“Two Fucks To Give Method"

[Heywood Jablowme]

You will always be able to tell if a woman is into you by applying the “Two Fuck Method"


If you’ve ever been in any type of sales, you'll realize that sales is a lot like the dating world. In the end you're selling a product [you]. If someone is interested they will bite. If not they'll very quickly dismiss you.


You have to be in charge of yourself and realize the genius of you.


Just like in sales you knock on door after door [approach after approach] you learn a valuable lesson. This lesson was when to suck it up, stop giving a fuck, and move on when someone isn't interested.

So here comes the Two Fuck method.


Two Fucks just means you only give two tries with the girl to show you’re interested in her. After two tries you feel and hear or see nothing, she’s not reciprocating you move on. Anything further you are wasting your time, and hers.


First Fuck. Let’s say you met a girl at Costco or added a girl on social media, or you met her at a bar and got her number and you decided hit her up, or to shoot out that next day text, and at first she's giving short replies, or none at all, give it a second chance. Odds are we're human. Maybe she was busy or maybe she had somewhere to go. Nevertheless, within that first fuck you feel around and gather atmosphere and how she responds to you. If it feels flat then she could be into someone else or just not interested in you period.


Second Fuck. Is most likely dealing with hanging out or meetup. If she mentions she going somewhere and you wish to come along and hang or you invite her out to cocktails or something and she never commits to a time it’s because she’s not interested. You only need to ask one or two times to hang out or date. That is the maximum. If she doesn’t react positively in some way, she's not into you. She's dropping hints that want you to stop trying.


Take that hint. STOP GIVING A FUCK and begging her. Seek her no more. Contact her no more. If she shows interest great, if she doesn't great too, but from now on it's her responsibility to find you. She most likely won’t because just like in sales the customer will either buy what you’re selling or slam the door in your face within those first two fucks you give.


Two Fucks is all you give. When the opportunity presents itself, it will be effortless if they are into you, or obvious that they are not. When you internalize that you'll never have an issue with someone wasting your time because they'll never be able to. 

[N2thevoid]

Heywood is dead on, in fact I m requesting you make that a sticky. This is some non nonsense cut-the-bullshit honest advice.

Funny I see meeting women as no different from business not unlike what he describes above.

Going further. Some things you need to think about before you set up your business and open shop:

-what NEED am I fulfilling? And is there a demand for it?
-who are my customers?
-where do they hangout/which area of town are they in?
-what is MY value and how does that value intersect with what my clients are looking for (and in some cases aren’t even aware they’re needing)?
-what do I want their reasons to be for buying my product? (E.g. is it to better their lives somehow, or simply to line my pockets?)

Each of these can be reframed with pickup.

People generally don’t like hard sales tactics - they’re off putting and put off a vibe of scarcity and desperation. Its not different when dealing with women.

[ecudes17]

This is an effective frame that will not only increase your chances of success with the women you are talking to but is necessary to deal with rejections in general.

The only cautionary I would inject is for one to make sure the "not giving a fuck" is coming from a place of true acceptance rather than merely being used as a defense (or offensive for that matter) mechanism. The latter potentially leading to bitterness and a sort of narcissistic nihilism.

[guylikeshypnosis]

Nov 5, 2018 21:31:16 GMT Heywood Jablowme said:

You will always be able to tell if a woman is into you by applying the “Two Fuck Method"


If you’ve ever been in any type of sales, you'll realize that sales is a lot like the dating world. In the end you're selling a product [you]. If someone is interested they will bite. If not they'll very quickly dismiss you.


You have to be in charge of yourself and realize the genius of you.


Just like in sales you knock on door after door [approach after approach] you learn a valuable lesson. This lesson was when to suck it up, stop giving a fuck, and move on when someone isn't interested.

So here comes the Two Fuck method.


Two Fucks just means you only give two tries with the girl to show you’re interested in her. After two tries you feel and hear or see nothing, she’s not reciprocating you move on. Anything further you are wasting your time, and hers.


First Fuck. Let’s say you met a girl at Costco or added a girl on social media, or you met her at a bar and got her number and you decided hit her up, or to shoot out that next day text, and at first she's giving short replies, or none at all, give it a second chance. Odds are we're human. Maybe she was busy or maybe she had somewhere to go. Nevertheless, within that first fuck you feel around and gather atmosphere and how she responds to you. If it feels flat then she could be into someone else or just not interested in you period.


Second Fuck. Is most likely dealing with hanging out or meetup. If she mentions she going somewhere and you wish to come along and hang or you invite her out to cocktails or something and she never commits to a time it’s because she’s not interested. You only need to ask one or two times to hang out or date. That is the maximum. If she doesn’t react positively in some way, she's not into you. She's dropping hints that want you to stop trying.


Take that hint. STOP GIVING A FUCK and begging her. Seek her no more. Contact her no more. If she shows interest great, if she doesn't great too, but from now on it's her responsibility to find you. She most likely won’t because just like in sales the customer will either buy what you’re selling or slam the door in your face within those first two fucks you give.


Two Fucks is all you give. When the opportunity presents itself, it will be effortless if they are into you, or obvious that they are not. When you internalize that you'll never have an issue with someone wasting your time because they'll never be able to. 

HI
I just finished reading your thread and even though it sounds impressive, I'm calling it "emasculate".
If the idea is that the male lets go if she doesn't respond, it's fine. But if it's about giving it up absolutely, that's crap.
When I imagine what I wanna be, I see someone who gets a response before the second try with any girl. A guy who gets IOIs even if she's a virgin nerd with glasses who doesn't know my language.
"I don't take no for an answer" - that's the RJ mentality.
So yeah, as far as feedback is concerned, this is a great tool for saving energy and time. But if it pushes you into mentality in which your just chasing random IOIs from 7s and 5s, it's bullshit.