My First Bang With A Girl Who Is 6 Feet 5 Inches Tall
Mar 29, 2019 5:24:36 GMT
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Mar 29, 2019 5:24:36 GMT
A Quick Recap In Reverse, Of My St Patrick's Day Week Highlights - My Results Out In The Field That Week
Sunday Daytime, March 17, 2019 - Daygame, Day #4
I was at home google searching "events in Pittsburgh on Sunday", and i saw that there was a Penguins game (hockey game) at 7pm. So i decided to head to that area to do some daygame since i knew that there was going to be alot of people around (i like having a high volume of people around when i do game, so i can get alot of reps in. And i was not going to the actual game, because i did not purchase a ticket). Plus i wanted to get my 4th day of game in, to end off the week. But everyone was in groups going to the game. So i went to the bar in the hotel right across the street from the Penguins stadium. I wasn't really feeling it, because there were mainly just group sets of families there, and i wasn't trying to waste my time and energy gaming up family sets. So i left that hotel bar. Most of that afternoon/evening was a waste of me walking around downtown for a couple of hours with hardly no sets around to approach. It was pretty much a ghost town downtown. So i decided on ending my evening with ordering some food from McDonald's for dinner. While i was waiting for my food, and for the number on my ticket to be called..i saw a cute HB8 petite brunette in line ordering food. I waited until she was done, and walked to the side to wait for her order to come, before i approached her. I forgot what i had opened her with, but i know that it was indirect-direct, and about her order. Long story short..we ended up having a conversation, and i sat down and ate with her at one of the tables in McDonald's (we were on an insta-date). I number closed her before her ride came to pick her up.
Saturday Night, March 16, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #3
It was fun as i ran into my guy friends, and i hung out with them for a while at the small club/bar that i went to. This was where i number closed the HB8.7 Brunette who had a boyfriend and who was sitting alone at a table near the wall. And where one of my boys was trying to AMOG me. I also madeout with an HB7 girl on the dance floor, that one of my boys had his eye on (but he never approached her, so i did. Well..she kinda approached me on the dance floor, in a way lol). Sorry bro.
Friday Night, March 15, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #2
I was at bar/club near to where i live. In the hallway, i walk passed this short hot chick (8.5 Brunette) that was walking to the hip hop room. I quickly turned around and yelled at her "Hey wait!", and i opened her direct (basically telling her that i thought she was cute and hot and such). I asked her where she was going off to? She said that she was going to see her friends. So i asked her if i could come join her and meet her friends. She said "Sure!" and to follow her. So i did. For a second..i lost her in the crowd of people in the dark room. But once i got to the other side of the room (next to the stage on the dance floor)..i looked over to my right side, and i saw her just standing there looking around. I told her.."I thought i lost you while i was walking through the crowd". She tells me that she's looking for her friends. No more than half a minute later..her girl friends come and congregate around her (It's about 4 of them, all girls. One of them is the birthday girl..who seemed kinda hyper-active, going around approaching and talking to random people. And i saw her eventually grind on and makeout with some random dude who was all over her. Among this group of 5 girls, was a hot and curvy HB9.0 Blonde Chick. I engage her. We started to have a conversation. It wasn't just normal rapport that we were having..i was emotionally spiking her as well..with teases, a little bit of storytelling (DHV Stories), exploring some commonalities between us (for comfort building), and then i tell her to grab my hand, so that i could segway her into my dance routine (which is basically a couple of full 360 degree spins, and a couple of semi spins..180 degree spins). Next thing you know..we're making out while we're dancing and grinding on each other. Then i tell her that i will walk around with her for a bit (to move her physically around the venue). She then tells her girl friends that she's walking to another area of the club with me, but she will be right back. She does that, and i lead the way through the dense crowd of people. I reach my hand out to her from behind me (the behind the back Hand of God) for her to grab it, and she does. I lead her by the hand to another part of the bar/club, and we sit down on some stool by a wall near the dance floor.
Here is where i get to know her more (we're 1 on 1 now). I talk to her as i verbally and physically escalate on her. My verbal escalation included telling her some of the things that i would like to do to her sexually, and even asking her what her sexual fantasies were. My physical escalation (kino) included me moving her legs so that my legs are in between hers, and that we are in a body position where we are facing each other. I grabbed onto her thick and strong calf muscles, when she had her legs crossed (man she had killer sexy legs..OMG dude ), and of course we madeout a few times (They were not fast makeouts either. They were slow and passionate makeouts that me and her were having with each other). Now it's important to note that this girl was the hottest one in her 5 girl group. In high school (or college)..this girl would be the school's star football jock's girlfriend. That's how hot she was..and here i was having my way with her, making out with her heavily, lips tongue and everything. This is the kind of thing that makes me scratch my head as to why guys hate doing pickup. In what other situation than practicing pickup, would you find yourself making out and physically having your way, with a chick who would normally be way out of your league and wouldn't give you the time of day??..Take your time, i'll wait...Exactly!!! Long story short though, i tried to seed the pull. She would've been down to fuck me tonight, but unfortunately she was on her period. So then i just resigned to the number close and more slow and passionate, makeouts with her. One of the huge lessons that i took from this situation..is that when her friends found both of us again, and they were pulling her away to another part of the bar/club..simultaneously, one of the girls in the group pulled me away with them too. This was a first for me in most recent memory. I'm more used to girls pulling their friend away from me, and leaving me there. But this time i was pulled right along with her by the group. I know that if the friend didn't pull me with them at that moment..i would have not plowed the group set any further, and i would've ejected by that point..since i already madeout with and number closed their hot friend. And i knew that the same night lay wasn't going to happen. But you will still always get a better reference experience from it, when you continue to plow the set. Even when you believe that all hope is lost. And actually..the set went on for like another 10 more minutes at the other location of the bar/club that the group went to (at the karaoke room). I got to even chill and vibe with them, and realized how cool that they were.
After the bar/club closed for the night..we all went outside, and stood on the sidewalk. We all got into what i call the "cuddle huddle" (me + all the girls + a random drunk guy, who seemed cool, so me and birthday girl pulled him into the cuddle huddle with us) since it got cold, and birthday girl was shivering in her sleeveless dress. So while i was out there with them in this cuddle huddle, while they were waiting for their ride home..i was still making out with my girl (the hot HB9.0 Blonde Chick) off and on. You can tack on another 15 minutes of me still being in this set, with this 5 girl group (+2 guys..me and the drunk dude)! Behind us, was 2 guys leaning up against the fence of the club (the fence separates the outside deck of the club from the sidewalk). One of them was clearly butt hurt that he couldn't join in our cuddle huddle (i briefly saw him trying to come in, but birthday girl told him to "Go Away Asshole, Fuck Off!"), so he kept calling birthday girl "fat!" I just shook my head saying to myself "No dude..why?" . But once birthday girl's group of girl friends came up to him, and my girl stood right in front of his face, like she was about to kick his ass (She's taller than him too. She's almost 6 foot in her heel boots, and he was about 5' 9")..he stopped calling her fat Lol. He didn't start talking shit again, until the girls got into the car lol. So call that dude what you will, because that's exactly what he was in that moment. But more importantly..as i was looking at him..i couldn't help but to think that if he had learned game (if he was more calibrated on how he approached the group..if he was more self-amused/in a positive state..and if he was non-reactive to what birthday girl had said to him, when he was trying to get into our cuddle huddle), he might've been able to get into our cuddle huddle, and even maybe made some headway with one of the girls in the group (or maybe even with the birthday girl ironically).
Wednesday Night, March 13, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #1
1st Location (1st Bar)
I usually hit up 2 bars on Wednesday nights. As i said before in other posts..i believe that warming-up is crucial for you to smoothly get yourself into a social state, to get out of your head, and to build up momentum. So that's usually what i use the 1st location for (the 1st bar)..to warm-up. It doesn't mean that i can never ever pull a girl from the 1st bar (because if i see the opportunity to pull a girl that i'm interacting with at the 1st bar, for the same night lay..i will still go for it), it just means that here is where i begin to get myself into a social state. I run into one of my guy friends here, who has an Australian accent (he's an Aussie), and his guy friend that he introduces me to. They are talking to a mixed group of girls and guys, whom i also introduce myself to and talk to. But it wasn't for long, since they all were leaving to go home. My Aussie friend's guy friend..had a green bowler hat on, since it was St. Patrick's Day week. Seeing him wearing that hat..kinda put me into a festive vibe straight away..because it told my brain "It's party time!..Let's have some fun!..and Let's get into some trouble!". I guess when i see party accessories..it triggers my brain to have fun, and that makes me get into "party mode". So we finished our glasses of beer, and the 3 of us walk out of the door of that bar. Now the 3 of us are walking the sidewalk, to walk up the street and around the corner, to the 2nd location (the 2nd bar).
2nd Location (2nd Bar)
We get to the bar, and there's a few people hanging around outside chatting with each other. And some of them are smoking cigarettes. We chat with them a little bit (for no more than 1 minute), and it's more so the 2 guys that i'm with who are chatting with them (we know people at this bar, so it's more like a social circle atmosphere. Btw..that's what also makes it hard to pull girls from this bar, because they all know each other, and they don't want to be judged or labelled as sluts by their peers. So because of that fact..i find that it will be easier to pull a girl from this bar that has never been here before (or a girl who's not a regular at this bar yet). I don't waste too much of my time and energy, chatting with the people out here. I just want to go inside and start gaming! So we go inside of the bar. I dap-up the door man (he's a guy probably in his mid to late 20s, who we all know). It's a decent amount of people in here. My 2 guy friends (the Aussie + my new guy friend, who's wearing the green bowler hat on his head), both go down to the far end of the bar. But i decide to stop here at the bar counter, to get a cup of beer. But right in front of me at the bar counter..i see this really tall brunette chick (She's taller than i am!), talking to a girl (probably her friend). So i decide to stop here, and talk to them both.
