After Hours Cambodian Restaurant & Takeout Pull

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This Lay Report takes place several months ago, Late Saturday Night on January 27, 2018.




This is a bit long, but that's only because i tried putting as much detail in this as possible. Very much like how i used to do my field reports on the old forum. And i've been writing this FOR A WHILE!!!..adding a little bit to this report (us much as i can remember)..not each and everyday, but almost everyday. I put alot of time and detail into this report to make it into a very good read. So when you read this, you will be able to know how i'm feeling at different times of the night, what i'm thinking, how i'm thinking, and what i saw along the way. I will also break down what some of the girls in my field report are doing, why they're doing it, and some female psychology behind their actions. As well as the other people around me. As you read..you will almost be able to put yourself in my shoes, and experience what i experienced on this night from start to finish. It's 100% real, honest, and raw. So be forewarned that this read ain't for the faint of heart. Just kidding. You'll be fine. LOl




Now on to the report!




A sticking point that i have been working on lately is "approaching groups". I'm focusing on this in particular because i understand that most chicks aren't lone rangers, especially if she is a hot girl. Sure..there are some chicks that are out alone, but those kind of chicks are not in abundance at bars & clubs. What you will usually see an abundance of is..groups of girls, and girl & guy groups (mixed sets) at bars & clubs. By not hitting up girls in groups..you're taking alot of potential pussy off of your table. My boys that i game with do talk to girls in groups, but they tend to mainly look for lone girls. Probably because it's just easier, and they don't have to worry about her cock blocking friends fucking it up for them and their target. But still..by not hitting up girls in groups, you're severely limiting your options. Plus there is an added bonus of gaining better social skills when it comes to interacting with people in groups, coming from a self-development perspective.





I Makeout & Number Close Some Tall HB8.8 Brunette At The Tiki Bar




I walk into the Tiki Bar and i see a 3-Set (2 Girls & 1 Guy) standing next to the bar. I don't remember what i opened the group with, but whatever it was..it got their attention. If i could go back in time and open up that group set again, and i usually like to use situational openers..it would be something like; "Excuse me..are you guys gonna let me through", since i was trying to get to the bar counter and they were crowding it. So i probably opened them with a similar opener to that one. They probably looked at me with some surprise. I just smiled and laughed, while telling them that "I'm just kidding!". I introduced myself to all 3 of them very soon after my opener and shook all their hands. I saw one of the girls step away and stand next to the guy, and they gave each other a hug and a kiss. So i assumed they were girlfriend & boyfriend. The lone girl of the group (a tall HB8.8 Brunette) confirmed that the two are a couple when i asked her. I took this moment to isolate her from the couple. I didn't move her because i didn't have to, the couple just kinda left me and the tall HB8.8 Brunette to talk amongst ourselves. We re-introduced ourselves to each other, and shook hands after i asked her "I'm sorry, what was your name again?", since i already forgot it (i know that some of you reading this can relate to me on this..when you forget the girl's name after she just told you what it was, like a minute ago. Don't worry, it happens to me too. lol). I held onto her hand after shaking it, and i realized that she didn't pull it away from my grip. She just let me hold onto her hand, as i continued talking to her. And i knew exactly what that meant. For some of you guys..this might seem too cringing and nerve-racking of a thing to try..especially to a hot girl as you are talking to her face to face, while you're looking at her dead in the eyes. It's definitely a bold move and takes confidence to do this for sure. It also creates tension for the both of you (for you and the girl). But this is a very useful non-verbal compliance technique (that i use) that you should use from time to time, to test how DTF that the girl is for you, without asking her or her actually telling you how DTF that she is for you. I learned early on, that if you shake a girl's hand and she lets you hold onto her hand and doesn't pull it away from you..she is not only DTF, but she is really into you. And this girl was definitely really into me. The sexual escalation had already begun! 





I asked her if she had a boyfriend, and she said "No, i'm single". I could also tell earlier on (in the beginning, when i first approached this group set) that she was bored and was looking for some fun with a guy (since she was the single one in the group). I did make strong eye contact with this hot girl, the entire time that i was interacting with her. But i also looked away from her (for a few seconds in duration) at different times in the interaction while she was talking to me. Each time that i purposely used this on her (a subtle active disinterest body language technique that i've been using alot lately), it is designed to get her chasing me more. This is a non-verbal body language technique that i'm doing to her on purpose..it's demonstrating to the girl that i am already entitled to her, and that i neither need nor am i seeking her approval. She takes the bait. I look back over to her after using this non-verbal body language technique on her a few times in succession..and she is now very close to me in proximity to where she was standing at before. This technique brought her closer to me physically, whether she was aware of it or not. I noticed that she had pretty red lips. So i told her "You have pretty lips" or something like that. She responds back with: "Thank you". If i can describe to you how her facial expression is looking like right now..she has the "bedroom eyes", and she looks like she wants to fuck me right where i stand. And since i was on the subject of her lips..i went straight into asking her; "Are you a good kisser?". I think she says "Yes". I pull her close to me with my hands on her middle back area. Right now, her face is only just a couple inches from my face. We just slowly and deliberately close in further, our lips touch, and we makeout. Everything that i just described that i did to her..from the hand shake at the very beginning..to now the makeout..this is my "rapid verbal & physical escalation" process, for anyone who wants to know how i do it. I just explained to you exactly how i do it..in great detail! I lie to you not..it probably was no more than 5 to 7 minutes ago when i just began talking to this random hot chick, and now i'm making out with her. Her lips, and her tongue moving around on my tongue in my mouth, felt so good too. It also felt like time stopped while me and this hot brunette was making out heavily.





Somehow, when i slightly crack my eyes open as i'm making out with this girl..i can see the haters in my peripherals just leering at us (it's mostly dudes). I'm aware that those dudes that are staring at us, probably wish that they was making out with this gorgeous brunette chick right now. But they are too chicken shit to approach her, so i did it for them. Too bad guys.  This could be you making out with this hot chick right now, but you all were too chicken shit to approach. I did approach, so this is what reaping the benefits looks like when you just man up and approach the girl. This is the whole meaning behind my signature that you see at the bottom of all of my posts. You only reap the benefits when you man up and approach the girl, ALWAYS!





This immediately put me "in state". I whispered some stuff in her ear to escalate things even further sexually like; "I can make your body feel real good tonight!" (With that statement of sexual intent..i'm seeding the pull, letting her know that i want to see her at her house later on). Her response to that was "Oh..Really?" in a turned on tone of voice. I asked her where she lived. She lives on a college campus uptown from downtown, which was very manageable logistics for me (meaning that it would be easy enough for me to get there). Her friends were about to leave the Tiki Bar, so i got her number before she left. She said: "Call me later". Then she left. She is a potential booty call for me tonight. 





My Last Couple Of Sets At The Tiki Bar, Including An HB8.6 Brunette Who Has A Boyfriend




I had a couple more interactions in the Tiki Bar before i left..including an interaction with another brunette sitting down alone at the last table booth (There were like 3 of the table booths, lined up back to back, on my right side, as i was walking down the hall). I compliment on her winter hat (the ones with the fuzzy ball at the top of it). We'll call her HB Cool Winter Hat. And i also said to her; "I saw you sitting here by yourself, i thought you was cute, and thought i'll chat with you for a little bit". My opener was direct. She was receptive, smiled and said "Thank you, Hi". I sat down and start chatting her up. She had the facial expression of that skeptical look on her face. Alot of times, that would phase me and i would show a little reactiveness to whenever a girl gives me that look..that would usually reveal itself in the form of some hesitation in my speaking, and a few "Ummmms" (because this is the point where you're doing most of the talking until she hooks). Which i did do that with this girl, but i was still "in-state" from the makeout that i had just moments ago with the HB8.8 Brunette in the previous set. So it still didn't really matter. It's amazing how being "in-state" rights alot of wrongs for you, even if you're making mistakes in your interaction with the girl, that in any other time..she would be unforgiving for those mistakes that you're making with her. Not too long into the set..HB Cool Winter Hat told me; "Please don't take this the wrong way, i just don't want to lead you on because i have a boyfriend". I heard her, but i was non-reactive to what she had just said to me and just kept talking. I asked her "Who else is here with you?". She told me that she was here with her friends. She physically pointed to them..which they were just hanging out at the bar adjacent to where me and her was sitting at in the 3rd table booth. Her boyfriend was in the group as well. Even with all of those obstacles in mind, i still plowed forward with my interaction with her anyway. And it's not even because i was necessarily trying to get her. Deep down..i honestly appreciated her beauty and her personality. I wanted to be present with her and show her my appreciation for her by getting to know her in this short time period that i had with her. And not ejecting just because her friends and her boyfriend was right there.





