Eventually finding the 'Yes girl'

[tinman]

First approach on a group of 3 girls, one of whom was a 9 and was wearing the same style jacket as me. Went indirect as it was my 1st set and commented on her jacket. Asked how they knew each other and stuff. Had a short convo but the girls seemed like they wanted to be left alone in their little social circle and i wished them a good night



I open another girl who is with some friends and ask her what they are all celebrating. (indirect . Good body language, eye contact etc) She looks at me like she's never spoken too a stranger before (i'm in the UK and this reaction is common here) and like i'm super odd for talking to her, blinks a few times, and then literally walks away from me towards her friends as if she needs saving lol. Girls are so funny with strangers here lol (unless they are attracted)



I opened a girl on the dancefloor and commented on her dance moves. Didn't really transition into anything, but since it was the dancefloor, it's more physical than verbal it's not a deal breaker. I tried the hand of God type thing (extended my hand towarsd her to take), but she wasn't attracted and she shook her head and moved away lol.



I open a hot Foreign girl. I went direct and told her I liked her look or something. We were talking for a few minutes. It was the best set up to that point, and I got a little physical at times whilst I was teasing her and stuff with small subtle touches, but after a minute or so I was struggling to keep her attention and the convo going because didn't seem to want to talk/engage too much maybe out of fear of leading me on. I kind of 'went for broke' and showed a little more intent verbally and told her to come to the bar with me, but unfortunately, she wasn't too keen and more or less told me that she wasn't 'into me in that way' and then it fizzled out and I ejected



Open a cute blonde girl. Very young but gorgeous. I tell her I notced her and thought she looked cute and I wanted to come and say hi. She basically instantly says ''Sorry. You're not my type. I'm not interested. Have a good night'' lol. I try to flip it on her and am like ''I'm not sure you're MY type yet! Don't get ahead of yourself '' (playfully. not butthurt) but she just spins and walks away lol



Open a girl in teh beer garden. Direct. She tells me 'sorry, you're not my type' (I swear this line is the new 'ive got a boyfriend' lol). I try to plow a little but she's not interested and basically isn't replying to whatever I try so I eject



Open a hot girl who's standing with her friend. Tell her I think she's cute and I wanted to meet her. Her friend jumps in and says ''Sorry. She likes tall guys with tattoos'' lol. I try to play around a little but I can tell that she's not attracted and that i'd be wasting my time and I move on. Would need to have been a tatteed 6ft 4 dude to get that hottie lol



Spot a girl floating around the outskirts of the dancefloor. Super annoying that I can't remember much about the approach, but I think I opened direct, told her she was hot, asked her some stuff. Could sense attraction (AT LAST. I'M HER TYPE!!!!) . She's filling in any siliences and is asking me questions etc. IOI's. And then I started getting physical. Makeout. She's with 2 friends and I basically sneak her away from them and get her back to my place. We get a cab. Have sex. no lmr

[pilgrimmeister]

Nice one.

On another note here in the UK, showing dead intent during night game doesn't yield great results unless you are good looking. If you are not good looking, no matter what you say you will be seen as a creep for approaching, infact girls have even told me this. Also tinder game is quite big over here and it seems to be the default for most girls, even when out in the clubs.

That said, work on your social circle game a lot more. The more you do that, the more doors it opens, which will lead to those girls who think you are creepy will infact start thinking you are a pretty cool and interesting guy.

[tinman]

Jun 18, 2019 9:49:53 GMT pilgrimmeister said:

Nice one.

On another note here in the UK, showing dead intent during night game doesn't yield great results unless you are good looking. If you are not good looking, no matter what you say you will be seen as a creep for approaching, infact girls have even told me this.re  and it seems to be the default for most girls, even when out in the clubs.
That said, work on your social circle game a lot more. The more you do that, the more doors it opens, which will lead to those girls who think you are creepy will infact start thinking you are a pretty cool and interesting guy.