I'm not sure what i opened with (the opening line doesn't really matter. It's what you do and say afterwards that matters much more). I usually don't drink, but i was drinking on this night (at both bars), and i was definitely tipsy (not drunk lol). Knowing myself..i don't really spend any time thinking about what to say for my opener, i just open. I'm more concerned about opening immediately with little to no hesitation. So i probably just said "What's up?..What's going on ladies?". It's not the best or most sophisticated opener, but my goal is to open quickly and project my voice to get their attention. They replied and said whatever they said to me (just being friendly and receptive overall, with their response back to me). I waited at the bar counter next to these girls, for the bartender to hand me my beer that i just paid for (I'm friends with the bartender too. Again..it's more of a social circle type of bar. It's kinda like that old sitcom tv show called "Cheers"). Both girls were talking to each other, but then the shorter one started talking to someone else. So i was left with the taller girl (she was even taller than me, and i'm about 6' 3"). I remember telling her that she was really tall (I was really in amazement at how tall she was. I'm used to seeing 5 foot something girls everywhere i go), and i asked her how tall she was. She said that she was 6 foot 5 inches tall. "Holy shit!" (i don't know if i said that to her or not lol, but that was definitely what i was thinking). The shorter friend (she's a cute girl, probably a 7.8) comes up, and starts talking to me as well. She is very charged..high energy and very self-amused. Her personality was very bubbly, and she was making funny jokes and telling us some of her funny stories (puas would call this DHV stories). It didn't occur to me at the time (because alot of shit goes over us guys' heads all the time..as it often does, when we're interacting with girls in the moment), until i wrote this field report down..but i think that the shorter chick was probably trying to game me up (she probably liked me). I was definitely engaged into what she was saying, and i was engaging the taller friend (the 6' 5" friend) as well. At this point..the taller friend was sitting in a chair at the bar counter, a couple of feet across from where i was standing, and the shorter friend was standing next to both of us (the 3 of us kinda formed a triangle). There was a point where i was explaining something, making my point (probably joking around and/or telling both of them a funny DHV story of my own)..and i was slightly and gradually, tipping my cup of beer that i was holding in my hand..but i wasn't even aware that i was doing it lol. And eventually some of the beer inside my cup, spilled onto the taller friend's lap (we'll call her HB 6' 5" Brunette). I was stunned that i had done that. That was an embarrassing rookie move for me. But i wanted to remain non-reactive to what i just did, so not to turn it into a DLV for me. I just embraced it, and actually turn it into a positive for me.
Me: "Damn! my bad. I can be very clumsy sometimes lol" (I tried to rub-dry off some of the beer that spilled on top of HB 6' 5" Brunette's leg. The beer spill was un-intended, but this kino that i just did on her in the moment, wasn't un-intended )
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "It's okay, you're good"
After that beer spilling debacle..the 3 of us just went back to cheerfully talking again, as if nothing had happened. But there might've been some covert communication that i wasn't even aware of, going on between the shorter friend and HB 6' 5" Brunette. The shorter friend, being her cheerful and bubbly self..said a few more things before she says that she was going to the far end of the bar, to dance and to listen to the music that this bluegrass band (this band performs here at this bar every Wednesday night) was performing. So it's just me and HB 6' 5" Brunette now. She's still sitting down in the chair, and i'm standing up. There was an empty seat in front of me, for me to sit in. But i had the feeling that it would be better for me to stand up, while i game HB 6' 5" Brunette (i think i guessed right!). Her body is facing me (strong ioi), and i notice that she is making very strong eye contact with me, and she's holding it. I recognize her strong eye contact with me right now, so i hold eye contact with her as well. She's definitely attracted to me..definitely! While i'm talking to her, i can definitely feel the tension, but i just roll with it.
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I apologize for my friend's behavior. She get's very excited like this. She's kinda crazy Lol."
Me: "It's alright. She's crazy in a good way. I thought she was very entertaining"
There were some pauses in between our talking, which we both just kept awkwardly cheersing each other (her beer bottle and my cup of beer) to release the pressure of the tension a little bit. I try to see if i can move her physically from the bar counter, to the dance floor area. I ask her if she wants to come with me to the dance floor. She says.."I don't feel like going, can we just stay right here?". Me: "Sure". So i just stayed right there, at the bar counter with her. I'm looking at her, and she's definitely cute in the face, she has a curvy-thick body, and impeccably trimmed eyebrows. She's probably also wearing some light makeup on her face too. I give her a 7.4 out of 10. As i'm looking at her looking at me..i'm thinking in my mind.."What would it be like, to fuck a 6 foot 5 chick like her? Hmmmm..". I kinda get turned on at the thought of handling and banging all that body. My game with her right now is basically..normal rapport (us asking each other personal questions about each other..and about our logistics as well)..some DHV stories about myself and about trivial subjects..a couple of compliments directed at her..and some statements of sexual intent. At some point, she basically tells me.."You can't go home with me tonight, because i have to leave here with my friend" (she has to leave the bar with her cheerful and bubbly girl friend). I tell her that it's cool, and i'll just take her number. I do my usual number close routine, which is..i have her tell me what her number is, as i type it into my phone. And i save her name like this..her name, a dash, and the place where i met her (Example: "Chloe - Bluegrass Bar"), so i can put a place to the name, so i can remember who she is, whenever i see that name in my contacts. And then i call her phone. I always tell these girls "Now i'm going to call your phone, so you'll have my number", and they usually comply with that. But it's really just so that i can see my number pop up on their phones. That way, if my phone number does pop up on her phone..i know that it's her real phone number. So if she does flake, it won't be because of her phone number being mis-spelled, or a fake number, because i have eliminated both of those possibilities with this number close routine of mines. She tells me that her friend probably wants to leave soon. She then walks away, to talk to her.
I walk to the far end of the bar, and i see my new guy friend (the one who's wearing the green bowler hat) sitting in a chair at the bar counter. My Aussie buddy is close by too..but he's probably talking to some people at the bar (He's very social and friendly, he can talk to anyone. That's what i both admire and respect about him. Because he's much better than i am, at doing the same thing.). So there's a cute girl (she's wearing some kind of unicorn pajamas/costume) that is prancing around in our vicinity. My new guy friend wearing the green bowler hat..seems to be taken by her, and spitting some game at her. Which is mainly him teasing her, making rapport convo with her, and asking her questions. It's not too bad, it's definitely a step up from the typical chode guy game. But i think he's missing one thing..i never heard him be direct with her yet. It's possible that he might've gave her a compliment or two. I can tell that he was flirting with her, but it still felt murky to me. I mean..it was subtle directness (it was obvious to me that he was hitting on her), but he never made clear statements that he was interested in her. I saw this as a problem because, what if she doesn't know if he's truly interested in her or not? Do you see the un-clairity in how i'm trying to describe his flirting with this girl? Well..that's probably how she felt. Even though she was flirting back with him a little bit. But neither one of them made it clear to each other, that they liked each other. My experience in game, allows me to see these kind of fundamental flaws in guys' game on girls (I'm witnessing the flaws in my new guy friend's game in particular). A guy did come up, and clinged by very closely to the girl. Then right on schedule..my new guy friend starts bashing the girl to me (I see this as ego protection behavior, that i commonly see from some of my guy friends. I believe they do this, when they feel like they are loosing the frame, and when they know that they might not get the girl. So it's a way for them to say "Well..i didn't like her anyway", when he clearly does. And my new guy friend says, he doesn't know about her, and how she might be with that guy. I told him "Why don't you just ask her Lol?"..Him: "I just don't know man, it's too much of a risk". Me: "Dude..look here..watch". I approach the girl wearing the unicorn pajamas/costume. Me: "Is that guy your boyfriend?" Her: "No, he's a friend..blah blah blah". I walk a couple of steps back over to my new guy friend. Me: "Boom! See!..She said he's just her friend". I kinda smirk and chuckle at him, because he made that so difficult, when he could've just straight up asked her what her relationship was with that guy. But then it dawned on me..that he probably doesn't have a solid and clear understanding of the fundamentals of game as much as i do (because i've been studying, practicing, and accumulating experience in game for 5 years). He probably just tries random shit (like most guys do), in hopes that it works to get him the girl. She makes one last attempt to get one of our attention, by asking us one at a time "Who wants to fight me?"..as she puts up her dukes. I throw my hands up and say to her "Not me..i'm just watching and observing everything that's going on here". But her orbiter guy friend eagerly bites (while my new guy friend just sits there..and he leers, grovels, and sulks), and they play fight with each other. She tries to wrestle him, but she ends up falling to the floor LOL, since she is short and tiny, and probably weighs way less than him. After that fiasco..i just look at my new guy friend, and i can see that he's just turned off by her behavior (or..maybe he's just butt-hurt that he didn't get her). And of course, he just bashes her even more, and says to me "She's not for me man. Look at her..she's a train wreck, i don't want any parts of that girl! I don't need that kind of drama in my life". So the girl in the unicorn pajamas/costume get's up off the floor, and she walks off with her orbiter guy friend, that she just wrestled with.
