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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 15:15:26 GMT
Why do you care about her ex? Do you owe him money?
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 15:18:12 GMT
Why do you care about her ex? Do you owe him money? No lol I just can see that she wants to go back with him, her first message to me this morning was "we will probably be back together but i am not 100% sure yet".
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 15:27:48 GMT
She's on the fence. She still wants to fuck you. But wants to keep him in reserve. What do YOU want to do?
Pay attention to what women do, not what they say.
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 15:33:35 GMT
She's on the fence. She still wants to fuck you. But wants to keep him in reserve. What do YOU want to do? Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. So what should I do now, text her again?
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on May 29, 2020 15:37:43 GMT
You absolutely did the wrong thing my guy. You reacted to her having a boyfriend, which is a big nail in your proverbial coffin. And you gave her an ultimatum that she has to get rid of her boyfriend, before she can start dating you. Bro i'm sorry to tell you..but she's probably not going to do that. And if that confuses you..then it's because you just don't understand that women by and large, want to have their cake and eat it too. And they will never tell you this (which is why i'm telling you this lol). If anything..a girl would rather monkey branch from her boyfriend to another guy, before she even let's go of him. By the time that she dumps her boyfriend..she was already seeing another guy for a good while. And that's the most that you can hope for with this girl..in terms of best case scenario. You have to understand this. If anything..the boyfriend acts as an anchor, to keep the girl in place. A girl who is single who has no boyfriend, is actually alot more unpredictable and harder to pin down. Another best case scenario situation is..you get to fuck her on the side, while she stays with her boyfriend. And btw..an ex-boyfriend is no more than "a boyfriend on detention". I was still fucking my ex-girlfriend, off and on for years, after we broke up. And that's exactly what the ex-boyfriend get's to do with her as well. Just play it cool. You do have an uphill road to climb, because of that booboo that you just made, by telling her that she needs to get rid of her boyfriend in order to get with you. A thread was posted on here a little while ago, and the guy had a similar situation. The guy wanted to nail this girl that had a boyfriend already. He did actually fuck her in the end. So you can read up on that, and take notes from our suggestions to him, and how he played it, to get that successful lay with her. Here's the link to that thread --------> mpuaforum.proboards.com/thread/511/sticking-point-bf-G
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 15:40:06 GMT
Meet her for a drink just to chat. Make sure it's logistically close to where you could take her to fuck. If she says anything like "We/I shouldn't be doing this." It's your lucky day.
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 15:41:53 GMT
Meet her for a drink just to chat. Make sure it's logistically close to where you could take her to fuck. If she says anything like "We/I shouldn't be doing this." It's your lucky day. We don't live in the same town so...
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 15:58:12 GMT
We don't live in the same town so... Why on earth do guys try to step on their own dicks when it comes to an easy lay?
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 16:01:24 GMT
She just said that she still loves him and that she will do her best to try to go back to him.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 16:10:34 GMT
She just said that she still loves him and that she will do her best to try to go back to him. He must of slapped her.
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 16:34:13 GMT
She just said that she still loves him and that she will do her best to try to go back to him. He must of slapped her. Idk, but I don't want to be her emotional tampon. She apologized and thats all...obviously she still loves him lol
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on May 29, 2020 17:14:01 GMT
Idk, but I don't want to be her emotional tampon. She apologized and thats all...obviously she still loves him lol Who does. Anyway I'd like to point out a couple things. She reached out because she was pissy about her recent life events, and was going to use a dick as a stress reliever. She was seeing if you could fill that gap. She gave you a window of opportunity. You closed it.
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 17:37:16 GMT
Idk, but I don't want to be her emotional tampon. She apologized and thats all...obviously she still loves him lol Who does. Anyway I'd like to point out a couple things. She reached out because she was pissy about her recent life events, and was going to use a dick as a stress reliever. She was seeing if you could fill that gap. She gave you a window of opportunity. You closed it. Well, this morning even before I told her those things, her first message was "we will probably get back together, I still love him" etc. Because of that I walked away...I don't know, I was sure that I maded a good decision. We wouldn't fuck because first of all we have never met, we are not living in the same town so...
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Post by pilgrimmeister on May 29, 2020 18:17:33 GMT
She sounds like a Monkey brancher to me, and to get her to get rid of him and come to you, you need to show her that you are worth her risking it and cheating on her boyfriend a few times, so that if all goes well, she will finish with and get with you on the same day. The offer has to be too good to miss out on There are plenty of women who are afraid of being alone. If you want her, she needs a really good excuse and the temptation should be too good to miss out on.
I've been with women in the past that have finished with me in the morning and had a new bloke round to stay over the following night and exclusive a week or so later.
I'm not advocating cheating, but with those types of women, it's often the only way. Remember that her cheating is her problem and not yours.
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Post by example on May 29, 2020 18:24:31 GMT
Look guys...
She was texting me all the time with "I think I maded a mistake for breaking up with him, I still love him, I hope that he will accept my apology and that we will be back together".
From that I came to conclusion that she wants to use me as her emotional tampon. She was also sending me messages about their problems in a relationship etc.
I know about "monkey branching", but that mostly happens when a girl lose her feelings/attraction for a guy and she wants to find a replacement for him before she breaks up.
In this case, she was saying that she loves him, she is constantly apologizing to him for breaking up, that she hopes that he will forgive her etc. and because of that I did what I did.
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