in the dating game. 'Til next time, players! Keep mashing! Peace.
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Post by HipSoSlick on Mar 28, 2024 23:30:45 GMT
What's up, fellas. So, today was just another day in my journey of figuring out the dating game. I was nervous and excited as I stepped out to approach women.
As I started this mission, I quickly encountered my adversary: approach anxiety. Those wicked thoughts, questioning whether if I was just being too picky or if I was just simply being fearful, this confusion in my mind was clouding my judgment.
Through it all, I remained calm and composed. I took small steps, trying to stay calm and confident, even though I was nervous as hell. Sadly, I didn't meet anyone interesting today, but I learned something valuable - sometimes the biggest win is overcoming personal struggles. Today, I conquered my shyness instead of getting a date. As the day ends, I'm excited about what tomorrow might bring. Each experience helps me grow more confident, both in love and self-discovery. Til next time players, keep mashing!
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