Before posting in this category.....

[Heywood Jablowme]

A relationship
is defined....


It is a word created to show ownership.



It has the same qualities as Hell, but you are (usually) allowed to have sex. i've never been to Hell, but I imagine that sex is not allowed.

It isn't a girl you just met on a bus, the one that you've been obsessing over, that you have not met in real life.

There is no such thing as an online relationship, it just fairy dust. 


It's when you finally think you meet someone who is like you, bringing on the feeling that you're not alone.. you get consumed by this attraction and possibly addicted to the amazing sex. It's when the time's right!



After three to six months of dating, talking every day, and great sex, she says "Where is this going? ".....THen you might be in a relationship.

If you have not been seeing each other for 90+ days, you don't have shit.

[Alex Penn]

I hear you, man. Relationships are complex, and that feeling of connection is powerful. But you're right about the ownership notion – it's not about possessing someone. It's more about a shared journey, understanding, and growth together.

But hey, it's cool you're setting a time frame for things to evolve. That sense of "where is this going?" is a legit question

[maestro]

I like the way revelations described relationships as "a mutual exploitation of value and a "long term investment" definately true and not to scare you but it also mentions that romantic relationships are "unapologetically ruthless" meaning girls can hold extremely high standards for the guys they see, as an example I know a girl who only dates gang members because she thinks their cool and any guy who isn't in a gang is not worthy of dating her, more common then you would think so you have to be really exceptional to snag them. Cheers.