Our conversation mostly consisted of us answering each other's questions like: "Where are you from?" "What do you do for a living?" "What do you do for fun?" What brings you out tonight?" "What do you like to eat?"..etc. And in between those i was joking with her, teasing her, and telling her some stories. All of those things DHV'd me of course. And one thing that i noticed from her body language and facial expressions was that she really seemed like she was very present and enjoying my company, like i was enjoying hers. It's very important to realize that when she told me that she has a boyfriend and she didn't want to lead me on..it was legit..but she had to put it out there, more for herself than for me. She did that so that she wouldn't take the responsibility of her feeling guilty for flirting with me, by putting the boyfriend out there. And since i acknowledged the fact that i understood that she has a boyfriend and that nothing was going to go further between me and her..now she feels okay to flirt with me and enjoy my company. It's very important for guys to realize this about women when it comes to them having a boyfriend. It's not that they still won't fuck you even though they have a boyfriend..it's that they don't want the responsibility of possibly cheating on her boyfriend with you. The girl wants you to bear the brunt of the responsibility, so that she can justify her cheating by explaining it to her boyfriend..something along the lines of "I told him that i had a boyfriend, but he just wouldn't leave me alone and take no for an answer! He took advantage of me, i was drunk and he made me have sex with him". This is called plausible deniability. This is how women think and operate when it comes to the subject of them cheating on their boyfriend or husband, with another man. So guys, understand this and be ready to take the ownest of the responsibility if you're going to try to get a girl to cheat on her boyfriend.





The boyfriend pops into the bench seat at the table booth that me and his girlfriend was sitting at. But he sits next to her, i'm sitting across the table from both of them. He asks me; "Who are you?", and of course i told him who i was and introduced myself. He was cool enough, but his tone was kinda douchy. One of his guy friends pops into this set. He was standing near to where i was sitting down. HB8.6 Cool Winter Hat's boyfriend asked me who do i think would win in some game that i guess they played earlier at their crib (i think it was beer pong, not really sure). "Just from looking at us, who do you think would win? Him or me?". I said it looked like the friend would beat him. "What!..Really? I resent that. You really think that he can beat me? You're an asshole.". I don't know either of those 2 fuckers from a can of paint and i've never seen them play against each other. I don't really know who would beat who, nor do i really care. HB8.6 Cool Winter Hat's boyfriend got a little butt hurt that i thought his friend would beat him. I told him; "Hey man you asked me who do i think would win between the 2 of you in a game of beer pong, based on looks. And he just looks like he'll beat you. You asked me the question, and i gave you my honest answer. Lol". He was qualifying himself by explaining to me how good he was at the game and how he always wins. I unintentionally tooled him. I sincerely believed that his friend would beat him if they played the game, i just made a random read of both of them, i really don't give a shit who would win their stupid game. The guy friend who was standing near me..i think he said "Dude i already beat you 3 out of 4 times in beer pong today. You only beat me the one time! He called it. Don't be mad at him just because he called it out". It turns out that i guessed right Lol. Of course their argument was all in fun. He was laughing at HB8.6 Cool Winter Hat's boyfriend's obvious butt hurt reaction to losing to him 3 out of 4 times in beer pong, as well as me calling it out and guessing right. He then walks back to their friends. Now the boyfriend is asking me some questions like; "What do you do?" "How much money do you make..etc etc?" "Who the hell are you really?" "What do you know about blah blah blah?" (random bullshit).  He tried to put me on the spot and tried to make me look bad with these kind of questions that he was asking me, since he had just lost face in front of his girlfriend..partly due to me (in other words..he DLV'd in front of his girlfriend). I looked over to HB8.6 Cool Winter Hat, and she was looking away from him into a menu. Her body language said it all. Damn! Someone might be sleeping on the couch tonight lol.  In another failed attempt to try to embarrass me in front of his girl, he tried to get me to do something for him (i forget what it was). I just straight up said "No" sarcastically, and laughed at him as i got up and left the table to go to the dance floor room. Even though i didn't get the girl (and i wasn't really trying to since the boyfriend was there), the boyfriend took the "L" in front of his girl in that little fun face-off that we just had. That was interesting, but it also was also another ego booster for me. Not only did i makeout with a hot chick, but i flirted with some dudes girl, and the boyfriend ended up looking like the tool after he tried to tool me. I'm lining up the "W's right now! 





I Leave The Tiki Bar & Meet Up With My Boy Jeff




I go over to the dance floor room. Most if not all of the girls there, was dancing with a dude or with a group of their friends. So i turned around and headed for the exit. I leave the Tiki bar and head over to the bar/dance club where my boy Jeff was. I texted him to come outside since i was waiting for him outside. I believe he texted me back. But it's usually hard to get him to come out of there, as that is a venue that he pulled a few girls from. Good luck trying to get a dude to come out of a bar or dance club that he pulled at a few times before, even if you and him are boys. He has to come out eventually anyways since it is closing soon. It's almost 2:00 am right now.





Jeff eventually comes out. We're hanging out on the sidewalk outside of the dance club where he was at. We're talking about all kinds of things..including some ideas of content that we had for creating youtube videos in the future (whether that will actually happen or not is very debatable). It's still very much just in the ideas & concept phase right now. But we don't really talk about it a whole lot, and there's alot of things that need to come together for it to happen. Anyways..he also tells me about how his night went, and i tell him about how my night went as well. I tell him about the hot HB8.8 Brunette Chick at The Tiki Bar that i madeout with a little over a half hour ago. And that when i called her number, it wasn't even a working number.  I still felt good about the makeout with her, but i was a little bit disappointed that the possible booty call with her was off the table now. Had she gave me the right number..that booty call had real potential since i knew exactly where she was staying at (at a college campus uptown). Jeff told me not to worry about it. "Fuck these girls..and fuck these lame dudes that they end up with. It's all cliche dude." I recognize that he usually says this when he's not having a particularly good night, and he didn't get the results that he wanted or expected to get that night. This is a little bit of an entitled attitude coming from him, but that's my boy though, i love that dude (no homo lol). I just let him vent and i just agreed with everything that he had to say about it. I kinda wanted to sit down (since i was getting tired of just standing up, leaning against the wall outside of the club). So i said "Let's go to the Cambodian restaurant and sit down inside"





We Walk Inside Of The Cambodian Restaurant




Me and Jeff walk into the Cambodian restaurant, and we decide to sit at at table to the left side of the room. Once we get to the table..i see this cute light-skinned girl, sitting on the floor against the wall. It looked like she was charging her phone.





I Tell The Girl To Sit At Our Table




Jeff and i was still talking. I was trying my best to listen to him, but i couldn't stop looking back at the cute girl sitting on the floor charging her phone. Part of this was because i'm not just checking her out, but i keep looking in her direction to see if anybody was with her. Jeff notices that i kept repeatedly looking back at the girl sitting on the floor. He now looks at her too and stops talking. I lower my volume of voice a little bit and say to Jeff;




Me: "You see that girl sitting on the floor right over there?"


Jeff: "Yeah."


Me: "I think ima approach her."


Jeff: "You should do it man."




She was about 4 to 5 feet in proximity to where me and Jeff was at the table. I walk a couple of steps toward her. She might've had ear phones in her ears because she barely noticed that i was approaching her. I tap her and say something to her to the effect of.




Me: "Hey, excuse me..Hi."


HB: "Yeah...Hi" (She snaps out of whatever zone that she was in, and looks at me only briefly, but she does it slowly and non-chalantly. She's also looking around while i'm talking to her)




I look back at Jeff and he makes a look on his face that says to me "She's a waste of time bro". Her re-action is typical of cute/hot girls. You guys already know what i'm talking about, if you approach cute & hot girls whenever you go out. RSD calls this attitude or reaction that these kind of girls tend to have whenever they are approached and are hit with an opener, "Hot Girl Blase". It's almost as if your opener doesn't even register to these girls. The way that i can describe it is, it's as if when you opened her..all the girl heard was a noise. She looks up and around briefly, and then goes back to whatever that she was doing. These kind of girls you have to open more than once. The initial opener doesn't even count in most cases with these girls. This is where the genius of pickup..Alex Social's "4 Times Rule" would come into play, because you will usually have to approach these types of girls more than once to fully get their attention and to even hook them.




Jeff: (Jeff started talking to me again about something else)


Me: (I don't even know what the fuck Jeff just said, because i wasn't even paying attention to him! Lol I'm distracted by the girl who's sitting on floor against the wall, charging her phone. I'm still thinking about what i'm going to say when i re-approach her again. lol)




So as Jeff is talking to me, in my head..i say "Fuck it, i'm going to approach her again". I'm already in close proximity to the girl, so i take a couple of steps back over to her and say...




Me: "I like your coat, it looks nice." (She looks back up at me again, still with the same nonchalant demeanor again. lol)


HB: "Huh?...What did you say?" (I don't think that my voice was really that low. I just think that i still have not snapped her out of that "Hot Girl Blase" mode that she's still in. Also too..i think that she might've been listening to some music with her earphones on)


Me: "I said..i like your coat, it very nice. It looks good on you." (i said this in a louder voice than before. I didn't raise my pitch just my volume slightly)


HB: "Thank..you, i really appreciate that." (She smiles now)




There are 2 dots between "Thank" and "You" because she said it slowly and long, in a slur. She's intoxicated. Lol




HB: "Who are you? What's..your..name?" (More sluring. She's showing interest in me now and is alot more receptive than she was when i opened her previously)




I noticed that she get's up from sitting on the floor to ask me those questions. She even leans forward to me when she asked me those questions. That's a good sign, because her body language is showing me that she's putting forth effort into wanting to find out who i am. This is a HUGE indicator of interest (a HUGE ioi)




Me: "I'm GFRESH2DEF" (I used my real name of course. lol)




I reach out for her hand to shake it as we are greeting each other.




HB: "Ok..Hi GFRESH2DEF..It's Nice To Meet You."




