Kartel
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Post by Kartel on Oct 14, 2020 10:38:32 GMT
based on your personal experience, how many days of complete silence is generally okay to give to a female target to see if she is willing to restart the conversation via text before pinging her again?
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 14, 2020 11:54:59 GMT
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Post by Kartel on Oct 14, 2020 12:44:52 GMT
thank you Heywood Jablowme. and how many times do you think we should do this situation awareness test before nexting the target? like: 3 days silence without restart from her side, then we ping her and assuming she answers to our ping, then another 3 days silence and again no restart from her side, then we ping again and assuming she answers again to our ping... how many times do you consider is okay that we repeat this loop before concluding that she is not interested in us and is better to next her because is likely a waste of energy from our side as she gives no concrete ioi? (the target in question is about 35 years old, so at this age usually a woman knows what she wants) |
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 14, 2020 14:33:13 GMT
Once. Better make it count.
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Post by chef89 on Oct 14, 2020 19:39:13 GMT
thank you Heywood Jablowme. and how many times do you think we should do this situation awareness test before nexting the target? like: 3 days silence without restart from her side, then we ping her and assuming she answers to our ping, then another 3 days silence and again no restart from her side, then we ping again and assuming she answers again to our ping... how many times do you consider is okay that we repeat this loop before concluding that she is not interested in us and is better to next her because is likely a waste of energy from our side as she gives no concrete ioi? (the target in question is about 35 years old, so at this age usually a woman knows what she wants) You're making it sound like its some scientific undertaking. Its simple really. Tell me, what are you texting her and what's her response? |
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Oct 15, 2020 17:22:29 GMT
Well if you wait 3 days and reach out to her from a place of neediness you won't get anywhere anyway. If you reach out, it should be natural and for a reason, like arrange a date. Once you have reached out to her, if she doesn't reach out back after then it's a lost cause and time to move on.
Some girls will hit you up 6 months or so down the line totally out of the blue, to which I usually reply "Who's this?"
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Post by Kartel on Oct 15, 2020 18:24:32 GMT
hi pilgrimmeister, thanks for your feedback, i find your comment useful. in fact, this is the entire purpose of my question: 1) combat neediness 2) understand at what point exactly in our interaction i am with her based also on how much she invests in our "relationship" and on a careful analysis of all the types of reactions she has so, to sump it up, this is a recalibration exercise, which based on her can lead to two possible outcomes: if she doesn't restart the conversation she gets nexted without further notification, if she restarts it then she is giving a chance to herself and will see where this goes |
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 15, 2020 19:26:20 GMT
I used 3 days as an example. Somewhere between thirsty loser, and she forgot your name.
The best restart texts invoke emotions that compel girls to respond back.
They should:
#1 Make her laugh
Be different with a bold flair
Confuse her
Make her curious
Restart texts should never be a Hail Mary attempt.
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 16, 2020 14:39:02 GMT
Sprinkle crushed frogs feet powder, 1/5 clove garlic, 1 ounce of beetle spit In a drift wood bowl.
Then add 1 dried tulip petal, a schmeckle of dried illama dung, and 2 lemon halves.
Add all ingredients to a mason jar and fermenter for 3 weeks but not a day over.
Do all this to the letter and she WILL contact you the next time you initiate.
Guaranteed.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Oct 16, 2020 15:03:27 GMT
Sprinkle crushed frogs feet powder, 1/5 clove garlic, 1 ounce of beetle spit In a drift wood bowl. Then add 1 dried tulip petal, a schmeckle of dried illama dung, and 2 lemon halves. Add all ingredients to a mason jar and fermenter for 3 weeks but not a day over. Do all this to the letter and she WILL contact you the next time you initiate. Guaranteed. Sarcasm: Helping the intelligent politely tolerate the obtuse for thousands of years. |
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Post by chef89 on Oct 18, 2020 21:44:32 GMT
Sprinkle crushed frogs feet powder, 1/5 clove garlic, 1 ounce of beetle spit In a drift wood bowl. Then add 1 dried tulip petal, a schmeckle of dried illama dung, and 2 lemon halves. Add all ingredients to a mason jar and fermenter for 3 weeks but not a day over. Do all this to the letter and she WILL contact you the next time you initiate. Guaranteed. It also cures neediness |
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Post by N2thevoid on Oct 18, 2020 21:51:35 GMT
And that’s the root word of neediness?
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