'' showing dead intent during night game doesn't yield great results unless you are good looking''

Yeah, i've found this to be the case too although i'm currently experimenting using mainly direct simply to keep certain PUA's who I speak too online happy, who are giving me 'tips' and saying that direct is far superior

'' If you are not good looking, no matter what you say you will be seen as a creep for approaching, infact girls have even told me this'' 

I assume you're still talking about DIRECT? I.E - You're not saying to never approach girls if you're not handsome? (you're saying 'still approach, but best to go indirect', right?)


''Also tinder game is quite big over he''


Unfortunately, i've had literally ZERO interest on tinder lol. I don't think i've ever heard of someone who gets as few matches as me. Like, 1 match every 3 months. 


''That said, work on your social circle game a lot more.''

Yeah, that's true (I don't know anyone who gets laid with cold approach with the exception of 2 very very handsome friends. Everyone gets laid with girls from their work) but i'm not really sure where to start tbh. My social circle is really just my wings. And I don't work with cute girls or anything. SO i'm assuming my best bet is to join some sort of 'club' or something ?


cheers

[GFRESH2DEF]

Jun 18, 2019 7:23:30 GMT tinman said:

First approach on a group of 3 girls, one of whom was a 9 and was wearing the same style jacket as me. Went indirect as it was my 1st set and commented on her jacket. Asked how they knew each other and stuff. Had a short convo but the girls seemed like they wanted to be left alone in their little social circle and i wished them a good night



I open another girl who is with some friends and ask her what they are all celebrating. (indirect . Good body language, eye contact etc) She looks at me like she's never spoken too a stranger before (i'm in the UK and this reaction is common here) and like i'm super odd for talking to her, blinks a few times, and then literally walks away from me towards her friends as if she needs saving lol. Girls are so funny with strangers here lol (unless they are attracted)



I opened a girl on the dancefloor and commented on her dance moves. Didn't really transition into anything, but since it was the dancefloor, it's more physical than verbal it's not a deal breaker. I tried the hand of God type thing (extended my hand towarsd her to take), but she wasn't attracted and she shook her head and moved away lol.



I open a hot Foreign girl. I went direct and told her I liked her look or something. We were talking for a few minutes. It was the best set up to that point, and I got a little physical at times whilst I was teasing her and stuff with small subtle touches, but after a minute or so I was struggling to keep her attention and the convo going because didn't seem to want to talk/engage too much maybe out of fear of leading me on. I kind of 'went for broke' and showed a little more intent verbally and told her to come to the bar with me, but unfortunately, she wasn't too keen and more or less told me that she wasn't 'into me in that way' and then it fizzled out and I ejected



Open a cute blonde girl. Very young but gorgeous. I tell her I notced her and thought she looked cute and I wanted to come and say hi. She basically instantly says ''Sorry. You're not my type. I'm not interested. Have a good night'' lol. I try to flip it on her and am like ''I'm not sure you're MY type yet! Don't get ahead of yourself '' (playfully. not butthurt) but she just spins and walks away lol



Open a girl in teh beer garden. Direct. She tells me 'sorry, you're not my type' (I swear this line is the new 'ive got a boyfriend' lol). I try to plow a little but she's not interested and basically isn't replying to whatever I try so I eject



Open a hot girl who's standing with her friend. Tell her I think she's cute and I wanted to meet her. Her friend jumps in and says ''Sorry. She likes tall guys with tattoos'' lol. I try to play around a little but I can tell that she's not attracted and that i'd be wasting my time and I move on. Would need to have been a tatteed 6ft 4 dude to get that hottie lol



Spot a girl floating around the outskirts of the dancefloor. Super annoying that I can't remember much about the approach, but I think I opened direct, told her she was hot, asked her some stuff. Could sense attraction (AT LAST. I'M HER TYPE!!!!) . She's filling in any siliences and is asking me questions etc. IOI's. And then I started getting physical. Makeout. She's with 2 friends and I basically sneak her away from them and get her back to my place. We get a cab. Have sex. no lmr

Nice Tinman! Finally a breakthrough. Lol  I knew you could do it!   Your persistence, determination, and all your practicing, has paid off.


Just whatever you do..don't take a break. Continue the momentum flow that you are on right now, without breaking it by taking a break..and you'll probably end up pulling another girl very soon. 



