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Post by JackZero on Dec 3, 2020 4:41:20 GMT
Translated: I met someone new you don't know about If you ever hear your girl say this to you.. "We need to take a break for a while". It also translates into meaning.. "I've met someone new, that you don't know about". The "break" is actually for the time that she needs, to see if "this new someone"..will actually work out or not. But again, by the time that she says this to you..she already has someone in mind, that she wants to monkey branch over to. -G I was seeing a girl a few years back and she pulled the "take a break" line on me. I told her she was absolutely right and I was trying to figure out the best way to tell her. Two days later she was telling me that we were making a mistake and should rethink the break. I like to chalk it up to me taking that power from her and her ego not wanting to believe that I didn't want her anymore.
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Dec 3, 2020 5:00:51 GMT
If you ever hear your girl say this to you.. "We need to take a break for a while". It also translates into meaning.. "I've met someone new, that you don't know about". The "break" is actually for the time that she needs, to see if "this new someone"..will actually work out or not. But again, by the time that she says this to you..she already has someone in mind, that she wants to monkey branch over to. -G I was seeing a girl a few years back and she pulled the "take a break" line on me. I told her she was absolutely right and I was trying to figure out the best way to tell her. Two days later she was telling me that we were making a mistake and should rethink the break. I like to chalk it up to me taking that power from her and her ego not wanting to believe that I didn't want her anymore. Correct! You flipped the script on her Jack. You surprised her with a reversal move of your own, that she didn't see coming. So then, that's when she back pedaled, and she tried to take it back. Either you knew what her particular shit test meant (and you knew what the correct response to it was)..or you actually didn't give a shit, whether she left you or not. Regardless of which one that it was..your response to her, was the right one. And that's how it's done guys. It's a shame that you have to beat them at their own game..but that's what it is. Because your girl, may try to test your congruence..in a similar manner. -G
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Post by curtis72 on Dec 4, 2020 4:45:48 GMT
If you ever hear your girl say this to you.. "We need to take a break for a while". It also translates into meaning.. "I've met someone new, that you don't know about". The "break" is actually for the time that she needs, to see if "this new someone"..will actually work out or not. But again, by the time that she says this to you..she already has someone in mind, that she wants to monkey branch over to. -G I was seeing a girl a few years back and she pulled the "take a break" line on me. I told her she was absolutely right and I was trying to figure out the best way to tell her. Two days later she was telling me that we were making a mistake and should rethink the break. I like to chalk it up to me taking that power from her and her ego not wanting to believe that I didn't want her anymore. Can you give further deets on this? It strikes me as the sort of thing a lot of guys would say and come across bitter for saying
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 4, 2020 5:06:18 GMT
LOL I can't relate to these stories. Tbh the breakups I had were mostly expected, and either went way south or like the last one I just walked once she did (which threw her off guard).
I can't imagine if a girl ever told me we need space that I'd stick around. If you need the absence of me to figure out whether the relationship is worth fighting for or not, you've answered the question for me.
I know I'm great. If she can't see that, oh well, her loss ... don't let the door hit your ass on the way out hun.
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 4, 2020 5:12:17 GMT
I was seeing a girl a few years back and she pulled the "take a break" line on me. I told her she was absolutely right and I was trying to figure out the best way to tell her. Two days later she was telling me that we were making a mistake and should rethink the break. I like to chalk it up to me taking that power from her and her ego not wanting to believe that I didn't want her anymore. Can you give further deets on this? It strikes me as the sort of thing a lot of guys would say and come across bitter for saying I think he's speaking about non-resistence. If someone is saying they don't want that, respect YOURSELF by not pushing them to a decision they may regret (and you perpetually to second guess). If a woman is telling you she's wanting space away, it's in your best interest to keep your dignity intact; don't make a fuss, don't pout just be polite and respect the decision in that moment.
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Post by curtis72 on Dec 4, 2020 5:48:16 GMT
Can you give further deets on this? It strikes me as the sort of thing a lot of guys would say and come across bitter for saying I think he's speaking about non-resistence. If someone is saying they don't want that, respect YOURSELF by not pushing them to a decision they may regret (and you perpetually to second guess). If a woman is telling you she's wanting space away, it's in your best interest to keep your dignity intact; don't make a fuss, don't pout just be polite and respect the decision in that moment. Personally, I just wish them well and move on with life if she says anything about unsureness. It seemed like an intriguing thing he was suggesting.
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Post by JackZero on Dec 4, 2020 8:48:53 GMT
I was seeing a girl a few years back and she pulled the "take a break" line on me. I told her she was absolutely right and I was trying to figure out the best way to tell her. Two days later she was telling me that we were making a mistake and should rethink the break. I like to chalk it up to me taking that power from her and her ego not wanting to believe that I didn't want her anymore. Can you give further deets on this? It strikes me as the sort of thing a lot of guys would say and come across bitter for saying There's not much more to it than that. I was checking out and she was too. There was no need for either of us to be bitter when it happened.
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 4, 2020 10:03:28 GMT
I think he's speaking about non-resistence. If someone is saying they don't want that, respect YOURSELF by not pushing them to a decision they may regret (and you perpetually to second guess). If a woman is telling you she's wanting space away, it's in your best interest to keep your dignity intact; don't make a fuss, don't pout just be polite and respect the decision in that moment. Personally, I just wish them well and move on with life if she says anything about unsureness. It seemed like an intriguing thing he was suggesting. what was he suggesting?
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Post by flyingbanana on Dec 4, 2020 22:21:37 GMT
Another way to see it in my opinion is if you have to force/coerce someone to be with you, why would you even want that. The whole point is they should want to be with you. Lately I am really internalizing this concept and it seems to be paying dividends. You don't text me, fine I will mirror it. Want to hang out, ok we will have a great time together.
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Post by N2thevoid on Dec 4, 2020 22:27:04 GMT
Another way to see it in my opinion is if you have to force/coerce someone to be with you, why would you even want that. The whole point is they should want to be with you. Lately I am really internalizing this concept and it seems to be paying dividends. You don't text me, fine I will mirror it. Want to hang out, ok we will have a great time together. Like a banana boomerang..
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