I see HB 6' 5" Brunette, she's several feet in front of me. She turns around and sees me. She walks over to me, and tells me that she's about to go. I give her a hug. She tells me "Text me later" Me: "I will, i'll do that". She leaves the bar. My new guy friend says "She seems like a nice girl, you should go after that". Me: "Don't worry, i will". I told him that she's cute, and how i wonder what it would be like to bang a chick that's 6 foot 5 inches tall. In my mind..i see her as a challenge, so i'll definitely hit her up. Nothing really eventful happens after that, and i leave to go home not too long after that.
My Text Game Throughout The Week With HB 6' 5" Brunette
The rest of my game with HB 6' 5" Brunette after that night, is all over text. I saw a video on youtube one night (very recently), and Ross Jeffries (aka "the grand dad of pickup") was being interviewed via Skype by another pua. And Ross Jeffries was describing his sexual NLP game, and how he used it to take the dialogue that he was having with a girl that he was interacting with, into a sexual direction (even making her think sexual thoughts). And that gave me the idea and inspiration to implement the gist of his sexual NLP concepts and patterns, into my text game with HB 6' 5" Brunette..and it worked! Below is my text game to HB 6' 5" Brunette. From that Wednesday night (March 13, 2019) that i met her at that local bar..to the Monday of the following week (March 18, 2019). It created enough buy-in with her, that it got her driving over to my house from her home, after she got home from work that night. I start off with sending her my initial text, late that Wednesday night, after we first met at the local bar (at the 2nd bar) earlier that night.
Thursday, March 14, 2019
Me: "Hi (her real name), this is (my real name), from earlier tonight at (the name of the bar). You told me that it was just your 2nd time there. Also i told you that i liked how tall and cute you are" (This is the format of my initial text template. I explain what that is in detail in this thread on this forum "http://mpuaforum.proboards.com/thread/178/text-girls-day-close". I also went direct in my initial text to set the sexual frame from the start) .......3:56 AM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hey!" .......1:35 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I remember ya:) how are you" .......2:03 PM
Me: "I'm doing good. I'm glad that you remember me, although i didn't see you drink that much last night Lol. How was the rest of your night?" (Even though i asked her a boring chode question at the end, i threw in a little bit of humor in it..a positive emotional spike) .......2:06 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Good! Hahaha we were drinking a lot before lol! It was good just headed back home...how was your night" .......3:17 PM
Me: "It was decent, i went to the casino for a bit, and ran into a buddy of mines. But just think how much more awesome that both of our nights would've been, if we spent the rest of it together, over a movie and chill at my place. "boy and girl about to kiss icon, DVD icon, and Television icon" (Sexual Spike) .......3:24 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Oh fun! Lol that would have been way better!" .......5:50 PM
Me: "We still can. "winking smiley face" How tall did you say you are again?" .......5:52 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "6' 5" .......6:08 PM
Me: "I would've handled and utilized every inch of your 6' 5" frame." (I just said fuck the bullshit, and just went very direct and sexual with her in my text moving forward) .......6:10 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hahaha oh yeah?!" .......7:35 PM
Me: "I'll definitely make you wet and probably make you cum over and over again." .......7:38 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "We'll have to see about that;)" (And just like that, she makes a statement of her sexual intent to me. This is basically her agreeing to having sex with me) .......11:21 PM
Me: "Oh that's exactly the experience that you will get with me. You will never leave my house un-pleased." .......11:29 PM
Friday, March 15, 2019
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hey:)" (She initiates the first text to me on this day. This is a very strong IOI from her) .......5:47 PM
Me: "What's up! "kiss smiley face emoji" .......5:53 PM
Me: "I'm undressing you in my mind right now." (Double-texting is normally a no no. But it was a statement of sexual intent, that i sent to her in my double-text. And because of that, it did not end up hurting me) .......6:21 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hahahaha" .......6:21 PM
Me: "I'm laying you flat on my bed after i took all of your clothes off. I'm touching you all over your body, as you're breathing heavily and biting down on your bottom lip." (More sexual spiking, using visualization this time. To make her picture herself having sex with me. These kind of texts was inspired by Ross Jeffries's sexual NLP game) .......6:25 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Damnnnnnn okayyyyy" .......6:27 PM
Me: "Your body is squirming a little bit, i smile and you tell me "Don't stop, keep going". So then i move up to your neck. I kiss your neck, i nibble on it a little bit, and i start sucking on it. That's when i hear your 1st moan." .......6:33 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Are you a fucking writer?!" (Yeah..something like that! But she doesn't have to know that. Shhhhhh Lol) .......6:34 PM
Me: "Haha. I got skills." .......6:36 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "r anything but maybe we could try to ha g out like Monday or somethin!" (She's actively trying to make plans with me, which means that she is effectively seduced, and completely bought-in) .......8:00 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm just gonna super honest with you.. I really want to hang out with you and get to know you more. I have plans all weekend so I'm not blowing you off o" (She's double-texting me right now. She's the one who's doing the chasing) .......8:00 PM
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Me: "Ok we can do that. "boy and girl about to kiss icon" (Sexual spike. I'm keeping the sexual vibe between us alive) .......3:49 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Closed eyes smiley face emoji" .......6:41 PM
Me: "What time are you available tomorrow?" (This is where i get her logistics for Monday, so i can close the deal) .......6:42 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm not done til like 10 tomorrow and have to be back at 10 but I'm don't at 6 on Tuesday! Would that work?!?" .......6:44 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I didn't realize I closed Monday:(" (She's the manager at a makeup store) .......6:46 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I mean I could do Monday but I'm not gonna get anywhere til like 11:30" .......7:54 PM
Me: "You could come see me after you close on Monday. I can order us something." (I am determined and resolute on getting her to come over on Monday night, to close the deal..ie i hold my frame. I even try to persuade her to come over on Monday night even more, by throwing in me ordering us some food) .......8:05 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Ok:)" (She agrees. So at this point, the deal is sealed with her, and she is coming to see me on Monday night. All i need to do now is..wait for her to come over tomorrow night, and actually seal the deal with her in person..physically. All of my text to her from this point on..is just fluff and logistics, until she walks through my front door) .......8:07 PM
Me: "I live in (the name of my neighborhood). About a 5 minute drive from where we met." .......8:08 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Oh perfect!" .......10:18 PM
Monday, March 18, 2019
Me: "I just got home from work. My address is (my home address)" .......5:46 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Ok! I'll let you know when I'm on my way!" .......7:38 PM
Me: "Ok "Ok hand sign" .......7:38 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm on my way" .......10:21 PM
Me: "Ok Cool" .......10:25 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm here" .......10:54 PM
Me: "Ok i'm coming out now." .......10:55 PM
Monday Night, March 18, 2019 - Day-2, Booty Call At My Crib
Right around the time when she texted me "I'm on my way", i was kinda freaking out and talking to myself like "Oh shit! She's on her way..i gotta clean up my room! Do i have time to do that?". I didn't know at the time, if she was 10 minutes away, 20 minutes away, or 30 minutes away. I could've cleaned up my room even an hour earlier, had i not been bullshitting around, wasting away that full hour that i had to prepare..vibing to some music on youtube, on my laptop, that i was listening to through my earphones. But it all worked out, because i had my room looking immaculate at least 10 to 15 minutes before HB 6' 5" Brunette sent me the text "I'm here". You'll be amazed at how fast you can clean shit up, when you are expecting a girl to come over in any minute. The reason why you want to have a clean room (or at least have it look clean and neat) before the girl comes over, is simple common sense. You want the girl to feel as comfortable as possible, to make the seduction go alot easier for you. If the girl doesn't even feel comfortable staying in your room for more than 5 minutes..that will make the possibility of you fucking her, alot more harder to actualize. So always tidying-up your room before a girl arrives, is a no-brainer.
As soon as HB 6' 5" Brunette steps through the door of my house (she barley even get's both feet in the door..and i haven't even closed the door yet) i hug her, and kiss her on the lips. That's how soon and fast, i begin my kino escalation on her. I waste no time at all. And it's not even because i'm thirsty for the sex. It's more about setting the sexual tone with her, early. We did discuss weather we should go up to my room, or just chill out on the couch in the living room (we're both in the living room right now). I opted that we stay down in the living room (because i wanted to add more suspense to the seduction, and entertain us both in the process), and chill and relax with her for a bit. Ironically..this ended up being the right decision (maybe because it took the pressure off, from us going straight up to my room to have sex. And my decision allowed her to gradually ease into the seduction with me, as opposed to us forcing it). She takes off her shoes and places it next to where my shoes were, on the floor mat (I was kinda impressed by this, because most girls probably would've kept their shoes on). But then again..i probably told her to relax and make herself at home, and that she could put her shoes there. I grabbed the tv remote control, that's sitting on the wooden table. And i asked her "Do you like to watch reality tv-shows?"..she says "Yes i do". So i told her to come sit down on the couch with me, and let's watch some reality tv shows together. She was more than happy to comply..she was almost giddy! I was even telling her about the characters on the show (the name of the reality tv show is called "Summer House"), and their situations. To say that she got hooked into it with me, was an understatement. She was enjoying herself. This was perfect..because the comfort has just been established, and it was now time to close this loop with attraction.
