How to make this work

[Silver]

Text is the same as infield gaming what ive noticed and the similarities is the same rules we apply to day game or night game we should be apply to text game . Especially when it comes to escalation.

One thing ive read around the forum is the reward system . When a woman is compliant we reward her by giving her more of our attention or speaking more to her or physicallying escalating. Now we should apply the same in the text game. If she responds with a normal text respond normally or reward her i absolutely have do this however once i sent a message i dont text her constantly to keep communication .


The reason for that is to not come across as needy as we know woman are very selective to who they mate with however just know that they desire sex as much as we do but the way we come across plays a role .

Over a text we need to convey interest and we need to same time so that we arent needy or depeserate but that we are the alpha males of the pack . . .


Feel free to add on if you have something to add or want to discuss this with me.

This is still theory that has been but i wont say its a dull proof plan yet . As its working for me . Getting the ladys to initiate a chat and i use the reward system to say okay i appreciate your edfort and i do like your attention. . .

[chef89]

Well to me it's not a reward system. Its having personal standards about what you expect of people when they interact with you.

Even with hot girls, succesful or famous people. They are people too, and you aren't less. That also implies that you dont need a 'reward system'.

[Silver]

Sept 17, 2019 3:30:45 GMT Silver said:

Text is the same as infield gaming. What i have noticed and the similarities is that we have to  apply to day game or night game. we should apply to text game . Especially when it comes to escalation.

One thing ive read around the forum is the reward system . When a woman is compliant we reward her by giving her more of our attention or speaking more to her and physical escalating. Now we should apply the same in the text game. If she responds with a normal text we should respond normally and  reward her i absolutely have done this however once i sent a message i do not text her constantly to keep communication . woman will always respond positively when you give extra credit. (hint- do not try to over do it and when chatting with her dont let her end the conversation you should end it or leave her hanging when you sense the conversation is dieing so that you can reinitiate it without looking needy)


The reason for that is to not come across as needy as we know woman are very selective to who they mate with however just know that they desire sex as much as we do but the way we come across plays a role .

Over a text we need to convey interest charm character because that are things woman look for over text  that way we wil be seen as alpha males of the pack . . .


Feel free to add on if you have something to add or want to discuss this with me.

This is still theory that has been but i wont say its a full proof plan yet . As its working for me . Getting the ladys to initiate a chat and i use the reward system to say okay i appreciate your edfort and i do like your attention. . .

[Silver]

personal standards is a great way of looking at it yes definitely .

[chef89]

Nov 25, 2019 12:17:27 GMT Silver said:

personal standards is a great way of looking at it yes definitely .

Yes, as it solves your problems automatically. Playing games like a reward system implies you need to trick her into liking you.

Its better to let your standards do the work.
She doesn't react in a way that you desire? Give her a chance to do better, but next her if she doesn't.

This way, you end up with girls that actually like you for you.

[Silver]

hey chef tricky woman and decieving them is wrong and well doing that do anybody is wrong.

so back to the game the reward system is a way of you showing your standards and values. woman like to chase men right thats what the rewards system is for . woman go for men they value and they also go for men that value themselves . thus lets explain how the reward system works. if she not compliant to you do not give her ioi because shes going too see you as another guy that likes her . you have standards right so why when shes giving you little effort or when shes not compliant do you keep pursuing her ? what you are doing is your putting her on a high horse and letting her know she has your balls in her hand and its up to her to swallow them or throw them away.

how the reward system helps is when she is not compliant you show her little interest so that she knows that she needs to step up her game for example. once she shows that shes compliance you reward her by moving closer or touching her that way she knows what shes doing is bringing you a step closer to her . this way you show her that you value effort. if she gives you effort you respond by giving her more effort . this way she sees you as a man that values himself and he doesnt need to keep trying to win a womans attention . overall this is my opinion about the reward system everybody has a different view and its our perception of the game . if you view the reward system as bad then it will be bad for you if something suits your values then you should go for it

[chef89]

Nov 25, 2019 14:59:19 GMT Silver said:

hey chef tricky woman and decieving them is wrong and well doing that do anybody is wrong.

so back to the game the reward system is a way of you showing your standards and values. woman like to chase men right thats what the rewards system is for . woman go for men they value and they also go for men that value themselves . thus lets explain how the reward system works. if she not compliant to you do not give her ioi because shes going too see you as another guy that likes her . you have standards right so why when shes giving you little effort or when shes not compliant do you keep pursuing her ? what you are doing is your putting her on a high horse and letting her know she has your balls in her hand and its up to her to swallow them or throw them away.

how the reward system helps is when she is not compliant you show her little interest so that she knows that she needs to step up her game for example. once she shows that shes compliance you reward her by moving closer or touching her that way she knows what shes doing is bringing you a step closer to her . this way you show her that you value effort. if she gives you effort you respond by giving her more effort . this way she sees you as a man that values himself and he doesnt need to keep trying to win a womans attention . overall this is my opinion about the reward system everybody has a different view and its our perception of the game . if you view the reward system as bad then it will be bad for you if something suits your values then you should go for it

I understand what you're saying, but if you have any healthy standards, you don't need a system for it.

