Feeling shy on dates

[example]

Hi.

I have this problem for some time. I really can get the things going via texts, but when I get on a date I just don't feel confident. Even the girls say to me that I am a little bit shy.

Also, I haven't been on much dates in my life because I was in a LTR so I can say that I just started going to dates actively.
I am guessing that it will probably get better in the future as I keep going out, but it kinda sucks to be in this position.

Any tips?

[chef89]

Jul 11, 2020 10:23:28 GMT example said:

Hi.

I have this problem for some time. I really can get the things going via texts, but when I get on a date I just don't feel confident. Even the girls say to me that I am a little bit shy.

Also, I haven't been on much dates in my life because I was in a LTR so I can say that I just started going to dates actively.
I am guessing that it will probably get better in the future as I keep going out, but it kinda sucks to be in this position.

Any tips?

Do you care a lot about the outcome of a date?

[JackZero]

Are these girls that you meet online?

[example]

1. No, I don't care too much, I just want to have fun.
2. Yes, most of them are from dating apps/instagram.

[JackZero]

Your problem is more than likely that you aren't too confident on what these girls really think about you because you haven't put in the face-to-face time to make sure that they really like you. You have to approach a date as if these girls are really into you and they are excited just to be around you.