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Post by stardust on Nov 8, 2020 20:58:50 GMT
hey guys recently i got a bunch of phone numbers from random girls in instagram simply by replying to their stories and hitting on them but i feel that i ruined em all i dunnu what to do and what to say in whatsapp when im chatting w/ them im always overthinking stuff
what should i do? where should i begin to learn?
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Post by JackZero on Nov 9, 2020 5:17:17 GMT
Post some examples so we can see what's going on.
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Post by stardust on Nov 9, 2020 7:48:19 GMT
Post some examples so we can see what's going on. thanks for the reply recently i've been chatting with a few girls on instagram and whatsapp im gonna explain each one in brief: no. 1 brunette 18yrs 7-8: i started the talk in her DM and talked about one of her paintings, and as an art enthusiast i made a very good first impression and told her we can continue the conv later and dropped my phone, she did not txt back, after a few weeks i replied another story on instagram and i made some really good inside jokes and made her laugh alot (i made her a funny short song with piano) and asked her for a date, she told me she got corona virus and is resting and she insisted to make a plan after she got better, then she texted me on whatsapp and said she wanted me to have her number. but since then we've been talking very little about very boring stuff, her cat my cat... :/ and i don't text her back immediately coz im working and don't want to be needy neither. i dunnu what to do at this point. no. 2 brunette 19yrs 6-7: i made a witty reply to her instagram story and the asked her to text me on whatsapp to catchup with her later, this time i did not txt her instead i called her and talked like an hour and asked her out but since she's in a nearby city it seemed very hard to plan a date, after that she did not call back and never texted, she just replied to some random instagram stories of mine. no.3 brunette 18yrs 8-9: same as the others from instagram to whatsapp, "i had corona virus and got better" she said and then i listened to some of her bragging about her friends and how she got sick... a few days later i texted "im going out tonight around 6, i can come pick you up if you like' she said she's busy tonight and did not text back. and some other random girls on tinder, badoo which ended up nowhere. im feeling my confidence is hitting low, i just got out of a long relationship and i'm not the man that i used to be, i feel my ex sucked the real man out of me. 2 weeks ago i invited a girl back to my place (6-7 26yrs), we had few drinks and started kissing, then i took her to the bed and got her close off and started licking her all over the place, at that point she started the marriage game on me. i've seen this game by so many girls before, i call it "The Mary Magdalene" game. its when she says that she's virgin and she has a religious family and she have to be careful. so before i insert my dick inside her she said im virgin. WTF after that my confidence is like a rollercoaster. i don't know how to handle stuff and i'm constantly overthinking stuff. im researching and learning alot but i dunnu how use all these knowledge and techniques.
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Nov 9, 2020 13:59:23 GMT
Where's the witty sexual banter?
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Post by stardust on Nov 9, 2020 14:03:13 GMT
Where's the witty sexual banter? what? sorry english is not my native lang, didn't get it
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Post by Heywood Jablowme on Nov 9, 2020 15:43:00 GMT
Flirting in a sexual manner to incite a meeting.
Actually Create Sexual Tension. Provoke An Emotional Response From Her: Make Her Laugh....Make Her Feel Special.
And one important thing to remember- most often than not, girls follow their desires and craving for powerful and thrilling emotions.
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Post by JackZero on Nov 9, 2020 17:42:47 GMT
^What Heywood said is right.
Now we need to talk about this... 1. You took her to bed. What did she think was going to happen? 2. You took her clothes off. What did she think was going to happen? 3. You started licking her all over the place. What did she think was going to happen?
My point is that she may or may not have been a virgin and her actions lead me to think that it wasn't about not wanting to lose her alleged virginity. It seems like she may have been making sure that this stayed between the two of you. You fuck her -> you tell people that you fucked her -> it gets back to her family -> she gets humiliated.
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Post by stardust on Nov 10, 2020 8:11:01 GMT
Flirting in a sexual manner to incite a meeting. Actually Create Sexual Tension. Provoke An Emotional Response From Her: Make Her Laugh....Make Her Feel Special. And one important thing to remember- most often than not, girls follow their desires and craving for powerful and thrilling emotions. yeah thanks man, i should work on it. i kinda suck at flirting can't find a perfect balance between flirting and normal conversation.
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Post by stardust on Nov 10, 2020 8:21:16 GMT
My point is that she may or may not have been a virgin and her actions lead me to think that it wasn't about not wanting to lose her alleged virginity. It seems like she may have been making sure that this stayed between the two of you. You fuck her -> you tell people that you fucked her -> it gets back to her family -> she gets humiliated. yeah exactly you explained it perfectly. actually we have common friends too. but i've seen this before, actually a couple time. lemme explain the "The Mary Magdalene" game. (btw maybe it's only played in iran, i dunnu tbh) 1. she say's im a virgin to get my approval that she's a pure good little girl. 2. she want true love and a person to take care of her (Bullshit) 3. she agrees to have sex if i promise to marry her 4. after sex there's no blood, and she make's statements about not all virginities have blood after sex and that if i don't believe i have trust issues. 5. she's playing all along the relationship. and i've been played like this before.
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Post by siliconmagician on Nov 11, 2020 6:51:43 GMT
Flirting in a sexual manner to incite a meeting. Actually Create Sexual Tension. Provoke An Emotional Response From Her: Make Her Laugh....Make Her Feel Special. And one important thing to remember- most often than not, girls follow their desires and craving for powerful and thrilling emotions. Oh this is no lie. I was just reading an article recently from last year where some girl from Vice was interviewing Mystery and his latest protege about how the game has evolved over the years and even though she tried her best to paint Mystery as some kind of misogynistic monster pervert, throughout the article she kept commenting on how he absolutely played her emotions and no matter how hard she tried, he kept getting to her. Here is the man she held singularly responsible for the creation of what she saw as the most sexist and detrimental industry in the modern world and she couldn't help but realize that despite all her preconceptions, when she finally met him and his little dude. She was thoroughly charmed and even thought she KNEW he was playing with her emotions she simply couldn't help herself.
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