Me and Jeff finally sit down at the table. I notice her indicators of interest, so i immediately jump on the escalation window, and just straight up ask her to sit down at the table with us.




Me: "Come sit down and talk with us, i promise..we're real cool guys" (I used the words "i promise..we're real cool guys" to qualify Jeff and myself. To let her know that we are "fun", "cool", "safe", and "okay". That phrase "i promise..we're real cool guys" makes her feel comfortable and trust us enough to come join us at our table and talk to us)


HB: "Ok..hold on, gimme a second."




She gathers her things (her phone, charger, her purse, and maybe some ear phones), and stands up. She puts most of her stuff in her purse and the rest in her coat pocket (her ear phones). When she's done doing all of that..she pulls out a chair at our table, and sits down across the table from Jeff, and adjacent to me.





She's wearing skin tight black jean pants with a couple of cuts in them (for style), ankle high - black leather high heel ankle boots, a white coat, and maybe a blue or red shirt underneath it (probably a tank top). She's cute as hell!  This is the girl that i mentioned in this post from the old forum (http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/introduce-yourself/reintroducing-myself-vt208728.html). She was so fucking hot. She was nearly a 9, so i will give her an 8.9 out of 10.
I know..i'm being stingy with the looks rating Lol. 





This Girl Is Demanding & A Little Bit Entitled, But I Think I Have Just What She Needs!!!!




She's sitting down at the table with me and Jeff right now. She's asking me and Jeff some questions like; "What's your names?" and "Where are you guys from?..Blah..Blah..Blah". We basically ask her some of the same questions + some other questions. She tells us that her name is "Marlie" (It's not her real name. I'm just substituting "Marlie" for her real name, to keep her real identity anonymous). I qualified her by telling her that...




Me: "You seem like a really cool girl, we should hangout!"
(A qualifying statement. I'm qualifying her)


HB8.9 Marlie: "Yeah..let me add you to my Instagram & Snapchat!"


Me: "I don't have Snapchat or Instagram, but i do have Facebook."


Me: "Add Me."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Okay."




I take her phone, and i type in my profile name in the Facebook search bar. It brought up my profile, and i clicked on "Add Friend". So now a friend request has been sent to my inbox. So all i have to do is when i get back home, open my laptop, go in my yahoo email, open her friend request email to me, and click on the "Confirm Request" button (i could do the same thing from my phone too, but for whatever reason i like doing it on my laptop once i get home. I guess you can call it OCD. lol). Even though i hate Facebook closes (because most of the chicks that i Facebook close, don't respond back to my private messages on Facebook), i still do it anyway because that's the one that i do have of the three (Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook). I'll probably end up getting the other 2 at some point anyway. I also use Facebook as social proof, and to pull up the Facebook pics of the girls that i fucked before (Oh yeah..i do that. lol), when i'm bragging to my guy friends. I "Add Myself" on her phone because if i "Add Her" on my phone..there's a good chance that she will forget or just not even accept my friend request. I also get her phone number too while i'm at it. I don't give her my number because again..she may either forget or just not call me. When it came to number closing..that was a big mistake that i made for a very long time (for my entire first 2 years + in pickup  ) when i was a newbie. Girls don't usually take the initiative to be the one to message you or call you first. And i call her phone, to make sure that my number is ringing her phone. This way..you can find out for sure if the number that she gave you is real. I can't tell you how many good leads that i've lost over the years, because i added the girl as a Facebook Friend from my phone (instead of adding myself as a Facebook Friend from her phone) and she flakes..or because..i gave her my number (instead of getting hers) and she flakes..or because..i got her number and just saved it into my contacts as just her name without adding to the name the name of the place where i met her at (Bad example of a girl saved in my contacts.."Name:Teresa"..no good, i won't remember who she is when i see her name in my contacts. Good example of a girl's name saved into my contacts.."Name:Teresa - Downtown Bagel Shop"..this is good, now i will remember who she was when i see her name in my contacts) and as a result of that..i look into my contacts, i see the girl's name, but i can't remember who the fuck she is or how i met her. DUDE, I WAS TERRIBLE!  By doing everything that i put in parentheses, i'm killing at least 3 birds with 1 stone, thus limiting my amount of flakes whenever i facebook close, or number close a girl. So not doing what i highlighted in parentheses, that you should be doing whenever you are facebook or number closing girls..you are not leading and falling into the girls' frame. So if you do that, you're being beta and deserve to be flaked on.





We're making rapport with her for a few minutes. There are also some moments of silence in between us talking, and she suddenly says...




HB8.9 Marlie: "Uuhhhhh..i want some beeeeer!" (She says this after she lets out a long yawn)


Me: "Seriously..You want some beer right now?" (I probably had a WTF!!  look on my face when i asked her this)




I had a WTF!! reaction to what she said, because we were not in a place that serves beer. My first thought about what she said was: "Do you know where the fuck we are right now girl!? We're not at a bar, we're at a Cambodian restaurant!". My second thought about what she said was: "This girl not only lacks some self-awareness, but she's acting a little bit self-entitled." "Does this girl really expects one of us to just jump up, run outside to a bar down the street, buy a bottle of beer, and run back to the restaurant with it in hand just for her to drink it..just because that's what she says she wants??...Fuck That!"




Me: "All the bars are closed right now." (Because it's passed 2:00 am, and all the bars are closed right now. I still have the WTF!! look on my face. Lol)


HB8.9 Marlie: "I don't care..i just want some beeeeer!" (She kinda throws a little bit of a fit. And then rests her head into the palm of her hand of the same arm that's standing upright from the elbow on top of the table..she looks like she's bored basically)




My fortuitous luck would have it that my roommate always stocks beer into our refrigerator. And i stashed 2 of her cold un-opened beer bottles into 2 of my inside pockets of my leather jacket, before i left the house several hours ago (i probably left the house somewhere between 10 pm & 11 pm). Each one of those 2 beer bottles fit into each one of my 2 inside jacket pockets, nice and snugly. I did this because..i still wanted to drink at the bars tonight, but i also wanted to save some money. So having a couple of beers with me already when i walk into a bar tonight..would help me to do just that. And i obviously had to stash them in my inside jacket pockets, to get them passed the doorman after i showed him my ID. So that's what i did. However..i already drank one of those beers at the Tiki Bar that i was at earlier tonight. But..i still had one more un-opened beer bottle still stashed inside one of my other inside jacket pockets. I think that both of them were Coors Lights. So with this fact in mind, i ask Marlie...




Me: "Does it matter which brand of beer it is?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "No it doesn't matter!..i just want beer!"


Me: "Ok, i got you girl."




I grab the last unopened bottle of beer from one of my inside pockets of my leather jacket. I opened the bottle cap and handed it over to her.





Jeff saw what i just did, and he looked stunned! The look on his face said it all to me. His facial expression definitely said to me "What The Fuck!? How did you just happen to all of a sudden pull a random bottle of beer from out of your jacket, right after the girl just said that she wanted some beer to drink?" LOL




HB8.9 Marlie: "Thank you!" (She grabs the now opened bottle of Coors Light beer from my hand, takes a long sip of it, and smiles as she stares at me)




I see the look on her face, and i knew that i had her hooked now. I didn't necessarily think that it was on between me and Marlie at this point, but i knew that i had her compliance now. I basically had more of her trust and comfort now, because of that clutch move that i just literally pulled out of the hat (in this case..out of my inside jacket pocket). Jeff is concerned that her drinking a bottle of beer in this non-alcohol serving restaurant, will get us in trouble.




Jeff: "You should put that away. She's drinking beer in a restaurant that doesn't serve any beer at all. If she get's caught, we could all get kicked out"


Me: "Nah dude, it'll be fine. It's only one bottle of beer. And if we do get caught with it..we'll just quickly guzzle it down and toss it in the garbage (i look at her, and she makes strong eye contact with me, and gives me a smile of acknowledgement).




I tell Marlie that she can keep drinking it, but just hide it under the table. I tell her to let me get a sip of it. She hands it back over to me. I take a good sip of it and give it back to her. Me and her have a little moment over here. Not only are we interacting with each other..but we are sharing something together, and we're drinking with each other (With both of us being okay with both of our lips being on the same beer bottle. This is a comfort spike that i have to be aware of). Also, i'm leading her when i asked her to hand over the beer back to me, so i can take a sip of it. I also took this moment of high compliance, trust, and comfort from her for me..to take the opportunity to do some kino on her.




Me: "I think your boots are so cool looking. Is that real leather texture, Can i touch it?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "Sure, i don't care if you do."




I grab her foot and feel on and around her boot. I put her foot down. I also take the opportunity to talk about her black skin-tight black jeans and run my hand and fingers on the areas around the cuts in them. There was really no resistance from her when i was doing all of that to her, until i decided to leave my hand on her leg. She just grabbed my hand and slowly lifted it off of her leg. So i knew that i wasn't quite all the way there with her yet. But since i got compliance from her for the other touching that i did on her, i knew that her buying temperature for me was at a decent level right now, and still rising.





Jeff Leaves The Cambodian Restaurant To Get His Lyft Ride Home, & I'm Left Alone With The Girl Now




Jeff semi gets up from his seat, with both of his hands planted flat down on top of the table. I look over to Jeff, and he gives me this look. If i could read the look on his face, it's saying to me "Yeah..She wants to fuck you. You got this bro!!"