-G

[pilgrimmeister]

Jun 18, 2019 12:12:32 GMT tinman said:

Jun 18, 2019 9:49:53 GMT pilgrimmeister said:

Nice one.

On another note here in the UK, showing dead intent during night game doesn't yield great results unless you are good looking. If you are not good looking, no matter what you say you will be seen as a creep for approaching, infact girls have even told me this.re  and it seems to be the default for most girls, even when out in the clubs.
That said, work on your social circle game a lot more. The more you do that, the more doors it opens, which will lead to those girls who think you are creepy will infact start thinking you are a pretty cool and interesting guy.

'' showing dead intent during night game doesn't yield great results unless you are good looking''

Yeah, i've found this to be the case too although i'm currently experimenting using mainly direct simply to keep certain PUA's who I speak too online happy, who are giving me 'tips' and saying that direct is far superior

'' If you are not good looking, no matter what you say you will be seen as a creep for approaching, infact girls have even told me this'' 

I assume you're still talking about DIRECT? I.E - You're not saying to never approach girls if you're not handsome? (you're saying 'still approach, but best to go indirect', right?)


''Also tinder game is quite big over he''


Unfortunately, i've had literally ZERO interest on tinder lol. I don't think i've ever heard of someone who gets as few matches as me. Like, 1 match every 3 months. 


''That said, work on your social circle game a lot more.''

Yeah, that's true (I don't know anyone who gets laid with cold approach with the exception of 2 very very handsome friends. Everyone gets laid with girls from their work) but i'm not really sure where to start tbh. My social circle is really just my wings. And I don't work with cute girls or anything. SO i'm assuming my best bet is to join some sort of 'club' or something ?


cheers

Yes Clubs etc. In my case I DJ and run Karaoke, so I get to know people by my mic skills, going round the bar speaking to people, getting them involved, building a following. I do this my letting my personality out in a natural way. Not saying for you to do that, but similar things like joining clubs, adventure weekends etc will help build that circle

[tinman]

Jun 18, 2019 12:18:50 GMT GFRESH2DEF said:

Jun 18, 2019 7:23:30 GMT tinman said:

First approach on a group of 3 girls, one of whom was a 9 and was wearing the same style jacket as me. Went indirect as it was my 1st set and commented on her jacket. Asked how they knew each other and stuff. Had a short convo but the girls seemed like they wanted to be left alone in their little social circle and i wished them a good night



I open another girl who is with some friends and ask her what they are all celebrating. (indirect . Good body language, eye contact etc) She looks at me like she's never spoken too a stranger before (i'm in the UK and this reaction is common here) and like i'm super odd for talking to her, blinks a few times, and then literally walks away from me towards her friends as if she needs saving lol. Girls are so funny with strangers here lol (unless they are attracted)



I opened a girl on the dancefloor and commented on her dance moves. Didn't really transition into anything, but since it was the dancefloor, it's more physical than verbal it's not a deal breaker. I tried the hand of God type thing (extended my hand towarsd her to take), but she wasn't attracted and she shook her head and moved away lol.



I open a hot Foreign girl. I went direct and told her I liked her look or something. We were talking for a few minutes. It was the best set up to that point, and I got a little physical at times whilst I was teasing her and stuff with small subtle touches, but after a minute or so I was struggling to keep her attention and the convo going because didn't seem to want to talk/engage too much maybe out of fear of leading me on. I kind of 'went for broke' and showed a little more intent verbally and told her to come to the bar with me, but unfortunately, she wasn't too keen and more or less told me that she wasn't 'into me in that way' and then it fizzled out and I ejected



Open a cute blonde girl. Very young but gorgeous. I tell her I notced her and thought she looked cute and I wanted to come and say hi. She basically instantly says ''Sorry. You're not my type. I'm not interested. Have a good night'' lol. I try to flip it on her and am like ''I'm not sure you're MY type yet! Don't get ahead of yourself '' (playfully. not butthurt) but she just spins and walks away lol



Open a girl in teh beer garden. Direct. She tells me 'sorry, you're not my type' (I swear this line is the new 'ive got a boyfriend' lol). I try to plow a little but she's not interested and basically isn't replying to whatever I try so I eject



