Post by GFRESH2DEF on Jun 7, 2020 21:45:51 GMT
Things just went into the "green" phase as of this week. So people are allowed to go back to these venues again. Now there's a caveat to it though. Most of these restaurants are only allowing people to eat and drink outside of the restaurants. There's no dining in. And there seems to be only a few bars open (not all of them are open yet), that close at 11 pm. I went to one of those bars last night, and it was a decent amount of people in there..which most of them weren't really too concerned about social distancing at all lol. So that's the good news..in the sense that the women at the bars, aren't really thinking about Covid-19. So you can run your normal game on them as usual, as you did before.
Now i'm going to keep it 100..i'm rusty, and i have resigned myself to starting small, and working my way back to where my game was before the Pandemic. And with that being said..i've done a few approaches, that have gone bad..or okay..or good. I did an approach yesterday afternoon, that went good. I was coming out of Mickey D's (the food of champions Lol), walking through the square. I was on my way to catching a cab ride to work..when i saw a brunette with shades on, eating food and drinking a can of soda, by herself at a table right outside of a restaurant. She was slim, probably in her late 20's early 30s, and attractive..an 8.1 on my scale. I walked passed her at first, because i was jostling in my mind, whether i should approach her or not. I know that you guys can relate to this. So i walked some steps back and used this line.."Excuse me..do you know what places just opened up today?". This is an indirect situational opener. I knew that we just got in the "green" phase, which officially meant that we're off lockdown, and everything was opening back up again. So that's the opener that i wanted to go with, based off of the current situation. She thought about it, saying "Ummm..i'm not sure". And then i just explained the whole, we just got into the "green phase" thing, and i know that things were opening up today, but i wasn't sure which places were open exactly..blah..blah..blah. So that got her talking a bit, and that's what got the conversation started. And then from there..i just went into a name assumption.."You look like a Susan or an Amy" or whatever i said to her. She laughed about it, and said.."I could see that Lol". She then told me her real name, and i told her my real name. And then she asked me if i liked to be called the abbreviated version of my name. And that's when i believe that i reached the hook point with her. From there..i just mostly used DHV Stories, maybe a compliment or two, and a tease or two, and i found some commonalities that me and her had. In the end..she gave me her phone number, after i said that she seemed cool (qualification) and we can exchange numbers so we can hang out and have a drink one of these days. She told me that she's married, so don't expect anything other than friendship..so you know how that goes lol. I said "No problem", did my number close routine..and talked to her a little bit more (to not give off the impression, that the phone number was my end goal), before i left her to go to work. The biggest thing that i think that got me the number was..i was calibrated, and i slowed down my speech, and i spoke clearly. Whether i was actually relaxed or not (whether i was anxious or not)..slowing down my speech, and i was speaking clearly (with no stuttering, muttering, or mumbling in my voice or speech) that probably gave her the impression that i was relaxed and confident. That's how you come across as smooth to the girl..smooth in the sense of seeming like you're confident and relaxed. And i didn't see one IOD (Indicator Of Disinterest) from her, the entire time that i was talking to her..which the duration of our interaction was anywhere from 15 to 20 minutes long. I was late to work as a result. But it was worth it, just to run a little bit of solid game right before work..which i haven't done in a while. That was yesterday afternoon, and that approach was one of my 1 to 2 approaches a day thing, that i started doing alot of last year. But i'm starting things off small now..from scratch, and back to basics, as if i were a newbie again. But my 6 years of reference experience in the field, will still remain. So i'm not really starting from scratch. And i'm slowly going to work my game back to where it was, before the Pandemic crisis hit us.
Just wanted to post this, to maybe give you guys some ideas..on what openers that you can use, for your daygame approaches..post Lockdown.
Cheers & Happy Hunting Again!!!!!
-G
Now i'm going to keep it 100..i'm rusty, and i have resigned myself to starting small, and working my way back to where my game was before the Pandemic. And with that being said..i've done a few approaches, that have gone bad..or okay..or good. I did an approach yesterday afternoon, that went good. I was coming out of Mickey D's (the food of champions Lol), walking through the square. I was on my way to catching a cab ride to work..when i saw a brunette with shades on, eating food and drinking a can of soda, by herself at a table right outside of a restaurant. She was slim, probably in her late 20's early 30s, and attractive..an 8.1 on my scale. I walked passed her at first, because i was jostling in my mind, whether i should approach her or not. I know that you guys can relate to this. So i walked some steps back and used this line.."Excuse me..do you know what places just opened up today?". This is an indirect situational opener. I knew that we just got in the "green" phase, which officially meant that we're off lockdown, and everything was opening back up again. So that's the opener that i wanted to go with, based off of the current situation. She thought about it, saying "Ummm..i'm not sure". And then i just explained the whole, we just got into the "green phase" thing, and i know that things were opening up today, but i wasn't sure which places were open exactly..blah..blah..blah. So that got her talking a bit, and that's what got the conversation started. And then from there..i just went into a name assumption.."You look like a Susan or an Amy" or whatever i said to her. She laughed about it, and said.."I could see that Lol". She then told me her real name, and i told her my real name. And then she asked me if i liked to be called the abbreviated version of my name. And that's when i believe that i reached the hook point with her. From there..i just mostly used DHV Stories, maybe a compliment or two, and a tease or two, and i found some commonalities that me and her had. In the end..she gave me her phone number, after i said that she seemed cool (qualification) and we can exchange numbers so we can hang out and have a drink one of these days. She told me that she's married, so don't expect anything other than friendship..so you know how that goes lol. I said "No problem", did my number close routine..and talked to her a little bit more (to not give off the impression, that the phone number was my end goal), before i left her to go to work. The biggest thing that i think that got me the number was..i was calibrated, and i slowed down my speech, and i spoke clearly. Whether i was actually relaxed or not (whether i was anxious or not)..slowing down my speech, and i was speaking clearly (with no stuttering, muttering, or mumbling in my voice or speech) that probably gave her the impression that i was relaxed and confident. That's how you come across as smooth to the girl..smooth in the sense of seeming like you're confident and relaxed. And i didn't see one IOD (Indicator Of Disinterest) from her, the entire time that i was talking to her..which the duration of our interaction was anywhere from 15 to 20 minutes long. I was late to work as a result. But it was worth it, just to run a little bit of solid game right before work..which i haven't done in a while. That was yesterday afternoon, and that approach was one of my 1 to 2 approaches a day thing, that i started doing alot of last year. But i'm starting things off small now..from scratch, and back to basics, as if i were a newbie again. But my 6 years of reference experience in the field, will still remain. So i'm not really starting from scratch. And i'm slowly going to work my game back to where it was, before the Pandemic crisis hit us.
Just wanted to post this, to maybe give you guys some ideas..on what openers that you can use, for your daygame approaches..post Lockdown.
Cheers & Happy Hunting Again!!!!!
-G
