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Post by G-host on Jan 4, 2024 15:37:49 GMT
Why is it so that the dudes who are sexually frustrated, become like that? I mean, they are the ones who really, REALLY want it. But the more they beg, the harder they NEED it, the further away it gets. Ive been there so im talking from experience. But i also remember a time when i was satisfied and i was just happily in the moment.. and then a beautiful woman who went by me (we were all alone there) and she smiled and sayed hello to me. Out of nowhere. I was chocked to be honest, didnt know what to make out of it. How do you guys, go into that "state"?
I have read a guote somewhere that said something about that when you are happily alone, everyone wants to be with you.
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Post by G-host on Jan 7, 2024 17:57:37 GMT
Maybe thats becuse of the law of attraction that states that you will get what you focus on.. If your focus is that you dont have it, the universe responds to you and gives you that exact experience. My advice? Relax and take it easy.
"To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders." - Lao Tzu
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Post by G-host on Jan 8, 2024 15:39:38 GMT
Another thing could be that the one who really wants it but doesnt get it, feels bad when thinking about it.. and the vibe he sends out just aint attractive to women, its nothing she wants to be around.
"Our thoughts and feelings influence our behaviors, choices, and ultimately, outcomes. Behaviors are our actions or the ways in which we present ourselves to others. Our behaviors outwardly reflect how we are feeling on the inside."
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Post by G-host on Jan 8, 2024 16:05:35 GMT
The solution? I found a quote that could formulate this better than i could - "When you love yourself, you receive more love in return. When you exude confidence and joy, you'll attract others with the same zest for living. This improves the quality of your relationships, which improves your life. The cycle is clear – and it all starts with falling in love with yourself."
Like a buddy of mine have spoken a few times - "Find out what you are good at and whats attractive about you, then build around that."
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Post by maestro on Jan 18, 2024 5:47:02 GMT
Law of Attraction is real, I like "The Secret" and as I've mentioned I keep the book on my bookshelf as a reminder. Have you read "The Science of Getting Rich" by Wallace D. Wattles? Believe it or not this was the book which inspired the writing of the secret and the terminology was used or expanded upon for it. You can find it for free.About your "vibe" when it comes to getting women focus on creating "attraction" and your vibe. When it comes to being succesful financially I reccomend "The Science of Getting Rich" for the mental part of it. It mentions not to try to set your will out to far without "action" to back it up. There's alot more to say about having a good "vibe" with woman which maybe I will put in another post..
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Post by Alex Penn on Jan 23, 2024 20:40:15 GMT
Why is it so that the dudes who are sexually frustrated, become like that? I mean, they are the ones who really, REALLY want it. But the more they beg, the harder they NEED it, the further away it gets. Ive been there so im talking from experience. But i also remember a time when i was satisfied and i was just happily in the moment.. and then a beautiful woman who went by me (we were all alone there) and she smiled and sayed hello to me. Out of nowhere. I was chocked to be honest, didnt know what to make out of it. How do you guys, go into that "state"? I have read a guote somewhere that said something about that when you are happily alone, everyone wants to be with you. The dynamic you've described is quite common and can be explained by several factors. When individuals become overly focused on their sexual desires, it can create a sense of desperation and neediness. This desperation can be sensed by others, making them less likely to engage in a connection. People generally find confidence and contentment attractive, while neediness can be a turn-off. When you were happily in the moment and received a positive interaction, it likely occurred because you were radiating positive energy and were more approachable. Others can sense when someone is content and not seeking validation desperately, making them more open to engaging with you. The quote you mentioned reflects this idea, when you're genuinely happy and at ease with yourself, you become more magnetic, drawing others towards you. It's about finding that balance between pursuing desires and maintaining a content, self-sufficient state. If someone finds themselves stuck in a cycle of sexual frustration, focusing on personal fulfillment, building confidence, and fostering a positive mindset can be transformative. When you are genuinely happy and fulfilled in your own life, you're more likely to attract positive connections naturally.
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