Making the girl wait for sex

[Gunter]

Hi guys I want to post the trajectory with this girl(8). I will try to be specific to make it valuable. I met her at a bar, open her dancing, 2 minutes later we start to talk, she was asking a lot of question, I answer maybe 2 and then I told her I was going to answer her in the date, after 20min she wanted to find her friend and she start walking and how she didn't tell me to help her or waited for me I didn't follow her. 15min later of keep doing my thing I saw her talking with a guy being a little close. I give her space, that's pretty common, girls always have guys around easily. Then I go with my boy, she was alone, I introduced him to her and her friend, dancing, kissing, pretty good conv(mostly teasing her, commanding her, putting my rules) after a while I went with my boy to the couch close to them, she stay with her friend talking, rejected a couple guys that approach her, 8 min later she's leaving, she goes to the couch, say goodbye(kiss) and leave. Then I hit her next day, I set a date for next weekend but as our connection was good I tried the wine move straight home, she got pissed off and stop texting. All that happened in August, I saw her 2 weeks ago at night, she look at me and I go there and say hi, everything perfect, pretty good chemistry. I was jk about she being sweaty, that was a Saturday so we planned to meet on thursday. See her on Thursday, great conv, we change place 25min, a lot of teasing, "I remember you more skinny from the first time", "if I dance here all this girls are gonna start to look at me and you aren't gonna like it", she told me couple time that she was leaving in a playful way, I told her that she can leave, also between conv I told her that the guy at the door know me and isnt gonna let you go, but you can try. We went to other place and then other. When we was in the last one, she start to ask whats the plan, its a little late, how long I plan to be out, she pull me out, and start to tell me what we are doing later, I told her sleep lol, she told me boring, "we are already out", I told her I want to see her tomorrow, she: are you enjoying this right lol, me: what. At some point she was touching my dick,etc, she spent around 15min convincing me infront of my car. I told her I need to work tomorrow and I want to see her tomorrow night, she told me all the time that maybe, she didn't know if she could do it.I planned to make her wait bcuz she stopped texting me despite the good connection we made so that was her punishment. Was fun that she did a lot of moves to make the close, usually all we do to close a girl lol.Next day I hit her up with just a sad emoji, a couple lines, and we plan to see us, she suggests a place nearby her home this time, we went there 20min later she suggests to go to another bar, when we are in my car I change the destination asking her what drinks she have in her home and music. We went there get drunk and had sex

[JackZero]

Were you making her wait because you really had to work or thought that it was a better strategy?

[R.C]

I made girls wait for sex before as "punishment", but whenever I did that it was crystal clear that I was just being cheeky about it, and the connection was strong enough to allow for that.

It's a cute move in the right context. It can also backfire in the wrong context.

[Gunter]

Oct 29, 2018 5:44:37 GMT JackZero said:

Were you making her wait because you really had to work or thought that it was a better strategy?

I planned to do that since we planned the date bc we had the first night a pretty good connection and after invite her to my home she stopped texting, she didn't talk about it, she never text back. So that was a her punishment I didn't have to work, but I told her that in a serious way. I never have done that I always try to close my dates, I'm not sure if my idea to not close her made the things go better bc we already had a good connection, she was the one asking to see me on Thursday, etc. But was a good move, maybe I try it again

[Gunter]

The funny about all this. I never drink to much so we had the idea to get drunk. I got drunk, I only warm up with her that night(Friday)(fingering, kissing). I spend most of the night throwing up. In the morning we had sex 2 times, she gave massage, was good sex, everything perfect. I was still feeling bad. I got home take a big nap. Didn't text the whole day(Saturday), I go out that night. Then I text her on Sunday at 11am, she text me back on Monday 9am, then I only received another text from her lol. One of my only situations without find my mistake, that piss me off. I dont care about do something wrong and lose a girl but I need to know what was my mistake to not repeat it. But the human being cant know everything lolol

[Heywood Jablowme]

Making a girl wait for sex when she wants sex is creating sexual tension. Making a girl wait for sex when it's you that wants sex, is just white noise. Women love sexual tension because in all closing aspects of the sex act, women are the final key holders. 

A woman’s control over something as gratifying and rewarding as sex, makes men want it more. In a lot of ways, the possibility that she might say no is what we find most attractive.

It kind of makes you wonder what would happen if you got a girl interested, but then when sex seemed like a possibility, you said no.

The answer is she's going to want it more. You take some of that control away from her, just by managing your own self control. 

For that to be the way you want it though, is to be completely unconcerned about the outcome.  And there has got to be an air of playfulness or it will just fuck itself up. 

You gotta remember you're dangling a carrot in front of a rabbit standing on a pile of carrots.