For example a guy who has his shit together and has women flocking around him. Do you think this guy consiously thinks about a system? He automatically shows his standards by rejecting the woman he doesn't like.

[Silver]

i think this guy who you referring to has a system that works. that being said not all the girls you meet will like you . (im making and example not pointing fingers ) so now this guy with all his healthy standards and values are out here but your standards and values wont get you the girl. everybody has there own standards and values. healthy or unhealthy .


okay so now mr healthy goes out right he goes and speaks to a lot of woman yet his not teasing her his not exciting her but he has healthy standards and values .
thus he is a good mate yet a real bore in the relationship . imo you we can debate about this.

so the reward system is a way of creating attraction . she becomes attracted you reward her by showing you appreciate her efforts . which makes her feel good about flirting with u . so she might flirt more or even try to escalate.

how the reward system works in a relationship is when its valentines day. you reward your gf by spoiling her buying her some cloths and spending money on her. thats a reward for her making you happy.

its easy to reject a woman you dont like and its easy to make a woman like you.

lets argue about this

[chef89]

Nov 26, 2019 9:54:53 GMT Silver said:

i think this guy who you referring to has a system that works. that being said not all the girls you meet will like you . (im making and example not pointing fingers ) so now this guy with all his healthy standards and values are out here but your standards and values wont get you the girl. everybody has there own standards and values. healthy or unhealthy .


okay so now mr healthy goes out right he goes and speaks to a lot of woman yet his not teasing her his not exciting her but he has healthy standards and values .
thus he is a good mate yet a real bore in the relationship . imo you we can debate about this.

so the reward system is a way of creating attraction . she becomes attracted you reward her by showing you appreciate her efforts . which makes her feel good about flirting with u . so she might flirt more or even try to escalate.

how the reward system works in a relationship is when its valentines day. you reward your gf by spoiling her buying her some cloths and spending money on her. thats a reward for her making you happy.

its easy to reject a woman you dont like and its easy to make a woman like you.

lets argue about this

So youre saying that without a system you don't create attraction by genuinely appreciating her efforts and rewarding her for that, because you feel like doing so? And that with a system you do?

I understand that you mean its meant as some sort of flirting game, but as soon as you have some real standards (not the gamey fake ones), this is mostly automatic. As for example you like to playfully challenge her a bit about if shes is true to what she says. You do it because you want to find out if its true, and not exactly to entertain her. Its the intention that makes the difference between standards and game playing.

[Silver]

yes im glad we agree apon it once you are aligned with your standards the reward system will be automatic. the reward system is a few steps you take to bring thins into your favor.

the difference is there is no difference.
you can be genuine you can be fake its what you decide to do with your knowledge

[JackZero]

Sept 17, 2019 3:30:45 GMT Silver said:

Text is the same as infield gaming what ive noticed and the similarities is the same rules we apply to day game or night game we should be apply to text game . Especially when it comes to escalation.

One thing ive read around the forum is the reward system . When a woman is compliant we reward her by giving her more of our attention or speaking more to her or physicallying escalating. Now we should apply the same in the text game. If she responds with a normal text respond normally or reward her i absolutely have do this however once i sent a message i dont text her constantly to keep communication .


The reason for that is to not come across as needy as we know woman are very selective to who they mate with however just know that they desire sex as much as we do but the way we come across plays a role .

Over a text we need to convey interest and we need to same time so that we arent needy or depeserate but that we are the alpha males of the pack . . .


Feel free to add on if you have something to add or want to discuss this with me.

This is still theory that has been but i wont say its a dull proof plan yet . As its working for me . Getting the ladys to initiate a chat and i use the reward system to say okay i appreciate your edfort and i do like your attention. . .

Do you really think that this is a reward system or is it showing appreciation from her perspective?  "I do appreciate your effort..." is actually a charming thing to say.  Most men have their cheeks clinched because they worry about not appearing to be a nice guy or needy that they aren't willing to be charming.  They aren't willing to let a girl feel special because he is putting her on a pedestal so they implement a reward/punishment system (I'm not going to lie, I've done it years back).  It is a short term tactic once she realizes that you are giving her a treat for being good.

My point is that I see you are trying a system that will work but not for the reason that you think it will.  You are actually demonstrating to her that you believe that you guys are developing a connection even though you think you are rewarding her good behavior.  IMO, being able to communicate appreciation and demonstrating mindfulness will get you the girl and keep her around for a longer period of time.  To not appear needy or the "nice guy", don't be a pushover even though you are being charming.  Better yet, don't put her on a pedestal but instead pull her up on yours and be willing to push her off if she doesn't deserve to be there.

[N2thevoid]

Terrible approach.

[Silver]

which part is bad lol . i think its just showing genuine appreciation jack (You are actually demonstrating to her that you believe that you guys are developing a connection) this makes me think what is going threw her mind is she thinking that there is a real connection or does she think that i have a connection lets talk about this a bit more it opened my mind to why the reward system might be not a good idea to build connection

[Silver]

lets break it down