Jeff: "Alright man, i'm out. My Lyft driver is here."


Me: "Okay man, take care."




Me and Jeff dapp each other up, and off he goes..out the door of the Cambodian restaurant to hop into his Lyft ride home.





So it's just me and Marlie left sitting at the table now. I talk to her for a couple of minutes more, and i can see that she is down for whatever. This is not just a simple hook, it's the type of strong hook with a girl that..not only is she attracted and comfortable with me..but she also doesn't want to leave my side, and will pretty much go anywhere that i go. I can tell. I also forgot to mention that much earlier when the 3 of us (Me, Jeff, & Marlie) was still sitting down at this table..i had already screened her by asking the standard logistical questions like "Who are you here with?" "Who got you here?". Both of these questions were met with an "I..I don't know" "I'm..not sure" (I guess she was that fucked up, that she couldn't even remember how she got to the Cambodian restaurant. Wow! ). So because of this fact as well as the attraction, trust, and comfort that i had already built with her..and because of the fact that nobody was coming to pick her up anytime soon..i knew that she was not leaving my side. I looked at her looking at me and looking towards the exit, plus her body language was positioned towards me. All of her non-verbal body language to me, screamed that it's time for me to lead and move this forward. So i said to her...




Me: "Let's go for a walk."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Okay, let's go for a walk."




I stand up out of my chair, and put the unfinished beer that's in the Coors Light beer bottle, back into my inside leather jacket pocket. She stands up as well, zips up her coat and gets her bag/purse.





I Bounce Her To A Pizza Shop That Closes At 3 AM




I walk out of the Cambodian restaurant with Marlie. I decided to turn right, as opposed to turning left, and walk down the sidewalk. I didn't turn left when we walked out of the Cambodian restaurant because there wasn't much going on down that way. Plus along the direction that i chose to walk down was the pizza shop. Which was one of the only venues left that was still open, other than the Cambodian restaurant that we just left. There are the gas stations (which of course are open 24 hours a day). At the start of me and her walking down the sidewalk (Marlie is on my right side, and i'm on her left side. On my side is close to where the street is. Her side is closer to the bars and restaurants)..i look down at her hand. I reached down, and grabbed her left hand with my right hand. I'm going to give a shout out to "Frank Nightgame". He said in his youtube videos..that when you're holding a girl's hand, to clamps her hand (with yours and her fingers intertwined) while you're walking with her. He said that makes for a stronger hook and bond with the girl. That is the best type of hand holding that you can do with a girl, according to Frank Nightgame. So that's exactly what i did with Marlie. And yes..i was thinking of all this shit while i was walking with her. This is technical game (leading), which is just as important as inner game is.




Me: "We're going to walk until we get to the pizza shop"


HB8.9 Marlie: "Okay..where's the pizza shop?"


Me: "You see that sign that says Pizza Shop two streets down from where we're at?" (I'm telling her where it is as i'm pointing at the Pizza Shop sign 2 streets down, that we can both see from our current position)


HB8.9 Marlie: "Yeah."


Me: "That's where we're going."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Okay."





While At The Pizza Shop..I Call For Our Ride To Pick Us Up




So we're in the Pizza Shop, and i find her a stool to sit on. I pull out the half full bottle of Coors Light beer from my inside jacket pocket, and give it to her so she can finish drinking it. I'm still leading. I don't waste any time, i'm going for the pull back to my crib right now! For all the new guys (or even intermediate guys in the game) just starting out in pickup..once you have the girl hooked (meaning that you have established some form of trust and comfort with the girl that you want to fuck, and she has been physically sticking around with you for a while) DO NOT, and i repeat..DO NOT waste too much time before you start going for the pull. The longer that you take to dilly-dally around with her and not make a decision to go for the pull, you actually leave the door open for something to happen for you to lose the girl. On another night a few weeks back in this same general location (On the South Side - East Carson Street)..i dilly-dallyed with a very pretty and curvaceous HB10 Brunette (she was Kim Kardashian curvy..Yes you heard me correctly!..her body was Kim Kardashian curvy & thick! And her face was pretty & flawless. Dudes was like "Got Damn!!!" as i walked passed them with her hand held in my hand. That's how hot she was.). I met her outside on the sidewalk of one of the bars. I opened her very direct. I think i said to her "You are the sexiest girl that i've seen all night". She responded to my direct compliment with "Thank you, i appreciate that!" and gave me the bedroom eyes instantly. To be fair, she was also intoxicated. As soon as i saw that look in her eyes, i got physical immediately, and started leading her. I immediately took the lead and started moving her around. I said a little bit of verbals to her, but i didn't really need to. I was making out with her a little bit on a corner, near a store's brick wall. I lead her physically from street to street, and i did establish some form of comfort & trust with her (not as much as i did here with Marlie). But i didn't have a solid plan to pull her back home, nor did i do it fast enough, nor did i even lead her to a place to warm up out from the cold. I just didn't know what to do with her, i was a deer in headlights. And as a result..i lost her to a couple that offered her a ride, and she left me to go with them. Can you imagine that if i just had a solution to those logistical issues (ie..get her out of the cold to a place that was warm, quickly followed by calling us a ride), i could've been fucking that hot Brunette HB10 at my house an hour later. But because i had no plan to pull her asap, and no fast solutions to her problem..i lost the hottest girl that i could've easily banged (she would've been the hottest girl that i've ever banged in my life) had i just quickly solved all of those logistical issues. So use what you leaned from the mistakes that i made with the HB10 Brunette, to your benefit. You have to think quickly on your feet and come up with logistical solutions very fast, while you're trying to pull a girl.





So i tell Marlie that i'm going to call us a ride, and we're going to wait here in this pizza shop until our ride get's here. I need to get her to agree, to make the extraction easier. If there is any LMR (Last Minute Resistance) coming up from this girl..it happens right now.




Me: "I'm going to call us a ride to pick us up, okay."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Where are we going?"


Me: "We're going back to my place."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Why..are we going back to your place?"


Me: "Because that's where i live at, and you will have a place to rest at for the night."




Even though she's still a little drunk..this girl isn't stupid. She knows exactly what's happening. She just needs to go through the motions and play this aloof game to rationalize her going home with some random guy. Most of your pulls will go similarly to this. The girl will play this bullshit "Jee Golly wizz!! I don't know what's happening right now!" type of game with you, to put the responsibility of her going home with you and fucking you..on you! Women are socially conditioned as well, and they still want to preserve that innocent image of themselves, even though it's really bullshit and no one really gives a crap. It's just hardwired into their brains. As a seducer (a pua)..you have to expect resistance from the woman to happen whenever you attempt to pull her.




HB8.9 Marlie: "Do you have beer there?"


Me: "Yes! I have plenty of beer back at my place." (That's actually my roommate's Coors Light beer. But it doesn't really matter who the beer actually belongs to. I have to tell her that the beer is mines if i hope to successfully pull her)


HB8.9 Marlie: "Ok."




This is basically her agreeing to the pull. Albeit because now she knows that i have alot of beer back at my crib. Lol It doesn't matter what i said to get her to agree to come home with me, as long as i got her to logically agree to the pull. Just say whatever you have to say to her, to get her to agree to it. Once she actually get's to my house, it's not like she's going to leave immediately if i don't have any beer for her. But it's more preferable that i do give her what i promised her. But again guys, it's very important to note that you don't actually have to have the thing that you promised her, that got her to agree to the pull. By the time you get her home..she may forget about it anyway. The real reason why she agreed to go home with you because she wants to fuck you. The beer is just her plausible deniability. It's just her excuse for going home with me. You guys reading this (especially newbies to the game, you need to understand this reality of fact, and etch it into your brains). As i'm saying this, put yourself into my shoes. She already wants to fuck you! She just needs a logical reason (or what's a good enough excuse in her mind) to go home with you. And it's your job to give her that logical reason. So once you give her that logical reason, she can now agree to you pulling her! I can't explain it any simpler to you guys than i just did for you here. 





I forgot to mention that there is 4 parts to the pull: 1) "Seeding the Pull", 2) "Leading Her Physically" (leading or bouncing her from point A..to point B..to point C, etc.), 3) "Getting Her To Logically Agree To The Pull", and 4) "Have Transportation Ready To Pull Her Back To The Sex Location". Now it's still possible that you can pull the girl even without "Seeding the Pull", but i wouldn't recommend it. "Seeding the Pull" just makes the pull a whole lot smoother because it's just a method to paint a clear picture for the girl of what she will be expecting if she leaves with you. And "Getting Her To Logically Agree To The Pull" is just an extension of "Seeding the Pull". By "Seeding the Pull"..you also reduce the chances of LMR coming up on your way back to the sex location. "Seeding the Pull" just takes the guess work out of it for the girl (which will make her feel comfortable and trust you). So she already expects to go back to your house, because you told her that's exactly what would happen early on. Now you don't have to tell her straight out "I'm taking you back to my house to fuck you"..NO! DON'T DO THAT! You can just hint at her coming back home with you subtlely, and it will still be just as effective. Example: "I got this real cool recliner back at my house, that also massages your back while you're just comfortably relaxing in it. I'll let you sit in it, and you can tell me how good you feel after sitting in it for a while". If she says "Ok" to that..that basically means that she just agreed to coming back to your house. Even though it is a passive agreement from her, and your request to her agreeing to be pulled was also passive..she still agreed to the pull, and then you can just proceed with the pull from there. Now for 2) and 4), YOU ABSOLUTELY STILL MUST DO THEM! You always have to be "Leading Her Physically" and always have to "Have Transportation Ready To Pull Her Back To The Sex Location". Those 2 rules in pulling are non-negotiable. You always need to do those 2 things if you want to fuck the girl.





