Are you obsessed and overprotective of your girlfriend?

[Heywood Jablowme]

Do you spend a lot of my time missing/thinking about her? Are there some days where you feel that her presence changes how you feel the entire day. Like some days if you didn't spend time with her you’d feel sad. You can't seem to stop wanting more of her although you see text, call, facetime, and see each other every damned day. You can't focus on work because you just need to know where she is, what she’s doing what she’s thinking every second? Are your interests waning in most things besides her? You live most of your days expecting her to make you happy? Are you thinking about how to jailbreak her phone? Installing GPS apps? Does your mind keep telling you every time you hang up she’s texting six random dicks? How do you stop being such a needy bitch?


Brosuf you gotta find ways and things to make you happy besides her. Pronto! Anymore I'm surprised how long they will still stick with you when you’re that obsessed. Obviously at that point she must make you really happy that's great and you can thank your fucking lucky stars that you've found someone who can do that for you.


But you need to make yourself happy too, no-one wants to be around someone who's on a reconnaissance mission all of the time, sometimes sure I get it, it’s our nature, but not all the time.


Find a few friends go get shitfaced with when she's away, or family to talk to or just be alone, it's a really good thing to do. Push your career to that next level you were planning on forever. Meditate. Go to a park and sit with your feet in the grass for half an hour each day. Bring a good book. The key is just do whatever you do that makes you happy away from her, that way when you are with her, you two can just have fun and maybe eventually when she's in a down place, you can help lift her up.


Listen, when you’re obsessed with a girl, your life is focused on her. Everything you do is because of her, and you stop living your own life. You stop driving yourself at work. You start pushing family and friends aside. You stop being that fun sexy mother fucker you were. So, to remove her from your head, you need to become refocused on your own life. All the shit you were doing before you met her didn’t magically disappear. It’s all still right there waiting for you to complete. Get back to it.
I know it’s easier said than done, but once you start focusing on you, you won’t feel the need to live for her so hard core.


And I know, you’re busting at the seams to blurt all the adoration and praise and deep emotional love you’re feeling for her with every text, snappy chat, facetime, insta, fakebook, wasup, or whatever third party removed communication you’re into. But just don’t do it. Save the mushy romantical shit for when you are face to face. Preferably after you are done wiping up from your last blast around the sheets. Otherwise you are to keep it light fun sexy and flirty. Unless of course your arranging a get together. Or need to pass on a little quick tidbit of information. No negativity either, it is way too easy to screw it up or have it taken the wrong way. No accusations. No demands to know why there was no instant reply. None of that shit.


If you don’t get a text or message back right away, so fucking what. It’s nothing life threating. She got the message, If it warrants a reply you’ll get one.


I cannot stress this enough. Stay away from social media. This is a big one. Just don’t torture yourself by staring at her new selfie she took partying with her boobs half out, the ripped dude holding her shoulder while she’s doing it. The keg stand at the beach where it looks like that guy is touching her ass.

None of it matters one fucking iota.


You are worried she may cheat. Don’t. There is not one single fucking thing you could do to stop it anyway, NOTHING. If she wanted to be with someone else, she just will. But for now, she’s with you, because that’s what SHE wants. It is completely 100% out of your control.



If you suspect that she IS in fact cheating. Dump her ass. You deserve loyalty. It would have been her choice, she’d hold all the responsibility. Tell her to get her fat flabby cheating ass up out the door and not to trip over a nipple on the way out.

[rocky]

This is real talk and I myself have fallen under these things. It makes you look weak,needy, and drys up their pussy. But God knows its a motherfucker to stay in your Lane and purpose but when you do all of these things they're dripping wet all over you. Being needy is my biggest issue and every day I Try to remind myself these things that you mentioned. I'll keep reading this just to keep myself sharp and fresh. Good shit bro 👌