A buddy asked my opinion on a situation with his new girlfriend.
I told him I would think about it...obvisouly i'm asking you guys for some input since I have no clear on his situation.
Situation: friend has a new GF for about one month ( been seeing her for 3 months prior)
She told him that she would be visiting her best guy friend in poland. Alone.
Apparently he lives there with his girlfriend but he has no clue what his gf relationship was/is with her guy friend.My friend asked my opinion if he should step up or just let it be.
I have no clue either...seems harmless, but still.
I have no idea what is going on here. Oh......read it again and again
So your friend doesnt know whats the relationship is with his gf and her best guy friend.
I'd say thats a problem. Not to be suspicious...but if they are in a HEALTHY relationship, even a month long one...I'd expect them to have conversations and at least know things about the other. Having a best friend and after 3 months, not knowing about their relationship...seems off. Any chick I date has some idea of who my friends are, even if they didnt meet them and likewise chicks will talk about their friends at some point. I'd find it strange if a gf was visiting a friend, guy or girl and I'd describe my knowledge of their friendship as "no clue." That doesnt sound healthy to me, and I'd consider that a fwb, not a gf. As the other's said maybe he's insecure or she's untrustworthy...but I'd add that if he's calling a chick his gf, he should have an idea who her best friend is at this point.