So at different moments during the commercials or whatever..i would say to her "Hey" or "Look at me", and when she looked at me..i would lean in and kiss her on the lips. We would end up making out. While we're doing that..i put her hand over my pants (i was wearing pajama pants at the time. I know..i'm very child-ish Lol) to feel my boner. She rubs on it, and it's already hard. I think i ask her if she wants to suck my dick..she says "Yeah sure"..and there's no LMR whatsoever (Me and HB 6' 5" Brunette watched a little bit of tv, and then sex happens, with not much escalation needed). I pull down my pants and she's sucking me off (She's laying down on the couch. Her head, arms, and hands are over my lap) while i'm sitting on the couch, watching "Summer House" on the flat screen tv Lol. She gives me a continuous blow job + a tug job, interchangeably, for about 20 something odd minutes. Then we get up off the couch. I bring her over to the end of the couch, so we can be out of view of the open walkway (So no one could see what we were doing. because i had told her that my roommate and her boyfriend are in her room upstairs). So i tell her to bend over, and hold down onto the arm of the couch, while she's standing there. She did that. She pulls down her pants, and i proceeded to bang her from behind. After about 10 minutes of me hitting her from the back, behind the couch..we stop. She pulls her pants back up, and we decided to finish fucking upstairs in my room.
I'll spare you the details of the 2nd part of our fuck session up in my room. But before we smashed..she was marveling and asking me questions about my portrait drawings that i have up on my wall in my room (more attraction & comfort spiking). I can tell you that having sex with a chick that is 6 foot 5 inches tall, is really not that much different from fucking a chick that is 5 foot something..except you're handling alot more body with a chick that tall, than you normally would. So a little bit more strength and endurance was required on my part (than i would usually need to handle the body of a 5 foot something woman) to handle her entire 6ft 5" frame. So with that being said..i banged that pussy out very thoroughly..before we both cuddled up in my bed and went to sleep.
When we woke up in the morning, HB 6' 5" Brunette told me that she had to leave my place soon. To go back to her house, so that she could get ready and leave for work (she works at a makeup shop, and she's the manager there). I say ok cool. Her alarm on her phone hadn't gone off yet (She set it last night, for it to go off around 7:20 am i think. And i believe that she said she starts work at 9:00 am). We still had about 15 to 20 minutes left (or what have you), until she had to leave my place to get ready for work. We both were still laying in my bed at the time. And i thought to myself.."A nice guy, would just let her leave. But what would a bad boy do??..Hmmm..a bad boy would probably fuck her again, before he sends her off on her way". So you know what i did? I went with what the bad boy would do. On a side note..i do have a current sticking point that i'm working on, that i actually call " the non nice guy sticking point". Every year i always have 2 sticking points that i am working on..a new sticking point (that i'm probably consciously incompetent at, but i'm working on it to become more consciously competent at it)..and a current sticking point (that i'm somewhat consciously competent at it, because i'm making some headway with it..but i'm still working on it to become more un-consciously competent at it). So with that being said..my "non nice guy sticking point", is the sticking point that i'm currently working on. So i ask HB 6' 5" Brunette if she could give me a blow job..she obliges. After that..i lube up and put a condom on, and i fuck her doggystyle, missionary, and from the side, before i came. I might've ate her out too lol. After that, she puts her clothes back on, gathers her things, and i walk with her downstairs. I give her a hug and kiss on the lips. I tell her to have a good day. And out the door, and into the world she goes. lol
Takeaways
Being 5 years into the game..i'm still learning more about myself and about the game as time goes on. Writing this lay report, i learned that i can do anything that i set my mind to do. I get alot of girls phone numbers, but i simply just don't follow up with them (i have to work on that)..and those numbers eventually turn cold. But with HB 6' 5" Brunette..i was intrigued because she was 6 foot 5 inches tall, and i've never been with a chick that tall before. So i saw her as a challenge..or more accurately..she was very interesting to me, and that's what got me more engaged. So apparently..girls that i find to be an interesting challenge..get's me more interested in them. Which motivates me to actually want to follow up with them, and follow through with the seduction. The more you know about yourself, and what inspires you (what motivates you)..the better. And girls that inspire you to want to even pursue them further..are probably the girls that you're gonna get. I talked to my boy Derrick over the phone about this the other week. I told him that this was the first girl that i banged that was 6' 5". His reaction was "Wow Ok!" LOl. He said that he probably wouldn't have done it Lol, but he also said that why don't you try to bang your first oriental chick or your first chick from wherever. And that's the thing..you don't have to bang your 1st 6' 5" girl like i did. For you (the reader) it could be..your 1st Asian chick..or your 1st Black chick..or your 1st Rocker chick with purple hair and full tattoo sleeves on both arms. Whatever the fuck it is..just interact with people, and find a type of girl that you wouldn't normally interact with, and get laid by her. Again..have fun with this! That's the whole point of getting into pickup! Learn..but have fun with it at the same time! Break your own record..break other guys records! How many dudes do you know that banged a chick that's 6 foot 5 inches tall??..probably not many, if at all. So i can now say that i have, and i've checked that shit off of my bucket list. LOl
Also too..i did some cool attraction stuff in our initial interaction at the local bar, but i feel that the meat of the seduction was in my text game to HB 6' 5" Brunette. And because i was so direct and sexual in my text messages to her..there were no questions about my intent. And when she finally came over..there was ZERO LMR! So if you are a guy who constantly struggles with having to deal with LMR from girls, whenever you bring them over to your place..it's probably because you have not made your sexual intent clear enough to the girl. She's not sure in which way that you want her (She doesn't know for sure if you want her as..just a cuddle buddy..just a friend..just a fuck buddy..or as your girlfriend). It's also important to keep in mind that, you want to be running the type of game, that is congruent with the type of relationship that you want to have with the girl. For an example..if you want to fuck the girl on the same night (for a one-night-stand or same night lay), you don't want to be running a "boyfriend style of game". Because what do we know about girls who sees a guy as "boyfriend material". They will hold out on sex, because they don't want you to "hit and run". So running "relationship game" on a girl that you want to bang on the same night that you met her, probably isn't the best strategy for the outcome that you want to have. And i suspect that alot of you guys are doing this..which is probably why you get major LMR whenever you pull a girl back to your place, and why you can't convert her into a fuck close. In my case..i made it very clear that i just wanted to fuck her (so i guess you can say that i used a "fuck boy style of game"). She probably hadn't had sex in a while (i think she told me that it's been 2 months since she last had sex)..she probably was just horny, and knew that i could probably fulfill that specific need for her. I wasn't trying to act like i wanted to be her boyfriend, or anything like that, so that's why my game was effective.
Not all girls will succumb to the very direct and sexual style of text game, that i used on HB 6' 5" Brunette. Some girls may require for you to be more subtle in your seduction, in order to get them in bed with you. So one style doesn't fit all. You have to get a feel for the chick that you are dealing with. Find out what she responds to positively, and what she responds to negatively. And calibrate your game and texting to her. In my case..it was a straight line of seduction, but it had alot of clarity of sexual intent in it, and that's why it worked. At the very least..you can use it to filter or screen-out the girls who are not DTF. I don't know about you..but i don't have the time, patience, or money, to spend 1..2..3..4 dates on one single girl. Earlier this year..i went on 2 dates with an HB8 Black chick, and 1 date with a Cute HB6 Chubby chick. How do you think that both of those ended out..you wanna take a guess? I kissed the HB8 Black chick a couple of times, but that's about it..and i hugged and kissed the Cute HB6 Chubby chick on the cheek..but that's about it. Neither one of those girls, ended up in a lay for me. So again..if you're looking to just get laid..screen out the girls who aren't DTF, by flirting and getting sexual with them over text. If they are not into it..then just next them, and move on to the girls who are down to fuck aight! That way, you don't even have to get up off of your couch..she won't waste none of your time..and you won't waste any of hers.
With that being said..i was in a bit of a drought before this lay happened. So finally getting that monkey off of my back was a huge relief. My last lay before HB 6' 5" Brunette, was at the end of December (Ouch right?!!!). Last year..i averaged 1 to 2 new girls a month, and 2 out of the 14 were fuck buddies. I was getting laid pretty consistently..so i didn't really take notice of all the girls that i was banging, and all the sex that i was having. Because it was normal for me..almost like getting up to go grocery shopping, and i usually took some food home, or ate it somewhere else Lol. But when you go from that level of abundance..to not banging any girls in 2 whole months..YOU WILL DEFINITELY NOTICE THAT! I contribute my 2 month drought to 2 factors. Factor #1..i was a little bit heartbroken and depressed over losing my main chick (the girl who was my fuck buddy for 7 months). Factor #2..on the same night that i was gonna go out on a Day-2 with this chick that i had already banged a week ago (i pulled her from the club back to my place a week before)..it was snowing, my phone got water damaged, and it died on me. Not only did the snow storm permanently damage my phone, but the girl that i was supposed to go out on a Day-2 with (she was down to come back to my place again..probably to fuck me again, after the date)..she didn't want to drive on the slick roads, so she opted to stay at home. I also lost all of my contacts, which also meant that i lost all of my potential leads, including that girl's phone number. And all of this literally happens to me at the start of January of 2019. So i started 2019 going in a downwards spiral. I had to slowly but surely..get myself back up out of it. I bought a new phone, but i had to start all the way from scratch, and get fresh new leads all over again. I had to emotionally get over losing my 7-month fuck buddy chick (we stopped communicating with each other), which i still wasn't over her. It felt like a true breakup to me, as if she were my girlfriend. And the one thing that i could do having zero abundance..was GAME! So at some point..i stop feeling sorry for myself, and i went out more consistently. In this case..it was 4 days that i went out on this particular week. And it all came full circle with HB 6' 5" Brunette, that i met on Day #1. So if you're in a drought right now..just go out man. I recommend going out 3 to 4 days a week, until you get laid. This is what i know to work. And if that sounds like too much work for you..then there's no reason that i can see, why you can't approach 1 or 2 girls every day. Everyone has time to approach 1 or 2 girls a day. You have no excuses.
