Post by maestro on Dec 16, 2023 23:18:37 GMT
I got out to another "public gathering", loads of sets to approach and I witnessed proximity in action. I love going out with other people but sometimes you fall into their games. That's why going out alone is a must! I like the gambit of name menomics. You carry a notepad and a pen:
Have them choose ten words and write them down:
1. sailor
2. dog
3.cat
4. tree
5. doors
6. sticks
7. Beer
8. House
9. Table
10. Church
You memorize this menomic scheme
1. Bun 2. Shoe 3. Tree 4.Door 5. Hive 6. Sticks 7. Heaven 8. Gate 9. Line 10. Hen
You then memorize their words by hooking a visual association to each word, it's easier than you think and you have them call out a number in any order and you can remember the word!
It's more of a psychological trick then a "magic trick", great for mixed sets or anyone you are sitting with. It may seem cheesy in print form but go out and "field test" it and you will see that it definetely sparks "interest!"
Another gambit I like is the "Elvis gambit"
"Did you know that Elvis dyed? "What he died? Ofcourse!"
"His hair, do you know what his original hair color was? "Black?" "No, it was dirty blonde! He never would have been famous if he didn't go bad boy and die his hair black! Crazy.."
Again it seems "cheesy" but once you use it in field you'll see how you can demonstrate "interest" that way..
I used frame control while in the set I was in and an adjacent set, a guy with his wife, the wife gave me the hair flip.
It's amazing how if you use these tactics in the set your in adjacent sets will "heat up"..
I got proximity from a waitress and lots of smiles and giggles form girls..
My biggest roadblock is if I want to take a girl to a hotel, I don't have the cash to spend on that but I want to be able to take a girl to a hotel and have a good time..
Until then I'm stuck having to get the girl to come about 30 min. away home with me, it's not impossible I've F closed a girl when I had to drive about 20 min. away when I was with "the gang"
I'm loving life and trying to live it to the fullest, never give up and never give in. Game on! Cheers.
Have them choose ten words and write them down:
1. sailor
2. dog
3.cat
4. tree
5. doors
6. sticks
7. Beer
8. House
9. Table
10. Church
You memorize this menomic scheme
1. Bun 2. Shoe 3. Tree 4.Door 5. Hive 6. Sticks 7. Heaven 8. Gate 9. Line 10. Hen
You then memorize their words by hooking a visual association to each word, it's easier than you think and you have them call out a number in any order and you can remember the word!
It's more of a psychological trick then a "magic trick", great for mixed sets or anyone you are sitting with. It may seem cheesy in print form but go out and "field test" it and you will see that it definetely sparks "interest!"
Another gambit I like is the "Elvis gambit"
"Did you know that Elvis dyed? "What he died? Ofcourse!"
"His hair, do you know what his original hair color was? "Black?" "No, it was dirty blonde! He never would have been famous if he didn't go bad boy and die his hair black! Crazy.."
Again it seems "cheesy" but once you use it in field you'll see how you can demonstrate "interest" that way..
I used frame control while in the set I was in and an adjacent set, a guy with his wife, the wife gave me the hair flip.
It's amazing how if you use these tactics in the set your in adjacent sets will "heat up"..
I got proximity from a waitress and lots of smiles and giggles form girls..
My biggest roadblock is if I want to take a girl to a hotel, I don't have the cash to spend on that but I want to be able to take a girl to a hotel and have a good time..
Until then I'm stuck having to get the girl to come about 30 min. away home with me, it's not impossible I've F closed a girl when I had to drive about 20 min. away when I was with "the gang"
I'm loving life and trying to live it to the fullest, never give up and never give in. Game on! Cheers.