Open a hot girl who's standing with her friend. Tell her I think she's cute and I wanted to meet her. Her friend jumps in and says ''Sorry. She likes tall guys with tattoos'' lol. I try to play around a little but I can tell that she's not attracted and that i'd be wasting my time and I move on. Would need to have been a tatteed 6ft 4 dude to get that hottie lol



Spot a girl floating around the outskirts of the dancefloor. Super annoying that I can't remember much about the approach, but I think I opened direct, told her she was hot, asked her some stuff. Could sense attraction (AT LAST. I'M HER TYPE!!!!) . She's filling in any siliences and is asking me questions etc. IOI's. And then I started getting physical. Makeout. She's with 2 friends and I basically sneak her away from them and get her back to my place. We get a cab. Have sex. no lmr

Nice Tinman! Finally a breakthrough. Lol  I knew you could do it!   Your persistence, determination, and all your practicing, has paid off.


Just whatever you do..don't take a break. Continue the momentum flow that you are on right now, without breaking it by taking a break..and you'll probably end up pulling another girl very soon. 



-G

lol, thanks. More luck than skill, though. it truly is a numbers game, and them numbers will vary massively depending on the girls attraction to you (feels more obvious than ever after re-reading my own lay report lol)

It would have been hard to 'mess up' with the girl I banged since I was her type, and literally impossible to bang any of the other girls for whom I wasn't their physical type

And yeah, I  won't take a break, although I should make it clear I haven't been taking a break receently either. I simply stopped posting my FR's every week and decidied I might as well wait until I get laid to post one lol

cheers

[GFRESH2DEF]

Jun 20, 2019 11:19:35 GMT tinman said:

lol, thanks. More luck than skill, though. it truly is a numbers game, and them numbers will vary massively depending on the girls attraction to you (feels more obvious than ever after re-reading my own lay report lol)

It would have been hard to 'mess up' with the girl I banged since I was her type, and literally impossible to bang any of the other girls for whom I wasn't their physical type

Yes it is largely a numbers game..especially when approaching girls in a high volume venue like a packed bar or a dance club. Don't sell yourself short either though. Give yourself some credit, because it takes mental focus and emotional control to get rejected all those times..but still have the optimism and patience to continue on through all of those rejections, until you finally get to that "Yes Girl". That mental focus, level of concentration, and emotional control, are skill sets. They all are part of your inner game. Most dudes after their 2nd or 3rd rejection, probably would've called it quits, and bitch and cry about it.."Man..fuck this, this place sucks! I'm going home!". LOl I've seen it happen with some Natural guys and some PUA guys. 



And then you had the mental awareness to approach, escalate, lead, and pull the yes girl, once she showed up. Most guys would be to crushed mentally and emotionally (after getting all those rejections), to let alone approach one more girl (The Yes Girl). And even if they did approach her..they would probably be too mentally and emotionally spent, to escalate, lead, and pull her. So yes..you deserve all the credit, even if there was an element of luck to it. Most of my pulls have had elements of luck in them. And what is luck if you break that down..Preparation + Opportunity = Luck. You've prepared yourself alot, by practicing and learning game. And then when the opportunity presented itself (you had the skills already)..you just executed. Is that not skill? I think it is. 

Jun 20, 2019 11:19:35 GMT tinman said:

And yeah, I  won't take a break, although I should make it clear I haven't been taking a break receently either. I simply stopped posting my FR's every week and decidied I might as well wait until I get laid to post one lol

cheers

Nothing kills your momentum flow like taking a break from pickup. But you do need to take a break from it every now and then for a plethora of reasons. If you have a life outside of pickup, then you will need to take a break from it every now and then. Often times..when you come back into pickup from taking a break..you will find that your game has dropped down a couple of levels. And it's very disappointing, for anyone who's ever experienced this. And your game even loses some bite to it now, and girls aren't responding positively to your approach anymore, like they were before you took the break. And you will forget alot of the nuances of game, when you come back from the break. It will be a very frustrating period for you. It will take approximately 2 to 3 weeks of immersion, to get your game back to where it was before the break. So only take breaks if you really have to, and after you've banged a few or several girls in a row. That way, your conscious won't feel like you've left some pussy on the table before you took that break. Also..if you've gotten into a relationship with one of those girls (whether she be your fuck buddy..or she officially becomes your girlfriend)..that will also be a good time to take a break from pickup. 