So i call my roommate, she's a woman in her 50s. I'm hoping that she picks up her phone, since i have no other options as far as transportation goes. After a few rings she finally picks up. She sounds tired and groggy when she answers. It makes alot of sense to me. She was probably asleep since she has to go to work in a few hours. I tell her the situation.




Me: "Can you do me a big favor? Can you come pick me up?" (There's definitely urgency in my voice, because i've had so many failed pulls. All because i didn't solve the logistical problem of "How to get her to my crib", or "How do i get myself to her crib" fast enough)


My Roommate: "Okay..where are you?"


Me: "I'm on the Southside. I'm in the Pizza Shop on East Carson Street" (a popular party street in Southside)


My Roommate: "I know where you are."


My Roommate: "I'll pick you up but you gotta give me a little bit of time, i have to get up, take a shower & get dressed."


Me: "Okay, Understandable. I'll wait at the Pizza Shop until you get here."


My Roommate: "I'll call you when i'm there."



Me: "Thanks Susan, i appreciate it."




Did you notice that i never mentioned to my roommate that i was with a girl, and that she will be riding with us? Yeah..there's a reason for that. Me and her have a platonic friendship now, but we did date a little bit not too long ago. So if i did mention the girl that i was at the Pizza Shop with (HB8.9 Marlie), who knows..she might not even come to pick me up (out of spite and jealousy. You know how petty women can be. )





While i'm here at the Pizza Shop with Marlie, i kino her more. She's still sitting on the stool. I'm holding her hand alot more and resting my hand and arm on her knee and legs while her legs are crossed. The noticeable difference now compared to before when i tried to do this kind of kino on her at the table at the Cambodian restaurant (when Jeff was still there with us as well)..is now there is absolute zero resistance from me touching her. Where as at the table in the Cambodian restaurant earlier..she was resisting my kino on her here and there. I further test for how much compliance that i have with her by moving in for a kiss. Zero resistance with the kiss as well. Not only does she kiss me back, but we makeout in the Pizza Shop.





WTF!! A Fucking Lighter!!! - Was The Final Obstacle That I Had To Hurdle LOL




There was a couple guys in the Pizza Shop that were sounding obnoxious, as they seemed to be flirting with the Pizza Shop girl at the counter. Down here on the Southside, there are thirsty dudes all over..hanging around trying to get laid (I guess i'm one of them LOL). These dudes are everywhere..walking around up and down the streets, or hanging out outside or inside of the after hour spots (this also includes at the Gas Stations). They are always looking to try to steal your girl from you. They tried it with Jeff before when he was on his Tinder date one time. He told me the story about it some weeks ago. He had left her for 5 minutes just to use the bathroom. And when he came back to his Tinder date, there were dudes creepin on her already. He left the venue with her, and ended up fucking that girl that night, so it didn't matter anyway LOl. Southside is notorious for dudes trying to AMOG you while you're hanging out with a cute or hot chick. On the bright side though..it's definitely good practice for learning how to counter attack AMOGs. Down here you will definitely learn and develop your "Out-AMOGing The AMOGs Game", that's for sure Lol. So i'm thinking in my head right now; "Oh boy, here we go. Now i have to put my non-reactive hat on, to deal with these guys. I know it's coming, they're hungry, and they're starving for pussy right now. So i know it's only a matter of time before they turn their attention from the Pizza Shop Girl to my girl." 





My girl (HB8.9 Marlie) pulls out a cigarette from her purse and asks me if i have a lighter. I tell her "No, i don't have one". She then asks the 2 guys if they have a lighter. They are talking to her, and i think one of them is searching himself for a lighter. I braced myself for this moment, and i'm ready to go to bat with these dudes all night if i have to. I won't stand by idle and let these dudes fuck up my pull, and try to take Marlie from me. It turns out that neither of them had a lighter for her either. So she asks the Pizza Shop Girl for one, and she tells my girl "No, i don't carry a lighter on me, i'm sorry". My girl walks back over to me and says...




HB8.9 Marlie: "I'm going to see if anybody outside has a lighter" 




This is a problem, because she will ask somebody for a lighter, and even if they have one for her to use..that's not really their intention. Their intention won't be to help her, but actually to try and steal Marlie away from me. They don't give a fuck about me. The value of a cute or hot girl down here (on the Southside), on a scale of 0 to 10, is about a 10. On the other hand..the value of some random dude roaming around trying to pickup girls is about a 3 or 4 at best! I've had lesbians successfully cock block me and my 1st wingman down here once, when we were on our way to bouncing these 2 girls that we were walking with, to another venue. One of them was about a 6.8 and the other one was probably a 7.4. These were merely average looking girls that we were with, and somebody (a couple of girls at that) still saw enough value in those girls that we were with to go out of their way to cock block us.





I leave out the Pizza Shop with Marlie. I wanted to stop her from doing this, but by doing so..i would be behaving re-actively and she would probably lose attraction for me. And i didn't want that to happen. I wanted to play it safe, and i didn't want to make any mistakes in my behavior in her eyes by behaving re-actively before our ride gets here.




HB8.9 Marlie: "Does anyone have a lighter?" (she was shouting this out loud to the group of people walking across the street)


The Group Of People Across The Street: (they basically shout back to her that they don't have a lighter for her)




My girl crosses the street asking someone else for a lighter. That person doesn't have one for her either. This is a critical moment because, from the time that she started asking people in the Pizza Shop for a lighter, to now..i have been following her lead. And i know that i must start taking the lead again and regain the frame, if this pull is going to go successfully. A part of me is happy that nobody had a lighter for her (because more than likely that person would serve as no more than a cock blocker for me). Another part of me was laughing to myself at the irony of what she's doing. She basically was doing cold approach, but in her case - she's cold-approaching people for a lighter that she could use..and she was the one getting rejected LOl. I love when the dynamic is flipped on a hot girl. These are moments when they get to see how it feels to be us, and it brings me just a bit of glee to see hot girls go through what we go through for a change.




She looks into a shop's window. I believe it was a small Gyro Shop.




HB8.9 Marlie: "Are they still open? Can we still go in here?" (some random white dude, probably in his late 20s early 30s, pops out of the Gyro Shop on cue like a fucking Jack-in-a-Box, as soon as my girl asks me that question)


Random Guy From The Gyro Shop: "Yeah it's still open you can go inside"


Me: (WTF!!! <----- This is what i'm thinking in my head right now out of shock, when i see how fast this guy comes out of the Gyro Shop, the second my girl asks me her question)


HB8.9 Marlie: "No..that's okay. I just need a lighter. Do you have one?"


Random Guy From The Gyro Shop: "No, but umm..i know where you can get one. If you just umm..go down the street about a block, blah..blah..blah" (As he's looking back & forth at her, and in the direction that he's pointing to and directing her to...probably to some bullshit shop convenience store)




What he's trying to do right now is some kind of divide & conquer tactic, that is definitely not lost on me. Come on man! I'm down here every Saturday night, and sometimes on Thursday nights. I see thirsty dudes like him all the time. He's not fooling me at all, i know exactly what he's doing. As he's directing my girl to where she can purchase a lighter at..i'm watching his demeanor. I'm zoning in on his behavior and body language. I realize that he's trying to pull her, but he doesn't quite know how because although he's directing her where to go..he's talking in a manner as if he's trying to improvise on the spot (He's making shit up basically). It's kinda like when you're in trouble, and you're trying to get out of it by explaining what you did by coming up with some random witty bullshit. What you're saying might not make much sense, but you still know that you need to say something and keep talking, because explaining the reason why you did it (with a bullshit explanation) will make you look less guilty than if you had said nothing at all. That's what this dude was doing. And also, it's a sticking point that i recognize from him because it's a sticking point that i myself have, when i don't have a legit plan to pull the girl. When i'm in this "I really want to pull this girl, but i don't have a solid plan on how i'm going to pull her right now" mode..i'm usually behaving in the same exact manner as this dude is right now (saying alot to make the girl think that i have a plan, but doing a whole lot of nothing because i in fact don't have a plan). So from my own first hand experience, and knowing that he doesn't actually have a plan on how he's going to separate her from me..i quickly act!!




Me: "Let's go. This dude obviously doesn't know where you can get a lighter. Come on..Let's go across the street!" (I'm saying this to her as i grab hold of her hand and take the lead, and start crossing the street)




Of course Marlie leaves that dude where he stands, and follows my lead to cross the street with me. It's simply just because i was more decisive in leading her than he was. I actually called the dude out on his bullshit - on the underlying frame of his indecisiveness on how he had no real plan on how he was going to effectively take her away from me. And she knew it too. Had he had better game than me, and had he had stronger conviction in directing/leading her than i did..he definitely could've taken her away from me. Here's what i learned..anytime that you can see an AMOG struggling with a sticking point, and you know exactly the sticking point that it is that he's fumbling around with (especially when you yourself had that same exact sticking point)..you can use that knowledge to get him off balanced (forcing him to lose the frame) and blow him out! Because you knew exactly what got you off balanced and blown out when you went through that same exact sticking point.