-G
Sunday Daytime, March 17, 2019 - Daygame, Day #4
I was at home google searching "events in Pittsburgh on Sunday", and i saw that there was a Penguins game (hockey game) at 7pm. So i decided to head to that area to do some daygame since i knew that there was going to be alot of people around (i like having a high volume of people around when i do game, so i can get alot of reps in. And i was not going to the actual game, because i did not purchase a ticket). Plus i wanted to get my 4th day of game in, to end off the week. But everyone was in groups going to the game. So i went to the bar in the hotel right across the street from the Penguins stadium. I wasn't really feeling it, because there were mainly just group sets of families there, and i wasn't trying to waste my time and energy gaming up family sets. So i left that hotel bar. Most of that afternoon/evening was a waste of me walking around downtown for a couple of hours with hardly no sets around to approach. It was pretty much a ghost town downtown. So i decided on ending my evening with ordering some food from McDonald's for dinner. While i was waiting for my food, and for the number on my ticket to be called..i saw a cute HB8 petite brunette in line ordering food. I waited until she was done, and walked to the side to wait for her order to come, before i approached her. I forgot what i had opened her with, but i know that it was indirect-direct, and about her order. Long story short..we ended up having a conversation, and i sat down and ate with her at one of the tables in McDonald's (we were on an insta-date). I number closed her before her ride came to pick her up.
Saturday Night, March 16, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #3
It was fun as i ran into my guy friends, and i hung out with them for a while at the small club/bar that i went to. This was where i number closed the HB8.7 Brunette who had a boyfriend and who was sitting alone at a table near the wall. And where one of my boys was trying to AMOG me. I also madeout with an HB7 girl on the dance floor, that one of my boys had his eye on (but he never approached her, so i did. Well..she kinda approached me on the dance floor, in a way lol). Sorry bro.
Friday Night, March 15, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #2
I was at bar/club near to where i live. In the hallway, i walk passed this short hot chick (8.5 Brunette) that was walking to the hip hop room. I quickly turned around and yelled at her "Hey wait!", and i opened her direct (basically telling her that i thought she was cute and hot and such). I asked her where she was going off to? She said that she was going to see her friends. So i asked her if i could come join her and meet her friends. She said "Sure!" and to follow her. So i did. For a second..i lost her in the crowd of people in the dark room. But once i got to the other side of the room (next to the stage on the dance floor)..i looked over to my right side, and i saw her just standing there looking around. I told her.."I thought i lost you while i was walking through the crowd". She tells me that she's looking for her friends. No more than half a minute later..her girl friends come and congregate around her (It's about 4 of them, all girls. One of them is the birthday girl..who seemed kinda hyper-active, going around approaching and talking to random people. And i saw her eventually grind on and makeout with some random dude who was all over her. Among this group of 5 girls, was a hot and curvy HB9.0 Blonde Chick. I engage her. We started to have a conversation. It wasn't just normal rapport that we were having..i was emotionally spiking her as well..with teases, a little bit of storytelling (DHV Stories), exploring some commonalities between us (for comfort building), and then i tell her to grab my hand, so that i could segway her into my dance routine (which is basically a couple of full 360 degree spins, and a couple of semi spins..180 degree spins). Next thing you know..we're making out while we're dancing and grinding on each other. Then i tell her that i will walk around with her for a bit (to move her physically around the venue). She then tells her girl friends that she's walking to another area of the club with me, but she will be right back. She does that, and i lead the way through the dense crowd of people. I reach my hand out to her from behind me (the behind the back Hand of God) for her to grab it, and she does. I lead her by the hand to another part of the bar/club, and we sit down on some stool by a wall near the dance floor.
Here is where i get to know her more (we're 1 on 1 now). I talk to her as i verbally and physically escalate on her. My verbal escalation included telling her some of the things that i would like to do to her sexually, and even asking her what her sexual fantasies were. My physical escalation (kino) included me moving her legs so that my legs are in between hers, and that we are in a body position where we are facing each other. I grabbed onto her thick and strong calf muscles, when she had her legs crossed (man she had killer sexy legs..OMG dude ), and of course we madeout a few times (They were not fast makeouts either. They were slow and passionate makeouts that me and her were having with each other). Now it's important to note that this girl was the hottest one in her 5 girl group. In high school (or college)..this girl would be the school's star football jock's girlfriend. That's how hot she was..and here i was having my way with her, making out with her heavily, lips tongue and everything. This is the kind of thing that makes me scratch my head as to why guys hate doing pickup. In what other situation than practicing pickup, would you find yourself making out and physically having your way, with a chick who would normally be way out of your league and wouldn't give you the time of day??..Take your time, i'll wait...Exactly!!! Long story short though, i tried to seed the pull. She would've been down to fuck me tonight, but unfortunately she was on her period. So then i just resigned to the number close and more slow and passionate, makeouts with her. One of the huge lessons that i took from this situation..is that when her friends found both of us again, and they were pulling her away to another part of the bar/club..simultaneously, one of the girls in the group pulled me away with them too. This was a first for me in most recent memory. I'm more used to girls pulling their friend away from me, and leaving me there. But this time i was pulled right along with her by the group. I know that if the friend didn't pull me with them at that moment..i would have not plowed the group set any further, and i would've ejected by that point..since i already madeout with and number closed their hot friend. And i knew that the same night lay wasn't going to happen. But you will still always get a better reference experience from it, when you continue to plow the set. Even when you believe that all hope is lost. And actually..the set went on for like another 10 more minutes at the other location of the bar/club that the group went to (at the karaoke room). I got to even chill and vibe with them, and realized how cool that they were.
After the bar/club closed for the night..we all went outside, and stood on the sidewalk. We all got into what i call the "cuddle huddle" (me + all the girls + a random drunk guy, who seemed cool, so me and birthday girl pulled him into the cuddle huddle with us) since it got cold, and birthday girl was shivering in her sleeveless dress. So while i was out there with them in this cuddle huddle, while they were waiting for their ride home..i was still making out with my girl (the hot HB9.0 Blonde Chick) off and on. You can tack on another 15 minutes of me still being in this set, with this 5 girl group (+2 guys..me and the drunk dude)! Behind us, was 2 guys leaning up against the fence of the club (the fence separates the outside deck of the club from the sidewalk). One of them was clearly butt hurt that he couldn't join in our cuddle huddle (i briefly saw him trying to come in, but birthday girl told him to "Go Away Asshole, Fuck Off!"), so he kept calling birthday girl "fat!" I just shook my head saying to myself "No dude..why?" . But once birthday girl's group of girl friends came up to him, and my girl stood right in front of his face, like she was about to kick his ass (She's taller than him too. She's almost 6 foot in her heel boots, and he was about 5' 9")..he stopped calling her fat Lol. He didn't start talking shit again, until the girls got into the car lol. So call that dude what you will, because that's exactly what he was in that moment. But more importantly..as i was looking at him..i couldn't help but to think that if he had learned game (if he was more calibrated on how he approached the group..if he was more self-amused/in a positive state..and if he was non-reactive to what birthday girl had said to him, when he was trying to get into our cuddle huddle), he might've been able to get into our cuddle huddle, and even maybe made some headway with one of the girls in the group (or maybe even with the birthday girl ironically).
Wednesday Night, March 13, 2019 - Nightgame, Day #1
1st Location (1st Bar)
I usually hit up 2 bars on Wednesday nights. As i said before in other posts..i believe that warming-up is crucial for you to smoothly get yourself into a social state, to get out of your head, and to build up momentum. So that's usually what i use the 1st location for (the 1st bar)..to warm-up. It doesn't mean that i can never ever pull a girl from the 1st bar (because if i see the opportunity to pull a girl that i'm interacting with at the 1st bar, for the same night lay..i will still go for it), it just means that here is where i begin to get myself into a social state. I run into one of my guy friends here, who has an Australian accent (he's an Aussie), and his guy friend that he introduces me to. They are talking to a mixed group of girls and guys, whom i also introduce myself to and talk to. But it wasn't for long, since they all were leaving to go home. My Aussie friend's guy friend..had a green bowler hat on, since it was St. Patrick's Day week. Seeing him wearing that hat..kinda put me into a festive vibe straight away..because it told my brain "It's party time!..Let's have some fun!..and Let's get into some trouble!". I guess when i see party accessories..it triggers my brain to have fun, and that makes me get into "party mode". So we finished our glasses of beer, and the 3 of us walk out of the door of that bar. Now the 3 of us are walking the sidewalk, to walk up the street and around the corner, to the 2nd location (the 2nd bar).
2nd Location (2nd Bar)
We get to the bar, and there's a few people hanging around outside chatting with each other. And some of them are smoking cigarettes. We chat with them a little bit (for no more than 1 minute), and it's more so the 2 guys that i'm with who are chatting with them (we know people at this bar, so it's more like a social circle atmosphere. Btw..that's what also makes it hard to pull girls from this bar, because they all know each other, and they don't want to be judged or labelled as sluts by their peers. So because of that fact..i find that it will be easier to pull a girl from this bar that has never been here before (or a girl who's not a regular at this bar yet). I don't waste too much of my time and energy, chatting with the people out here. I just want to go inside and start gaming! So we go inside of the bar. I dap-up the door man (he's a guy probably in his mid to late 20s, who we all know). It's a decent amount of people in here. My 2 guy friends (the Aussie + my new guy friend, who's wearing the green bowler hat on his head), both go down to the far end of the bar. But i decide to stop here at the bar counter, to get a cup of beer. But right in front of me at the bar counter..i see this really tall brunette chick (She's taller than i am!), talking to a girl (probably her friend). So i decide to stop here, and talk to them both.