Keep writing field reports man. Or just write about the ones that you felt created a turning point in your game. That's what i do. I told another member on this forum, that he should start a journal because, at the end of the day, all we have is our memories. We spend too much time and energy working on this stuff, to not record or document (post) our epic experiences in the field. There are 3 ways that you can do this..1..Video Recording..2..Audio Recording..3..Field Reports. And if you're not doing any of those 3 things, then what was it really worth to do all of this for? Because you're going to forget alot of the details of your epic experiences in the field. And they are too good, to let go to waste, in the quiet recesses in the back of your brain. So that's why i write and post my field reports. And i write lay reports for the same reason that you do. Because it shows my results (They show my successes with women. And what greater result is there, than a lay with a hot girl), and i can show you how i did it, so that you can do something similar to what i did, to get a similar result.



I've also had epic failures to, which i will post about in the future. I'm sure that you will enjoy that too lol. I've had one particular epic fail story (which was still a success in my mind) back in August or September of 2016 i believe. Where i could've fucked 2 girls on the same day, but resulted in 2 near misses. The 1st girl is a brunette (i approached a mom & daughter in a market square, where alot of bars & restaurants were)..her mom was going to leave me with her daughter for the rest of the day (this is daygame by the way), after the insta-date that i was on with the both of them (the 3 of us sat down at a table outside of this bar, about to order some drinks). I didn't have enough money with me to cover my drink (i think i was short just a few dollars), so my dumb ass left the money that i had, with them. I ran home (i lived very close to downtown at the time) to get the rest of the money, i returned back to the table outside where the mom and daughter was sitting..and they were gone. They took off with my money and all! Lol



Had i had 4 or 5 more extra dollars on me to cover my drink, the mom would've let me walk around alone with her daughter, while she went somewhere to run errands or whatever. I probably would've went straight back to my apartment with the daughter for the pull (while i ran my attraction & comfort game on her along the way), and fucked her there. The daughter wasn't the cutest girl, but that ass and thighs..OMG! I saw that ass from a distance, before i even approached her and her mom. I was thinking about hitting that ass from the back (the daughter, not the mom lol), the entire time that i was interacting with them. Last thing..don't leave your money with strangers, because they will take it! LOL



The 2nd girl, was a cute dirty-blonde girl that i approached on the riverwalk, in a sea of people walking to the country music concert (so alot of people were wearing cowboy hats and shit). Me and the girl hit it off really quickly, and was even holding hands while we were walking down the riverwalk. Her brunette female friend who was walking ahead of us (who was much hotter than my girl was. She was a 10, my girl was a 7.9) was giving me shit, but i stayed cool calm and collected, and my girl vouched for me. Her and her friends had a boat that was docked on the side of the riverwalk. She invited me on their boat. There were probably about 8 or 9 people in total on that boat, if you count me and my girl. There was one point where my girl was sitting on top of my lap, and we were making out..while her 2 lesbian friends (they are a couple) were sitting next to us on the boat, making out with each other. Now that was Epic!..4 people making out on a boat at the same time, during the daytime! Long story short..at the end of the time that i spent with my girl (probably over an hour and 20 minutes) i got her number, before she left. And what happened with that number..you guessed it..she flaked!



Now looking back on it..while i was making out and kino-ing her on the boat (while her buying temperature was still high, and rising), i probably could've told her to escort me to where their bathroom was on the boat..pull her in there with me, and fucked her in there. She probably would've been down for it..but i didn't think about this in the moment. Even if she would've flaked on me later..i still would've already fucked her.



So that's my epic failure story (and i have plenty more!), which wasn't really that much of a failure to me..because that was a great day for me actually, experience-wise, and i had alot of fun on that day..aside from me losing my money lol (which was probably no more than $10).  



Cheers To You Tinman & Happy Hunting!