Me: "Let's go back into the Pizza Shop!".




The 2 guys that were flirting on the Pizza Shop Girl, was still there. They were making me nervous, for the reasons that i previously explained. So i just ask the Pizza Shop Girl straight up...




Me: "What's the deal with these guys, do you know them?"


Pizza Shop Girl: "Yes i know them. This guy is my boyfriend, and the other idiot is my brother."


Me: "Oh..okay! I was just wondering why you let them talk to you like that for this long. I thought that they were some random creeps from the Southside trying to hit on you."


Pizza Shop Girl: "My brother better not be hitting on me, i'll kick his ass! LOl No they aren't creeps, they're really good guys." (She's saying this as she walks away, and disappears into the back room of the Pizza Shop. Her brother & boyfriend are still standing by the counter at the register, where customers pay for the food that they order)


Pizza Shop Girl's Brother: "Actually we both are creeps. LOL"


Pizza Shop Girl's Boyfriend: "I was hitting on her..he wasn't. But yeah..we both are creeps. LOL"


Me: "LOL"




I talk to the brother and the boyfriend for probably a couple minutes longer, until the Pizza Shop Girl comes out of the door of the back room. I think she has her coat on and such to leave the Pizza Shop. The Pizza Shop Girl, her brother, and her boyfriend..all leave through the back room that she just came out of. I'm actually glad that i talked to them. I judged those guys, when it turns out that once i started talking to them..they actually turned out to be pretty cool and entertaining people. My girl gets antsy and opens the door of the Pizza Shop.




Me: "Where are you going to now?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "I need..a lighter" (She steps semi outside of the Pizza Shop, as i'm walking right behind her)


Me: "I'll just buy you a lighter from the gas station right now, it's just 2 blocks up the street" (Me and my girl are outside of the pizza shop again. I re-take the lead again, and walk about a step ahead of her, in the direction of the gas station)


HB8.9 Marlie: "Okay"




As me and her are walking along the sidewalk, heading to the gas station..my phone rings. I answer my phone.




Me: "Hello!" (It's my roommate! Finally! Pheww.. )





Fuck Yeah!!..Our Ride Is Finally Here!!!..Phew - In The Car, I Take A Deep Breath & Exhale...




My Roommate: "Hey, i'm here!"


Me: "Where are you parked at?"


My Roommate: "I can see you walking, i'm looking at you right now. I'm right behind you"




I look behind me, as she honks the car horn and flicker the head lights simultaneously.




Me: "Okay i see you! Here i come. And by the way..i have company coming along with me. I have a girl with me. LOl"


Me: "Our ride is here! You see that car right there..that's our ride." (I'm talking to Marlie)




She doesn't hesitate at all, as soon as i tell her that's our ride. Marlie walks ahead of me, opens the front passenger door of the car, and get's in. I get into the back left passenger seat of the car. We all are in the car now, and my roommate pulls off. We're headed back to our house. Not to make this sound too dramatic, but i close my eyes, take a deep breath, and release a breath of relief.  You have to understand that i'm used to always having some random insurmountable obstacle coming up, that usually fuck up my pulls. So the whole time that i was with Marlie, waiting for our ride to get here..i'm hanging onto hopes that nothing comes up to ruin this pull. And although it wasn't as many obstacles that i usually encounter on a Saturday late night when i'm trying to pull a hot girl of this caliber..i was still faced with a couple of them (which her needing a lighter was the catalyst). And i still could've lost her at any point. At any moment..she could've just got mad that she wasn't getting what she wanted (the lighter for her cigarette), or got bored of me, or her logical brain kicks on and realizes that she's being pulled, and tells me "Fuck you, i'm not coming home with you!". That kind of thing really does happen. It's kinda like making it to the final level of a video game that was already fucking hard to begin with. You almost beat the final boss, and he does this one stupid fucking move that kills you. And now you have to start the game all the way over..especially if you're playing the games on one of those older systems from back in the day like; Sega Genesis or Super Nintendo, that didn't have memory cards for them. That's exactly how it feels like when you have a girl that is "down to be pulled", but something dumb happens at the end, when you was so close to pulling her that you could taste it. And now you lost her. And then there's the bad taste of failure in your mouth, and on your brain that stays with you for the rest of the night until you fall asleep in your bed.  Trust me, i know this feeling all too well. I had many of nights like that. But fortunately for me in this situation, none of those scenarios ever happened. And usually for me, those scenarios do happen. Lol





Marlie introduces herself to my roommate & visa versa, before i even get the chance to. The vibe in the car is a little awkward, and it's not stemming from me or Marlie. As i said before, there's a reason why i did not mention that i was bringing a girl home with me when i asked my roommate if she could pick me up. Now let me tell you the brief background of me and my roommate. As much as i hate to admit this..i did have a sexual relationship at one point with my roommate before, who's in her 50's (prior to us being roommates). What The Hell Was I Thinking Right?! Lol Hindsight is always 20/20. But now we have a platonic relationship. But even with that, you can assume that she may still have some feelings for me.





From the back seat, i'm looking at the body language from both of these women (especially from my roommate, who seems pissed and is not saying a damn word), and you can cut the tension with a fucking knife. Since the vibe in the car is a little weird, i start talking, and crack a couple of jokes just to break the ice. No one really laughs, but Marlie does talk a bit, and my roommate says a word or two. Still awkward. For a quick second..Marlie does look back at me from where she was sitting in the front passenger seat, once i got quiet and stop talking. Perhaps she was aware of the awkwardness too. I don't think Marlie was fully aware of what was going on. One part of it is..obviously she's still semi-drunk, and the other part of it is..she doesn't know the background history between me and my roommate. Marlie hic-ups a couple times, and she grabs and picks up the closed large foam cup (I'm not even sure what kind of drink is in it. Lol) from the cup holder that's in between the driver's seat (where my roommate is sitting) and the front passenger seat (where Marlie is sitting). Marlie asks my roommate "Is this yours, can i have some?", shortly followed by Marlie taking a sip from the straw. I don't recall hearing my roommate telling her "Yes you can.", or maybe i just didn't hear it. But i saw this and i cringed.  Marlie also asked my roommate if she had a lighter. My roommate did give her a lighter, and when Marlie pulled out a cigarette..my roommate told her...




My Roommate: "Don't you light that! You can't smoke in the car."


HB8.9 Marlie: "Ohh..I'm sorry."


My Roommate: "You can smoke on the porch once we get back to the house."




I cringed again! Yeah..Marlie was being a little ratchet, but i also thought that my roommate was being a little bit rough on her. My roommate was being irritable and quick tempered. Not only that but, the only times that my roommate spoke to her was when Marlie introduced herself to her (had my roommate not introduced herself to Marlie, when Marlie kindly did..that would've been ignorant of my roommate), and when she told Marlie that she couldn't smoke in the car. And i think i know why, which is why i cringed. I was half expecting my roommate to just flip the fuck out, and kick Marlie out of the car. But it never happens.





HB8.9 Marlie Is Successfully Pulled!!! - We're Back At My Crib




We actually make the whole trip from the Southside back to my house, and Marlie is still with us. Phew..Thank God! Lol Me and Marlie get out of the car. I'm walking ahead and Marlie follows my lead, walking behind me. My roommate is still in the car gathering her things. I open the door of my house and let Marlie in. The living room is the first room that you're immediately in, as soon as you walk right through the front door. There's a 3 part sofa set in the living room..a sofa (couch), love seat, and a chair. The sofa is close to the blinded windows, the love seat is up against the wall (where the fire place would be if we had one), and the chair is across the room opposite the sofa. The're a square ottoman in front of the chair, that you can connect to the chair (so you can kick your feet up on it). A rectangular wooden table is smack dab in the middle of all 3 pieces of the sofa furniture set. My roommate's flat screen tv is on a wooden rectangular stand, across the living room, directly opposite of where the love seat is positioned. The next room that you enter into is the kitchen. There's a wall with an open doorway, in between the living room and the kitchen.





Marlie goes straight to the chair, and puts down her things. I sit down on the sofa (or you can say that this is the couch) across from her on the other side of the rectangular wooden table that's between us. I grab the remote, and turn on the tv. My roommate walks through the door, closes it, and goes upstairs to get some sleep before work. Marlie lays back, and kicks her feet up on the square ottoman connected to it. She looked too relaxed, almost as if she's about to pass out and fall asleep. If i let her fall asleep now..there's no guarantee that i'm gonna get laid once she wakes up. For all i know..once she wakes up, she may just decide to call an uber and peaces out. And to me..that would be an epic fail, i pulled but didn't close.