I'm not sure what i opened with (the opening line doesn't really matter. It's what you do and say afterwards that matters much more). I usually don't drink, but i was drinking on this night (at both bars), and i was definitely tipsy (not drunk lol). Knowing myself..i don't really spend any time thinking about what to say for my opener, i just open. I'm more concerned about opening immediately with little to no hesitation. So i probably just said "What's up?..What's going on ladies?". It's not the best or most sophisticated opener, but my goal is to open quickly and project my voice to get their attention. They replied and said whatever they said to me (just being friendly and receptive overall, with their response back to me). I waited at the bar counter next to these girls, for the bartender to hand me my beer that i just paid for (I'm friends with the bartender too. Again..it's more of a social circle type of bar. It's kinda like that old sitcom tv show called "Cheers"). Both girls were talking to each other, but then the shorter one started talking to someone else. So i was left with the taller girl (she was even taller than me, and i'm about 6' 3"). I remember telling her that she was really tall (I was really in amazement at how tall she was. I'm used to seeing 5 foot something girls everywhere i go), and i asked her how tall she was. She said that she was 6 foot 5 inches tall. "Holy shit!" (i don't know if i said that to her or not lol, but that was definitely what i was thinking). The shorter friend (she's a cute girl, probably a 7.8) comes up, and starts talking to me as well. She is very charged..high energy and very self-amused. Her personality was very bubbly, and she was making funny jokes and telling us some of her funny stories (puas would call this DHV stories). It didn't occur to me at the time (because alot of shit goes over us guys' heads all the time..as it often does, when we're interacting with girls in the moment), until i wrote this field report down..but i think that the shorter chick was probably trying to game me up (she probably liked me). I was definitely engaged into what she was saying, and i was engaging the taller friend (the 6' 5" friend) as well. At this point..the taller friend was sitting in a chair at the bar counter, a couple of feet across from where i was standing, and the shorter friend was standing next to both of us (the 3 of us kinda formed a triangle). There was a point where i was explaining something, making my point (probably joking around and/or telling both of them a funny DHV story of my own)..and i was slightly and gradually, tipping my cup of beer that i was holding in my hand..but i wasn't even aware that i was doing it lol. And eventually some of the beer inside my cup, spilled onto the taller friend's lap (we'll call her HB 6' 5" Brunette). I was stunned that i had done that. That was an embarrassing rookie move for me. But i wanted to remain non-reactive to what i just did, so not to turn it into a DLV for me. I just embraced it, and actually turn it into a positive for me.
Me: "Damn! my bad. I can be very clumsy sometimes lol" (I tried to rub-dry off some of the beer that spilled on top of HB 6' 5" Brunette's leg. The beer spill was un-intended, but this kino that i just did on her in the moment, wasn't un-intended )
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "It's okay, you're good"
After that beer spilling debacle..the 3 of us just went back to cheerfully talking again, as if nothing had happened. But there might've been some covert communication that i wasn't even aware of, going on between the shorter friend and HB 6' 5" Brunette. The shorter friend, being her cheerful and bubbly self..said a few more things before she says that she was going to the far end of the bar, to dance and to listen to the music that this bluegrass band (this band performs here at this bar every Wednesday night) was performing. So it's just me and HB 6' 5" Brunette now. She's still sitting down in the chair, and i'm standing up. There was an empty seat in front of me, for me to sit in. But i had the feeling that it would be better for me to stand up, while i game HB 6' 5" Brunette (i think i guessed right!). Her body is facing me (strong ioi), and i notice that she is making very strong eye contact with me, and she's holding it. I recognize her strong eye contact with me right now, so i hold eye contact with her as well. She's definitely attracted to me..definitely! While i'm talking to her, i can definitely feel the tension, but i just roll with it.
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I apologize for my friend's behavior. She get's very excited like this. She's kinda crazy Lol."
Me: "It's alright. She's crazy in a good way. I thought she was very entertaining"
There were some pauses in between our talking, which we both just kept awkwardly cheersing each other (her beer bottle and my cup of beer) to release the pressure of the tension a little bit. I try to see if i can move her physically from the bar counter, to the dance floor area. I ask her if she wants to come with me to the dance floor. She says.."I don't feel like going, can we just stay right here?". Me: "Sure". So i just stayed right there, at the bar counter with her. I'm looking at her, and she's definitely cute in the face, she has a curvy-thick body, and impeccably trimmed eyebrows. She's probably also wearing some light makeup on her face too. I give her a 7.4 out of 10. As i'm looking at her looking at me..i'm thinking in my mind.."What would it be like, to fuck a 6 foot 5 chick like her? Hmmmm..". I kinda get turned on at the thought of handling and banging all that body. My game with her right now is basically..normal rapport (us asking each other personal questions about each other..and about our logistics as well)..some DHV stories about myself and about trivial subjects..a couple of compliments directed at her..and some statements of sexual intent. At some point, she basically tells me.."You can't go home with me tonight, because i have to leave here with my friend" (she has to leave the bar with her cheerful and bubbly girl friend). I tell her that it's cool, and i'll just take her number. I do my usual number close routine, which is..i have her tell me what her number is, as i type it into my phone. And i save her name like this..her name, a dash, and the place where i met her (Example: "Chloe - Bluegrass Bar"), so i can put a place to the name, so i can remember who she is, whenever i see that name in my contacts. And then i call her phone. I always tell these girls "Now i'm going to call your phone, so you'll have my number", and they usually comply with that. But it's really just so that i can see my number pop up on their phones. That way, if my phone number does pop up on her phone..i know that it's her real phone number. So if she does flake, it won't be because of her phone number being mis-spelled, or a fake number, because i have eliminated both of those possibilities with this number close routine of mines. She tells me that her friend probably wants to leave soon. She then walks away, to talk to her.
I walk to the far end of the bar, and i see my new guy friend (the one who's wearing the green bowler hat) sitting in a chair at the bar counter. My Aussie buddy is close by too..but he's probably talking to some people at the bar (He's very social and friendly, he can talk to anyone. That's what i both admire and respect about him. Because he's much better than i am, at doing the same thing.). So there's a cute girl (she's wearing some kind of unicorn pajamas/costume) that is prancing around in our vicinity. My new guy friend wearing the green bowler hat..seems to be taken by her, and spitting some game at her. Which is mainly him teasing her, making rapport convo with her, and asking her questions. It's not too bad, it's definitely a step up from the typical chode guy game. But i think he's missing one thing..i never heard him be direct with her yet. It's possible that he might've gave her a compliment or two. I can tell that he was flirting with her, but it still felt murky to me. I mean..it was subtle directness (it was obvious to me that he was hitting on her), but he never made clear statements that he was interested in her. I saw this as a problem because, what if she doesn't know if he's truly interested in her or not? Do you see the un-clairity in how i'm trying to describe his flirting with this girl? Well..that's probably how she felt. Even though she was flirting back with him a little bit. But neither one of them made it clear to each other, that they liked each other. My experience in game, allows me to see these kind of fundamental flaws in guys' game on girls (I'm witnessing the flaws in my new guy friend's game in particular). A guy did come up, and clinged by very closely to the girl. Then right on schedule..my new guy friend starts bashing the girl to me (I see this as ego protection behavior, that i commonly see from some of my guy friends. I believe they do this, when they feel like they are loosing the frame, and when they know that they might not get the girl. So it's a way for them to say "Well..i didn't like her anyway", when he clearly does. And my new guy friend says, he doesn't know about her, and how she might be with that guy. I told him "Why don't you just ask her Lol?"..Him: "I just don't know man, it's too much of a risk". Me: "Dude..look here..watch". I approach the girl wearing the unicorn pajamas/costume. Me: "Is that guy your boyfriend?" Her: "No, he's a friend..blah blah blah". I walk a couple of steps back over to my new guy friend. Me: "Boom! See!..She said he's just her friend". I kinda smirk and chuckle at him, because he made that so difficult, when he could've just straight up asked her what her relationship was with that guy. But then it dawned on me..that he probably doesn't have a solid and clear understanding of the fundamentals of game as much as i do (because i've been studying, practicing, and accumulating experience in game for 5 years). He probably just tries random shit (like most guys do), in hopes that it works to get him the girl. She makes one last attempt to get one of our attention, by asking us one at a time "Who wants to fight me?"..as she puts up her dukes. I throw my hands up and say to her "Not me..i'm just watching and observing everything that's going on here". But her orbiter guy friend eagerly bites (while my new guy friend just sits there..and he leers, grovels, and sulks), and they play fight with each other. She tries to wrestle him, but she ends up falling to the floor LOL, since she is short and tiny, and probably weighs way less than him. After that fiasco..i just look at my new guy friend, and i can see that he's just turned off by her behavior (or..maybe he's just butt-hurt that he didn't get her). And of course, he just bashes her even more, and says to me "She's not for me man. Look at her..she's a train wreck, i don't want any parts of that girl! I don't need that kind of drama in my life". So the girl in the unicorn pajamas/costume get's up off the floor, and she walks off with her orbiter guy friend, that she just wrestled with.
I see HB 6' 5" Brunette, she's several feet in front of me. She turns around and sees me. She walks over to me, and tells me that she's about to go. I give her a hug. She tells me "Text me later" Me: "I will, i'll do that". She leaves the bar. My new guy friend says "She seems like a nice girl, you should go after that". Me: "Don't worry, i will". I told him that she's cute, and how i wonder what it would be like to bang a chick that's 6 foot 5 inches tall. In my mind..i see her as a challenge, so i'll definitely hit her up. Nothing really eventful happens after that, and i leave to go home not too long after that.
