Where do I stand?

[clint]

I posted a while back about a cool girl@ the gym - started chatting online thru social media. Shes fit, hot & very nice



Somehow landed a chance to grab a drink & it went well. Found out shes 6 yrs older than me but its ok. I didnt know.



Went to walk out to the car & ended up making a move & fooling around. No sex/ just groping, kind of tried for 2nd base & she ended up leaving saying she was embarrassed. It was hot



She texted me later to say thanks for meeting and was into me but she seemed to imply she wanted more but me to know she wasnt there for the hookup if thats what I wanted.



Shes been somewhat silent since. I dont know what to think. Anyone have insight?



My friends say forget it but Im intrigued, the sexual tension was over the top & im unsure what else as where i stand. 

[JackZero]

What was your response when she said she wasn't there for the hookup?

[clint]

Agree with her. Tell her I'm not that guy.

[JackZero]

Dec 10, 2018 20:22:09 GMT clint said:

Agree with her. Tell her I'm not that guy.

If you're not that guy, that's pretty much the correct response to give her.

Let's go back a little bit to your original post where you said that you are intrigued because the sexual tension was over the top.  As men, we see things through a different lens that a woman would see things through.  For example, you can go out to a club/bar/party and you can see two women kiss/make out and as a guy you would think that the sexual tension was through the roof.  The women on the other hand are doing it for the fun of doing it.  Women will kiss for the fun of kissing but at the same time not be interested in having sex.  I've known women who have said that they will give a handjob or a bj just to avoid having sex, but there's a guy that walked away thinking that the sexual tension was through the roof.  So when you say sexual tension was high, realize that you are looking at it from your perspective.  The only real way to know that it was high is by continuing to push boundaries and even if you end up having sex you may still end up in the same position of her no longer being interested.