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Post by maestro on Apr 1, 2024 21:32:40 GMT
Thank you, yes I think being more flirtatious with both of these girls would of helped. Also if I could have conveyed that I was more social through opening other sets and just working the room more it would have worked out better. Thanks.
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Post by JackZero on Apr 2, 2024 0:06:33 GMT
Thank you, yes I think being more flirtatious with both of these girls would of helped. Also if I could have conveyed that I was more social through opening other sets and just working the room more it would have worked out better. Thanks. Why do you think that opening other sets and working the room would have worked out better? You had two girls that were giving you their time and then it sort of tapered out. I'm asking you these questions because I see where your sticking point is. You are leaning into your sticking point as if it's an advantage.
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Post by G-host on Apr 2, 2024 10:27:18 GMT
Thank you, yes I think being more flirtatious with both of these girls would of helped. Also if I could have conveyed that I was more social through opening other sets and just working the room more it would have worked out better. Thanks. I dont use Mystery method as you do but it seams logical to me not to play with the switches. Maybe you should try to turn them on and move on. I think also that when you are feeling your best, then being a guy of value comes across naturally. But having some tricks up in your sleeves wouldnt hurt.
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Post by G-host on Apr 2, 2024 16:51:37 GMT
I mean, if i were you, i would practice the attraction part becuse you seam to already be good at the social part.. by opening up groups and all. I think that thats enough, so how about focusing on the next step and the next, all the way into bed
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Post by maestro on Apr 2, 2024 19:39:08 GMT
Yea, man.. Mystery Method is tough but at least I know what the next step would be in most interactions. Thanks for the advice.
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Post by JackZero on Apr 3, 2024 1:21:04 GMT
Yea, man.. Mystery Method is tough but at least I know what the next step would be in most interactions. Thanks for the advice. Mystery method is fluff built on a solid foundation. If you get a girl, it isn't because of the Mystery Method. It's because of the foundation that it's built on. Attract-->Comfort-->Seduce. What Mystery does is puts you in the place to follow the foundation but it also puts you in the place of inefficiency. In all honesty, it seems that you are avoiding comfort. I'm not talking about PUA's incorrect approach to comfort. I'm talking about her being comfortable with what you are really there to offer her so that you can seduce her. This is where MM overcomplicates everything by making it linear as opposed to just being the attractive guy that she may go home with or meet up for a date. I am hoping that you get that the point is that seduction is about you, her, and the moment. The less time that you and her are together, the less likely you are to create that moment. Walking away from her to be social with other people when she is interested IS NOT seductive unless you both demonstrated that there is a mutual attraction so that she wants you to come back.
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Post by maestro on Apr 3, 2024 8:49:23 GMT
Exactly, I walked away from her where I think what I should have done is put her on my arm and said "Hey, let me introduce me to some of my friends. Good girl." The "friends" were just some guys I knew at the bar, this would have demonstrated my authority and created attraction. Not only that if there were girls in the next group I come in "pre-selected" and I could build a jealousy plotline in C1. Good stuff! Cheers.
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Post by G-host on Apr 3, 2024 17:22:36 GMT
You know what else i do to create a sphere like our own little world? I bond like this thrue sharing secrets
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Post by JackZero on Apr 3, 2024 19:09:34 GMT
Exactly, I walked away from her where I think what I should have done is put her on my arm and said "Hey, let me introduce me to some of my friends. Good girl." The "friends" were just some guys I knew at the bar, this would have demonstrated my authority and created attraction. Not only that if there were girls in the next group I come in "pre-selected" and I could build a jealousy plotline in C1. Good stuff! Cheers. You will have more success if you focus on the attraction between the two of you. If you are introducing her to other people to prove that you have authority, you are stepping away from what made you attractive to her in the first place. If you are introducing her to people because that is natural to who you are, it would be a continuation of what made you attractive. If you are bringing her into a group to show that you were pre-selected because of the other women to start a jealousy plotline, you are doing that to a woman that has already selected to be around you. Your plans are artificial when you are using them the way that you want to implement them. A girl that will like you because of preselection will have liked you before you introduced them. A girl that would be brought over to be introduced to your group will like you enough to allow for you to introduce them to the group. This is the fluff that I was talking about with MM. You are actually making a plan to introduce things that may or may not go over well. What happens when a guy in the group decides to shoot his shot with her? What happens when the girl doesn't like guys that surrounds himself with women? But you do know that when a girl flirts back with you is a girl that is showing that she's interested in you. You do know that when a girl is flirting back with you is permission for you to escalate. There is no reason to throw that permission out the door in order to get external validation from other people for her to see. So my questions to you are: Why do you need for all of the other fluff when you are already at an optimal point for increasing attraction one-on-one? What makes you desire to depend on other people's opinion of you to make yourself more attractive? Are you trying to use social tools because you are afraid that you are not good enough to attract a woman based on your personality and how you make her feel? I really hope you answer the questions honestly. One last thing for some insight. Mystery doesn't use the Mystery Method, so take that in.
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Post by G-host on Apr 14, 2024 17:14:55 GMT
Why dont you ask for her number or just ask her out? Seems reasonable after connecting with her a little and given her a sample of your magic
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Post by maestro on Apr 14, 2024 17:38:11 GMT
Thanks man, yeah I didn't go for a number close but on the second girl I could have definately got atleast her Instagram. On the first girl I probably would have had to work her a bit more to get that. Thanks!
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