My Text Game Throughout The Week With HB 6' 5" Brunette
The rest of my game with HB 6' 5" Brunette after that night, is all over text. I saw a video on youtube one night (very recently), and Ross Jeffries (aka "the grand dad of pickup") was being interviewed via Skype by another pua. And Ross Jeffries was describing his sexual NLP game, and how he used it to take the dialogue that he was having with a girl that he was interacting with, into a sexual direction (even making her think sexual thoughts). And that gave me the idea and inspiration to implement the gist of his sexual NLP concepts and patterns, into my text game with HB 6' 5" Brunette..and it worked! Below is my text game to HB 6' 5" Brunette. From that Wednesday night (March 13, 2019) that i met her at that local bar..to the Monday of the following week (March 18, 2019). It created enough buy-in with her, that it got her driving over to my house from her home, after she got home from work that night. I start off with sending her my initial text, late that Wednesday night, after we first met at the local bar (at the 2nd bar) earlier that night.
Thursday, March 14, 2019
Me: "Hi (her real name), this is (my real name), from earlier tonight at (the name of the bar). You told me that it was just your 2nd time there. Also i told you that i liked how tall and cute you are" (This is the format of my initial text template. I explain what that is in detail in this thread on this forum "http://mpuaforum.proboards.com/thread/178/text-girls-day-close". I also went direct in my initial text to set the sexual frame from the start) .......3:56 AM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hey!" .......1:35 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I remember ya:) how are you" .......2:03 PM
Me: "I'm doing good. I'm glad that you remember me, although i didn't see you drink that much last night Lol. How was the rest of your night?" (Even though i asked her a boring chode question at the end, i threw in a little bit of humor in it..a positive emotional spike) .......2:06 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Good! Hahaha we were drinking a lot before lol! It was good just headed back home...how was your night" .......3:17 PM
Me: "It was decent, i went to the casino for a bit, and ran into a buddy of mines. But just think how much more awesome that both of our nights would've been, if we spent the rest of it together, over a movie and chill at my place. "boy and girl about to kiss icon, DVD icon, and Television icon" (Sexual Spike) .......3:24 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Oh fun! Lol that would have been way better!" .......5:50 PM
Me: "We still can. "winking smiley face" How tall did you say you are again?" .......5:52 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "6' 5" .......6:08 PM
Me: "I would've handled and utilized every inch of your 6' 5" frame." (I just said fuck the bullshit, and just went very direct and sexual with her in my text moving forward) .......6:10 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hahaha oh yeah?!" .......7:35 PM
Me: "I'll definitely make you wet and probably make you cum over and over again." .......7:38 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "We'll have to see about that;)" (And just like that, she makes a statement of her sexual intent to me. This is basically her agreeing to having sex with me) .......11:21 PM
Me: "Oh that's exactly the experience that you will get with me. You will never leave my house un-pleased." .......11:29 PM
Friday, March 15, 2019
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hey:)" (She initiates the first text to me on this day. This is a very strong IOI from her) .......5:47 PM
Me: "What's up! "kiss smiley face emoji" .......5:53 PM
Me: "I'm undressing you in my mind right now." (Double-texting is normally a no no. But it was a statement of sexual intent, that i sent to her in my double-text. And because of that, it did not end up hurting me) .......6:21 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Hahahaha" .......6:21 PM
Me: "I'm laying you flat on my bed after i took all of your clothes off. I'm touching you all over your body, as you're breathing heavily and biting down on your bottom lip." (More sexual spiking, using visualization this time. To make her picture herself having sex with me. These kind of texts was inspired by Ross Jeffries's sexual NLP game) .......6:25 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Damnnnnnn okayyyyy" .......6:27 PM
Me: "Your body is squirming a little bit, i smile and you tell me "Don't stop, keep going". So then i move up to your neck. I kiss your neck, i nibble on it a little bit, and i start sucking on it. That's when i hear your 1st moan." .......6:33 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Are you a fucking writer?!" (Yeah..something like that! But she doesn't have to know that. Shhhhhh Lol) .......6:34 PM
Me: "Haha. I got skills." .......6:36 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "r anything but maybe we could try to ha g out like Monday or somethin!" (She's actively trying to make plans with me, which means that she is effectively seduced, and completely bought-in) .......8:00 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm just gonna super honest with you.. I really want to hang out with you and get to know you more. I have plans all weekend so I'm not blowing you off o" (She's double-texting me right now. She's the one who's doing the chasing) .......8:00 PM
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Me: "Ok we can do that. "boy and girl about to kiss icon" (Sexual spike. I'm keeping the sexual vibe between us alive) .......3:49 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Closed eyes smiley face emoji" .......6:41 PM
Me: "What time are you available tomorrow?" (This is where i get her logistics for Monday, so i can close the deal) .......6:42 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm not done til like 10 tomorrow and have to be back at 10 but I'm don't at 6 on Tuesday! Would that work?!?" .......6:44 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I didn't realize I closed Monday:(" (She's the manager at a makeup store) .......6:46 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I mean I could do Monday but I'm not gonna get anywhere til like 11:30" .......7:54 PM
Me: "You could come see me after you close on Monday. I can order us something." (I am determined and resolute on getting her to come over on Monday night, to close the deal..ie i hold my frame. I even try to persuade her to come over on Monday night even more, by throwing in me ordering us some food) .......8:05 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Ok:)" (She agrees. So at this point, the deal is sealed with her, and she is coming to see me on Monday night. All i need to do now is..wait for her to come over tomorrow night, and actually seal the deal with her in person..physically. All of my text to her from this point on..is just fluff and logistics, until she walks through my front door) .......8:07 PM
Me: "I live in (the name of my neighborhood). About a 5 minute drive from where we met." .......8:08 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Oh perfect!" .......10:18 PM
Monday, March 18, 2019
Me: "I just got home from work. My address is (my home address)" .......5:46 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "Ok! I'll let you know when I'm on my way!" .......7:38 PM
Me: "Ok "Ok hand sign" .......7:38 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm on my way" .......10:21 PM
Me: "Ok Cool" .......10:25 PM
HB 6' 5" Brunette: "I'm here" .......10:54 PM
Me: "Ok i'm coming out now." .......10:55 PM
Monday Night, March 18, 2019 - Day-2, Booty Call At My Crib
Right around the time when she texted me "I'm on my way", i was kinda freaking out and talking to myself like "Oh shit! She's on her way..i gotta clean up my room! Do i have time to do that?". I didn't know at the time, if she was 10 minutes away, 20 minutes away, or 30 minutes away. I could've cleaned up my room even an hour earlier, had i not been bullshitting around, wasting away that full hour that i had to prepare..vibing to some music on youtube, on my laptop, that i was listening to through my earphones. But it all worked out, because i had my room looking immaculate at least 10 to 15 minutes before HB 6' 5" Brunette sent me the text "I'm here". You'll be amazed at how fast you can clean shit up, when you are expecting a girl to come over in any minute. The reason why you want to have a clean room (or at least have it look clean and neat) before the girl comes over, is simple common sense. You want the girl to feel as comfortable as possible, to make the seduction go alot easier for you. If the girl doesn't even feel comfortable staying in your room for more than 5 minutes..that will make the possibility of you fucking her, alot more harder to actualize. So always tidying-up your room before a girl arrives, is a no-brainer.
As soon as HB 6' 5" Brunette steps through the door of my house (she barley even get's both feet in the door..and i haven't even closed the door yet) i hug her, and kiss her on the lips. That's how soon and fast, i begin my kino escalation on her. I waste no time at all. And it's not even because i'm thirsty for the sex. It's more about setting the sexual tone with her, early. We did discuss weather we should go up to my room, or just chill out on the couch in the living room (we're both in the living room right now). I opted that we stay down in the living room (because i wanted to add more suspense to the seduction, and entertain us both in the process), and chill and relax with her for a bit. Ironically..this ended up being the right decision (maybe because it took the pressure off, from us going straight up to my room to have sex. And my decision allowed her to gradually ease into the seduction with me, as opposed to us forcing it). She takes off her shoes and places it next to where my shoes were, on the floor mat (I was kinda impressed by this, because most girls probably would've kept their shoes on). But then again..i probably told her to relax and make herself at home, and that she could put her shoes there. I grabbed the tv remote control, that's sitting on the wooden table. And i asked her "Do you like to watch reality tv-shows?"..she says "Yes i do". So i told her to come sit down on the couch with me, and let's watch some reality tv shows together. She was more than happy to comply..she was almost giddy! I was even telling her about the characters on the show (the name of the reality tv show is called "Summer House"), and their situations. To say that she got hooked into it with me, was an understatement. She was enjoying herself. This was perfect..because the comfort has just been established, and it was now time to close this loop with attraction.