A couple years ago and beyond (particularly in 2015 & 2016) i pulled more girls back home than i do now (Also my logistics were really fucking sick back then. The apartment that i lived in at the time..was within walking distance from both the stadiums, bars, restaurants, the grocery store, and downtown), but my close rate back then was alot lower than it is now, because i make sure that i see the seduction all the way through to the end now. If i have to persist and plow more with my kino escalation or draw out the escalation over minutes or hours, i will do it! Now let it be said here first, that you want to be careful when you are persisting with your sexual escalation on a girl that you just pulled back home. Calibrate your kino to how receptive the girl is to it. You want to be assertive, but do not force her to do anything that she is not willing to do. Use a "hands-on, hands-off" approach to your sexual escalation..meaning that you touch her, but if she resists..you pull back or stop escalating altogether. You can view this as a "roll off" or a "freeze-out" in pickup terms. Go back to just talking to her (normal verbal rapport), and then go back to touching her again a little bit later (NO FORCE!). If she complies to your kino (meaning that she doesn't resist you touching her), then that is your "green light" signalling that you can continue touching her. Kino her until she not only complies, but she is touching back on you now. So the sexual escalation is now mutual and consensual. This is how you avoid crossing the line into legally raping a girl and ending up with a rape charge on your hands, thus getting arrested and sent to jail. And you don't want that. That is not what we are about here, nor is that what we are trying to do. We want the experience to be pleasant for both the girl as well as for us (us guys) too.





Cave-maning & Sexual Escalation




I think that she asked me for some beer, and i think that i went in the refrigerator and got her about 3 of them, not all at once..1 at a time, but through the course of her being at my house. After a few minutes, she's still reclined back on the chair drinking beer and probably scrolling through her social media on her phone. I say to Marlie...




Me: "Why you so far away? Come over here and sit by me."


HB8.9 Marlie: "No..I'm too tired to get up."


Me: "What!? You're too tired to get up?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "Yeah.." (She said this as she was faking trying to yawn. She didn't think that i just caught that. Lol)


Me: "Oh Yeah?" (That was a sarcastic "Oh Yeah?" because i knew that she was just being lazy, and not actually tired)




So i went over to her, took the beer bottle out of her hand and put it on the wooden table, and started grabbing her off of the chair




HB8.9 Marlie: "Nooooo stop..i'm tired" (She said this as she's smiling. So i knew that this was just token LMR bullshit. )


Me: "Come on big baby!" (I scooped her up and picked her up off of the chair..ie..i "Cave-manned" her)




I threw Marlie on the couch where i was sitting at.




HB8.9 Marlie: "Hahaha..Oh my god." (She is clearly enjoying me cave-manning her and tossing her ass on the couch)




I don't waste any time. Straight away, i pull up her shirt and start kissing and licking on her stomach. She pushes my face away with her arm, as she licks her lips, bends her body up and down a little bit, as she starts squirming on the couch. This has to be the weakest LMR attempt that i've ever seen from a girl, because she's trying to push my face away as if she doesn't want me to do it, while she's clearly enjoying what i'm doing to her. Lol So she does a little bit more of pushing my face away, as i take her shirt off, take her brah off, and squeeze and lick her boobs. My goodness she has some nice boobs! They are probably fake, but they are beautiful almost natural looking C-cups. So now all her clothes come off now. Articles of clothing is thrown over here and there from the both of us. loI I think the only article of clothing left on her body is her socks. I lay her naked body out on the couch and position her to get ready to get penetrated. I think i slide my fingers in her vagina to loosen it up. Right before i get ready to penetrate her with my cock..she stops me, sits up and says...




HB8.9 Marlie: "Before we do this..i wanna suck your dick first." (  I was surprised that she volunteered to give me a blowjob before we have sex, but i'm damn sure not going to say no to the offer. Lol)


Me: "Okay"




I push the rectangular wooden table back a little bit to give her the space that she needs to do her thing. She gets down on the floor and kneels in between my open legs in front of me, as i sit back against the couch, and she does her thing. She uses both hands, and bobs her head up and down.   Ahh..i'm in heaven right now. Lol She does that for a few minutes, before i'm ready to fuck her now. I brought her around in between the square ottoman and the wooden table. Both of her hands are on the wooden table as i'm fucking her from behind, standing up. Then i sit on the square ottoman, and she rides me reverse cowgirl. Then we fuck doggystyle on the floor. All of this is taking place openly in the living room. My roommate is upstairs sleeping or whatever so it's all good! I don't know why, but before me and Marlie started fucking on the floor, that's when i decided to turn the light off. I don't know why i haven't turned it off before this moment. Maybe it's because there is an open door path that leads straight into an open kitchen, and there are 2 unblinded windows at the wall of the kitchen, that is a straight line across from where me and Marlie was about to fuck on the floor. So after i turned off the light, we did our thing on the living room carpet floor. The only source of light now, is coming from the tv. Good! It's dark, but i can still see Marlie perfectly. At some point she asked me; "Can you eat my pussy? I haven't got my pussy ate in a while." LOL So i did that too. After that i went back to a little bit more doggystyle and i let her ride me in reverse (her back is to me) as i lay flat on the carpet floor. I was ready to release my load now. So she sucks me off to get me off. I take my cock back from her and i jack it off a little bit to help it cum faster. She keeps trying to put it in her mouth while i stroke it, kinda messing up my rhythm. Lol So i tell her to "Just let me handle it, and you can put it back in your mouth when i'm cuming". She then leans over, opens her mouth, and sticks her tongue out. Lol I tell her "Here i cum baby!". She then drops her head down (my hand is on the back of her head) with my cock deep inside her mouth, as i'm pumping my cum into her mouth. Several seconds later, she lifts her head back up and licks her lips. She swallowed. Lol We're talking, and i will never forget what she just said to me. Marlie says...




HB8.9 Marlie: "Well at least i know that you're healthy."


Me: "How's that?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "Your cum tastes fruity. So i know that you're eating your fruits at least. Lol" (I didn't eat any fruits that day. But i had drank a can of Mango Four Loko hours earlier. That's probably where the fruity taste came from. LOl)


Me: "Oh yeah? LOL"




After we did all of that, then we did a 69. It was her idea. This girl wanted to do pretty much everything, except for anal. For the readers who don't know what a 69 is..it's when a girl is on top of you in reverse. She is sucking your cock, and you are underneath her licking her vagina. So after we did that for a few minutes, i sit up on the carpet floor, and she tries to mount me and sit on my cock. I quickly slide out from underneath her before she sits down on it. And the reason why is because, as much as i hate to admit this..i fucked her raw . She was legit ready for another round with me, but i had just came and i didn't want to stick my penis back inside of her when i had already ejaculated once. And i told her this too. As hot as she was..i had to slide out. I'm trying to make love girl, not make babies. Lol





Some Things That Happened After We Had Sex & Before She Leaves My Crib




I dash to the couch still naked, but i start putting my clothes on. Marlie walks over to the love seat, sits down, and starts putting her clothes back on. She's sitting diagonally to my left. I was watching her while she was getting dressed on the love seat. She only had her bra and panties on. This girl is so hot..that even after i just fucked her all over the living room, and we did everything except for anal..i'm still in awe of her beauty. I actually told her




Me: "You look so fucking sexy right now, that i don't know if i want to fuck you again or just watch you dress"
(I know that sounds creepy AF, but it was true. She was looking sexy as hell in her bra and panties)


HB8.9 Marlie: "I appreciate your kind words, but..blah blah blah" (i actually don't remember the rest of what she had said at that particular moment, but i'm guessing although she appreciated my compliment..she probably didn't feel as sexy as i said that she was. It will surprise you that even girls this hot, still don't feel that hot in their own body. They're very insecure. But on some level..she still knows how hot that she is)




When she was getting dressed..she wanted to wear something comfortable that she could chill in and walk around the house with. So i gave her one of my t-shirts and my thin sweat pants. Because i'm bigger and taller than she is, my t-shirt and sweat pants looked baggy on her. She wanted to use the bathroom shortly after, and asked me where my bathroom was. My bathroom is upstairs. I'm not so sure how drunk or sober that she is at this point, so i escort her upstairs to the bathroom. I wait in the hallway outside of the closed bathroom door until she finishes using the bathroom and comes out. She comes out of the bathroom and walks real fast pass me. I noticed that Marlie was speeding down the stairs, and that wasn't a very good idea because my stairs are steep as hell. The stairs at my house are so steep that sometimes i climb up them rather than walk up them. She walked down the stairs so fucking fast that i knew she was going to fall before she got to the bottom step. I yelled out to her "Slow down, don't walk down the stairs so fast!". My stairs are covered in soft carpeting, so it's slippery. Especially when you get down to the last few steps. Well what do you know..she actually does fall down about 4 steps from the bottom of the stairs.  




HB8.9 Marlie: "Owwwww!!!..." (She was whimpering in pain a little bit. I think she hurt her arm or leg)




As i'm coming down the stairs behind her, i see that she fell. And i'm saying to her...




Me: "I told you not to walk down the stairs so fast." (All i'm thinking right now is.."Oh shit. I gotta get this girl to the hospital now"  )


Me: "Are you okay?" (I get to the bottom of the stairs, and try to help her).


HB8.9 Marlie: "Yeah..i'm okay" (She get's up on her own and walks it off. She's tough.)




She did ask me if i wanted something to eat, and i said "Yes". She went into the kitchen, grabbed a pan, and started cooking using my sausages & my roommates bacon. This was a big mistake on my part because, back when me and Marlie got into my roommate's car earlier..my roommate texted me that she would like to have the kitchen free when she wakes up, so that she can make herself some breakfast before work. I saw the text, but i didn't pay it any mind. So as a result..my roommate comes down the stairs expecting to make herself some breakfast before work, only to find Marlie cooking in the kitchen. Needless to say..my roommate was heated about it. She left the house in a fit, slammed the front door, and went straight to work. Even though she already left the house to go to work, she still called me on the phone and we had a very heated conversation. Some of you may say that she was just jealous, that's why she reacted that way, and you may be right. But still..it was on me. I should've looked out for my roommate more in that situation. My roommate did give me shit about this incident for about a month following this night. But me and my roommate talked it out on a couple of occasions and have long since resolved this issue. So it's neither here nor there.





