the nice shirt opener.

[letsgetit]

hey guys I really need your opinion and advice on this routine 
walk up to a girl and say "excuse me, I know this is weird but where did you get that shirt?
before she can answer say " I'm looking for a gift for my best friends birthday and I don't know what to 
get her. if she says she does remember say 'oh I know that place'. 
if she doesn't remember ask for stores she frequents. after she answers 
ask if she goes shopping frequently no matter what she says tell her she has good style. 
Now ask if she likes to go thrifting if she does say "I would love to go with you sometime
put your number in my phone. if she says she doesn't like thrifting tell her 'its a great way to get nice clothes 
and if you gives me your number we could go sometime. 

add a time constraint and maybe a neg if she seems stuck up


please give me any opinion you have 

[JackZero]

It's a routine. Try it a few times and don't give up on it. Pay attention to the girls reaction because most of the girls are going to know that it's a routine. The ones that like you will like the fact that you are willing to do a routine. The ones that aren't interested would likely have not been interested routine or not. If you pay attention, you're going to see her "yeah right" face and that's when you eject from the routine and just let her know what you are really there for.

[Heywood Jablowme]

no matter what she says cut her off and say.....

before she can answer say.....

OP. I get it. You're young and ambitious. Nice.

But becoming successful with women isn't learning how to set a snare trap for a fat fluffy bunny for survival.  It's about becoming successful with women in an honest and authentic way.

Using routines and methods are just fine to get over that AA hump and break the ice. Use them, create them, tweak them to fit your style. Try them, share them. 

But as a suggestion this part of your routines is shit. It makes you look like a pompous buffoon. 

Let her answer. Try it your way see if it fly's but that's my 2 cents. 

[Kartel]

@ letsgetit: in another post of yours you also had the idea to interrupt your target while trying to answer to your opener/question whatever that you intended it to be. it seems that cutting off your target's answers is something that you think is a good idea. many people of different cultures consider this rude. in a woman's eyes probably you appear as someone who is not capable to listen. do you really think a woman is willing to invest herself in a man that shows that is not capable to listen to her? from the way i know my female friends i say she is not; however, is good to always observe carefully women's reactions to everything you do or say, this way you can learn from your mistakes and improve yourself and not make the same mistakes in the future

[maestro]

Seem like you should try it and if it works well then great! Keep it. If not discard it. It seems like a good opener to get approaching and kill approach anxiety, try to run the set as far as you can. But if it's not working use a tried and true opener and go as far with the set as you can. Cheers.

[dlightfull]

He's not cutting her off or interrupting in a rude way. Many women will be taken aback for a second because it's such an out of the ordinary question. So what's happening is he's rooting the question before she can come up with an objection to why he's asking. I actually really like this opener. It's simple, non threatening, and can be very genuine. It's also a compliment that isn't directly about her body.

The one change I would make is instead of saying:

"I would love to go with you"
reframe it to:
"You should come with me sometime"

It changes the dynamic to inviting her into your world. You could also add the time constraint at the very beginning, "Hey I've gotta get to an appointment, but I had to ask really quick... Where did you get that shirt?... Oh, the reason I'm asking is I'm looking for a gift... etc..."

But I'm gonna add this to my list of things to try. I think it's a perfect day game opener, thanks for posting this.

[Alex Penn]

Let's break this down. Your routine's got layers, but it feels a bit forced. Trying too hard can backfire. Here's a simple approach: start with a genuine compliment about her shirt. Then smoothly transition into talking about shared interests, maybe fashion or thrifting. Keep it light, authentic.

[jacob bailer]

honestly if shes into you, you can say nice ears, and she will go for it