So at different moments during the commercials or whatever..i would say to her "Hey" or "Look at me", and when she looked at me..i would lean in and kiss her on the lips. We would end up making out. While we're doing that..i put her hand over my pants (i was wearing pajama pants at the time. I know..i'm very child-ish Lol) to feel my boner. She rubs on it, and it's already hard. I think i ask her if she wants to suck my dick..she says "Yeah sure"..and there's no LMR whatsoever (Me and HB 6' 5" Brunette watched a little bit of tv, and then sex happens, with not much escalation needed). I pull down my pants and she's sucking me off (She's laying down on the couch. Her head, arms, and hands are over my lap) while i'm sitting on the couch, watching "Summer House" on the flat screen tv Lol. She gives me a continuous blow job + a tug job, interchangeably, for about 20 something odd minutes. Then we get up off the couch. I bring her over to the end of the couch, so we can be out of view of the open walkway (So no one could see what we were doing. because i had told her that my roommate and her boyfriend are in her room upstairs). So i tell her to bend over, and hold down onto the arm of the couch, while she's standing there. She did that. She pulls down her pants, and i proceeded to bang her from behind. After about 10 minutes of me hitting her from the back, behind the couch..we stop. She pulls her pants back up, and we decided to finish fucking upstairs in my room.
I'll spare you the details of the 2nd part of our fuck session up in my room. But before we smashed..she was marveling and asking me questions about my portrait drawings that i have up on my wall in my room (more attraction & comfort spiking). I can tell you that having sex with a chick that is 6 foot 5 inches tall, is really not that much different from fucking a chick that is 5 foot something..except you're handling alot more body with a chick that tall, than you normally would. So a little bit more strength and endurance was required on my part (than i would usually need to handle the body of a 5 foot something woman) to handle her entire 6ft 5" frame. So with that being said..i banged that pussy out very thoroughly..before we both cuddled up in my bed and went to sleep.
When we woke up in the morning, HB 6' 5" Brunette told me that she had to leave my place soon. To go back to her house, so that she could get ready and leave for work (she works at a makeup shop, and she's the manager there). I say ok cool. Her alarm on her phone hadn't gone off yet (She set it last night, for it to go off around 7:20 am i think. And i believe that she said she starts work at 9:00 am). We still had about 15 to 20 minutes left (or what have you), until she had to leave my place to get ready for work. We both were still laying in my bed at the time. And i thought to myself.."A nice guy, would just let her leave. But what would a bad boy do??..Hmmm..a bad boy would probably fuck her again, before he sends her off on her way". So you know what i did? I went with what the bad boy would do. On a side note..i do have a current sticking point that i'm working on, that i actually call " the non nice guy sticking point". Every year i always have 2 sticking points that i am working on..a new sticking point (that i'm probably consciously incompetent at, but i'm working on it to become more consciously competent at it)..and a current sticking point (that i'm somewhat consciously competent at it, because i'm making some headway with it..but i'm still working on it to become more un-consciously competent at it). So with that being said..my "non nice guy sticking point", is the sticking point that i'm currently working on. So i ask HB 6' 5" Brunette if she could give me a blow job..she obliges. After that..i lube up and put a condom on, and i fuck her doggystyle, missionary, and from the side, before i came. I might've ate her out too lol. After that, she puts her clothes back on, gathers her things, and i walk with her downstairs. I give her a hug and kiss on the lips. I tell her to have a good day. And out the door, and into the world she goes. lol
Takeaways
Being 5 years into the game..i'm still learning more about myself and about the game as time goes on. Writing this lay report, i learned that i can do anything that i set my mind to do. I get alot of girls phone numbers, but i simply just don't follow up with them (i have to work on that)..and those numbers eventually turn cold. But with HB 6' 5" Brunette..i was intrigued because she was 6 foot 5 inches tall, and i've never been with a chick that tall before. So i saw her as a challenge..or more accurately..she was very interesting to me, and that's what got me more engaged. So apparently..girls that i find to be an interesting challenge..get's me more interested in them. Which motivates me to actually want to follow up with them, and follow through with the seduction. The more you know about yourself, and what inspires you (what motivates you)..the better. And girls that inspire you to want to even pursue them further..are probably the girls that you're gonna get. I talked to my boy Derrick over the phone about this the other week. I told him that this was the first girl that i banged that was 6' 5". His reaction was "Wow Ok!" LOl. He said that he probably wouldn't have done it Lol, but he also said that why don't you try to bang your first oriental chick or your first chick from wherever. And that's the thing..you don't have to bang your 1st 6' 5" girl like i did. For you (the reader) it could be..your 1st Asian chick..or your 1st Black chick..or your 1st Rocker chick with purple hair and full tattoo sleeves on both arms. Whatever the fuck it is..just interact with people, and find a type of girl that you wouldn't normally interact with, and get laid by her. Again..have fun with this! That's the whole point of getting into pickup! Learn..but have fun with it at the same time! Break your own record..break other guys records! How many dudes do you know that banged a chick that's 6 foot 5 inches tall??..probably not many, if at all. So i can now say that i have, and i've checked that shit off of my bucket list. LOl
Also too..i did some cool attraction stuff in our initial interaction at the local bar, but i feel that the meat of the seduction was in my text game to HB 6' 5" Brunette. And because i was so direct and sexual in my text messages to her..there were no questions about my intent. And when she finally came over..there was ZERO LMR! So if you are a guy who constantly struggles with having to deal with LMR from girls, whenever you bring them over to your place..it's probably because you have not made your sexual intent clear enough to the girl. She's not sure in which way that you want her (She doesn't know for sure if you want her as..just a cuddle buddy..just a friend..just a fuck buddy..or as your girlfriend). It's also important to keep in mind that, you want to be running the type of game, that is congruent with the type of relationship that you want to have with the girl. For an example..if you want to fuck the girl on the same night (for a one-night-stand or same night lay), you don't want to be running a "boyfriend style of game". Because what do we know about girls who sees a guy as "boyfriend material". They will hold out on sex, because they don't want you to "hit and run". So running "relationship game" on a girl that you want to bang on the same night that you met her, probably isn't the best strategy for the outcome that you want to have. And i suspect that alot of you guys are doing this..which is probably why you get major LMR whenever you pull a girl back to your place, and why you can't convert her into a fuck close. In my case..i made it very clear that i just wanted to fuck her (so i guess you can say that i used a "fuck boy style of game"). She probably hadn't had sex in a while (i think she told me that it's been 2 months since she last had sex)..she probably was just horny, and knew that i could probably fulfill that specific need for her. I wasn't trying to act like i wanted to be her boyfriend, or anything like that, so that's why my game was effective.
Not all girls will succumb to the very direct and sexual style of text game, that i used on HB 6' 5" Brunette. Some girls may require for you to be more subtle in your seduction, in order to get them in bed with you. So one style doesn't fit all. You have to get a feel for the chick that you are dealing with. Find out what she responds to positively, and what she responds to negatively. And calibrate your game and texting to her. In my case..it was a straight line of seduction, but it had alot of clarity of sexual intent in it, and that's why it worked. At the very least..you can use it to filter or screen-out the girls who are not DTF. I don't know about you..but i don't have the time, patience, or money, to spend 1..2..3..4 dates on one single girl. Earlier this year..i went on 2 dates with an HB8 Black chick, and 1 date with a Cute HB6 Chubby chick. How do you think that both of those ended out..you wanna take a guess? I kissed the HB8 Black chick a couple of times, but that's about it..and i hugged and kissed the Cute HB6 Chubby chick on the cheek..but that's about it. Neither one of those girls, ended up in a lay for me. So again..if you're looking to just get laid..screen out the girls who aren't DTF, by flirting and getting sexual with them over text. If they are not into it..then just next them, and move on to the girls who are down to fuck aight! That way, you don't even have to get up off of your couch..she won't waste none of your time..and you won't waste any of hers.
With that being said..i was in a bit of a drought before this lay happened. So finally getting that monkey off of my back was a huge relief. My last lay before HB 6' 5" Brunette, was at the end of December (Ouch right?!!!). Last year..i averaged 1 to 2 new girls a month, and 2 out of the 14 were fuck buddies. I was getting laid pretty consistently..so i didn't really take notice of all the girls that i was banging, and all the sex that i was having. Because it was normal for me..almost like getting up to go grocery shopping, and i usually took some food home, or ate it somewhere else Lol. But when you go from that level of abundance..to not banging any girls in 2 whole months..YOU WILL DEFINITELY NOTICE THAT! I contribute my 2 month drought to 2 factors. Factor #1..i was a little bit heartbroken and depressed over losing my main chick (the girl who was my fuck buddy for 7 months). Factor #2..on the same night that i was gonna go out on a Day-2 with this chick that i had already banged a week ago (i pulled her from the club back to my place a week before)..it was snowing, my phone got water damaged, and it died on me. Not only did the snow storm permanently damage my phone, but the girl that i was supposed to go out on a Day-2 with (she was down to come back to my place again..probably to fuck me again, after the date)..she didn't want to drive on the slick roads, so she opted to stay at home. I also lost all of my contacts, which also meant that i lost all of my potential leads, including that girl's phone number. And all of this literally happens to me at the start of January of 2019. So i started 2019 going in a downwards spiral. I had to slowly but surely..get myself back up out of it. I bought a new phone, but i had to start all the way from scratch, and get fresh new leads all over again. I had to emotionally get over losing my 7-month fuck buddy chick (we stopped communicating with each other), which i still wasn't over her. It felt like a true breakup to me, as if she were my girlfriend. And the one thing that i could do having zero abundance..was GAME! So at some point..i stop feeling sorry for myself, and i went out more consistently. In this case..it was 4 days that i went out on this particular week. And it all came full circle with HB 6' 5" Brunette, that i met on Day #1. So if you're in a drought right now..just go out man. I recommend going out 3 to 4 days a week, until you get laid. This is what i know to work. And if that sounds like too much work for you..then there's no reason that i can see, why you can't approach 1 or 2 girls every day. Everyone has time to approach 1 or 2 girls a day. You have no excuses.
-G