But back to Marlie cooking. She diced up the sausages & bacon, and used various spices that we had in our cupboard to make whatever she was making. When i asked her what she was cooking, she said that she was making some Nepalese meal. It did smell and look different from anything that i experienced before. She told me she had some Nepali descent in her. Not that i don't believe her, but when you look at her..she looks of cuban descent. I had told her that she looks Puerto Rican. And her response to me was "Yeah..everyone that meets me for the first time usually says that i look Puerto Rican". And that's what some random dude also told me, that i befriended at that same Cambodian takeout/restaurant about a month after i had met Marlie there, when i showed him her facebook pics. In fact..Marlie looks alot like the pornstar Gina Valentina. That might be hard for some of you to believe, and i understand why some readers of this field report may feel like it's far fetched. But she really does look alot like Gina Valentina in all honesty. If you saw her in person, you would be able to understand why i made that comparison. She looks like her in the face as well as in the body. Except Marlie has bigger boobs than Gina Valentina does, although Marlie's boobs are fake. Look up pics of Gina Valentina. That's pretty much how hot Marlie looks.





I ate Marlie's little improvised Nepalese cuisine. It was alright, nothing that blew my socks off or anything. But while she was cooking it..it looked like she damn sure knew what she was doing. Me and Marlie are in the living room. We're both sitting in the same spots that we were sitting in (her sitting on the love seat, and me sitting on the couch). She told me that she was about to face time with some dude on her phone. She supposedly has been corresponding with this dude for a while (he and Marlie met on Tinder). When she had him on face time, she put him on speaker. I don't have a clue why she put him on speaker. I heard this guy say things to Marlie like "I miss you babe" "I can't wait to see you" "I love you so much". She said some lovey dovey stuff to him also. I can't believe what i'm hearing right now. I'm doing some shit on my laptop (probably reading & typing), hearing this shit in the background. I'm just shaking my head at hearing all of this, because me and this girl just fucked each other's brains out (of course loverboy that she's face timing with right now doesn't know that), and he's saying all this lovey dovey shit to this girl. He truly believes that she is his girl, and think that she truly misses him. He seems certain that she's always thinking about him too. I guess he's in love with Marlie. There was a point when Marlie told me to say hi to her dude. And she told him "Say hi to my friend!" (That would be me. lol). I said "Hi" smiled and waved at him because i was just being cool, friendly, and playing along..and why not, i don't care. I already got what i wanted when i fucked her, so i don't really give a shit if she wants me to tell him that i'm just a friend. So i acknowledged that i'm just a friend of Marlie's. But if he only knew the truth about what me and Marlie just did, i wonder if he would still feel the same way about her then. After i said "Hi" to the guy, i just went back to the sofa and what i was doing on my computer.





Some time after she was done face timing with the guy..i did ask her




Me: "Are you ready to go home?"


Me: "You getting an uber?"


HB8.9 Marlie: "Yeah eventually. Why..you in a hurry to kick me out?" (She kinda has the right idea. I do want to go to sleep, and it's been a very long and crazy night. But at the same time, i do wanna make sure that she gets home first)




I did found out some very interesting facts about Marlie in this time period. She told me that she used to be a stripper pretty recently, and that i was lucky to basically fuck her for free. Lol She said that when she was a stripper, she was used to guys paying her hundreds to thousands of dollars just for her company. She also just fell on some hard times recently and she's pretty much broke now. A part of me wasn't that shocked to hear this stuff coming out of her mouth. In all honesty..i have no business being with this girl. Under normal circumstances..i would never have a chance with a girl like this..let alone hooking up with her. One of the things that i like about cold approach pickup, is that the game will sometimes put you in a position where you can fuck that hot model chick..that sexy stripper chick..or that beautiful celebrity chick..when under any other circumstances..you know that you wouldn't be able to get her. And that is certainly the case for me with Marlie. The game put me in a position where it just happened to be..the right night..the right place..the right time..the right girl..my state was good..i was confident..my game was on point tonight..and most importantly..i approached her. So that's all it took for the impossible to happen for me.





She get's back into her own clothes that she originally had on when she first walked into my house. Her uber is on it's way. I remember her saying to me..




HB8.9 Marlie: "I don't know why, but i really like you!"




I did give her some money (about $40) to help her out. Yeah, yeah, yeah..you guys will call me a chode for it. Whatever. If someone is struggling and i have the resources to help them out (but never to the point where i can't help myself in the process), i will help them out. It's just the humane thing to do.




Her uber is here. Marlie gives me a kiss and a hug goodbye before she walks out of the front door to get into her uber. It's an suv with the sliding doors. She get's in, and has trouble closing the sliding door at first (almost as if it's too heavy for her to pull closed using one hand). I actually smile and chuckle at this, watching her do this from outside of my front door, where i'm still standing. She finally closes the sliding door of the suv..probably using both hands to close it this time. I wave her off. The uber pulls off, and i go back into the house. I close the front door, lock it, and go up stairs and hop into my bed. At the time that Marlie left, to me immediately going to bed..it was probably close to 5 am.





Takeaways




Marlie is the hottest girl that i banged in 2018 so far, and is the 2nd hottest girl that i banged since i've got into the game. And the way that i met her was nothing special. I met this hot girl in an after hours restaurant & takeout spot. She was simply sitting on the floor against the wall, charging her phone, just like any other normal person. It didn't cost me alot of money to get at her, nor did i need exclusive access to some upscale venue to get to her. It's very important for some of you guys reading this to know this. I can tell you with the upmost confidence, that you can get rid of those limiting beliefs that makes you think that you need alot of things just to talk to a girl of this caliber and pull her. Because you really don't. All you need is confidence in yourself, and know that you as you are..is good enough to get her right now. You don't need to wait until you have that dream job, make alot of money, have the nice car, or have that beach body, before you can meet a hot girl like Marlie, pull her home, and fuck her. You can get her just as you are now. Some guys reading this will think that i'm wasting my time explaining this, but that's just because you may not have those limiting beliefs in your head like that. So you're very fortunate not to, but there are alot of guys out there who do! They are carrying these kind of limiting beliefs in their heads right now as we speak.





Also another very important thing to note is..do not overlook the after hour spots that stay open even after all the bars & clubs close for the night. I met HB8.9 Marlie at one of these type of places. And again..it wasn't a classy, high-end, or some exclusive vip type of venue where i met her at. It was a simple after hours takeout restaurant that everyone is welcome to enter into. If you have no luck with pulling a girl for the night at any of the bars & club that you go to that night..you still have the streets & the after hour spots that are still open after all the bars & clubs close. Don't limit your pull options only to the bars & clubs. You can still pull a hot girl that is lingering around in the streets right after all the bars & clubs close for the night, or even at the after hours spots.





Also, it didn't hurt that i pulled that magic trick with the beer bottle that was inside of my leather jacket's inside pocket. That's what Marlie was craving for, and i gave her exactly what she needed when i gave her that bottle of beer. To this day..Jeff always tells me that bottle of beer is what got me laid. And in response to Jeff, i always say to him "I KNOW! LOL" 





Cheers & Happy Hunting!



-G

[N2thevoid]

How the hell do you remember all the shit? Do you have a photograph number or something?

[GFRESH2DEF]

May 7, 2018 1:37:52 GMT N2thevoid said:

How the hell do you remember all the shit? Do you have a photograph number or something?

Haha umm..Yeah, i do. Lol I have very good recall memory especially.


Plus i've been writing this report for months actually..adding as much details to it, as much as i can possibly remember..a little bit each day for about 30 minutes.


I'm actually glad that i finally got it out, and posted it. Because now i don't have to concern myself with it anymore. This was a good one, that's why i put so much of my time and energy into this one in particular.



-G

[Slider94]

Man, this LR is quality stuff. Keep 'em coming, G . Also that beer bottle thing, I might borrow your idea lol.

[GFRESH2DEF]

May 7, 2018 7:34:34 GMT Slider94 said:

Man, this LR is quality stuff. Keep 'em coming, G . Also that beer bottle thing, I might borrow your idea lol.

Thank you for saying that, i really appreciate it. And i will keep the reports coming. I have so many stories man. I will definitely post more of them soon. 



And by all means..steal my bear bottle strategy. Lol




There's just one thing that you need to know about it before you do it. When i stashed those 2 beers in my inside jacket pockets..i intended to bring them with me to save me a little bit of money at the bar. I didn't know that it was going to help me to pull & fuck some hot chick that night. That was totally random. I couldn't have planned it out that perfectly, even if i tried. For all intensive purposes..that was all luck. Successfully getting the pull, did take a little bit of skill on my part though, just to be fair. But good thing that i didn't drink both bottles of beer at that bar (the bar where i madeout with the HB8.8 Brunette). I had no idea that not drinking that 2nd bottle of beer at that bar, would get me laid later on. That's why i love cold approach pickup! It's so random. And you never know how, where, or what will get you laid by that cute or hot girl. 



-G