Post by maestro on Jan 4, 2024 14:23:00 GMT
I went out at night awhoie back to a bar in the city, while I was there I was feeling pretty good and wanted to make an approach. Their were a couple groups around and mostly one big one in the back and I wanted to follow protocol and approach the group etc. but then a girl who seemed to be by herself arrived and was standing pretty much right in front of me while I was at the bar. I went up to go talk to her, I asked her if she was here by herself? We then had a pleasant conversation for awhile and I ejected to go open more sets. I then ended up befriending some of the guys in the big group at the back, there was a girl who was my type because she looked like a girl I hooked up with before, she was only a 6. While part of the group I went up and approached the girl and we talked a bit but it seemed like another guy from the group was already on it and I saw them making out later on. So I chilled with the group a bit and the girl I was talking to with before came up and started to hang out with the group. Ofcourse we smiled at each other and I told the other guys that I know her which I'm sure made me look cooler and maybe if the other girl saw it it could have helped. Anyways, that night that big group went to an afterparty and it seemed a little to far away so I bailed but I did open those two girls and make some new friends. I am posting it here so you could tell me what I could have done different? How could I have gotten either of those girls? Or should I have been opening more sets to build social proof and merging? I think if I would have merged etc. it would have made me seem lmore social. Any tips are welcome! Thank you.