xmoses
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Post by xmoses on Dec 31, 2020 2:56:01 GMT
How are your results with girls outside your race? i feel like these girls are very racist
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Post by JackZero on Dec 31, 2020 3:11:42 GMT
Is this Moses C. from the old forum? This subject feels kind of familiar.
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Post by xmoses on Dec 31, 2020 6:07:41 GMT
Is this Moses C. from the old forum? This subject feels kind of familiar. Lol ya how can you remember? that was so long ago....did i argue with you? I had apologized to some people there because i misread their intentions. You guys were trying to help i know. |
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Post by xmoses on Dec 31, 2020 6:08:31 GMT
Is this Moses C. from the old forum? This subject feels kind of familiar. Are you darkskin black? just curious. It's cool if you're not. |
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Post by JackZero on Dec 31, 2020 8:36:51 GMT
Is this Moses C. from the old forum? This subject feels kind of familiar. Are you darkskin black? just curious. It's cool if you're not. I'm more in the middle. However, I have some very dark skin black friends and they clean up. And to your previous question, I remember because I was one of the guys trying to help. |
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Post by curtis72 on Dec 31, 2020 11:42:34 GMT
I don’t understand the point in this thread:
Either bleach your skin, get over it or give up.
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Post by JackZero on Dec 31, 2020 16:47:56 GMT
I don’t understand the point in this thread: Either bleach your skin, get over it or give up. It's not as easy as that. Skin bleaching will cause black people to become hostile towards the person who has it done. At the same time, within the black community, in America, light skin is considered more attractive and dark skin is often ridiculed. So that pain runs deep for a lot of black people and it starts in childhood. So when you say get over it, it's almost like telling someone who has been abused as a child to get over it. |
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Post by curtis72 on Dec 31, 2020 18:48:43 GMT
I don’t understand the point in this thread: Either bleach your skin, get over it or give up. It's not as easy as that. Skin bleaching will cause black people to become hostile towards the person who has it done. At the same time, within the black community, in America, light skin is considered more attractive and dark skin is often ridiculed. So that pain runs deep for a lot of black people and it starts in childhood. So when you say get over it, it's almost like telling someone who has been abused as a child to get over it. Fair enough, I didn’t think about colourism being that severe. I still don’t see the point in a thread like this. What exactly does the success of a few users on an anonymous site who have one shared (albeit a major) characteristic mean for his chances? Additionally there’s like 20 million black guys in the USA, so he knows there are many who are blacker than him that do well. Isn’t Paul George dark skinned and he’s considered handsome? |
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Post by JackZero on Dec 31, 2020 19:31:21 GMT
It's not as easy as that. Skin bleaching will cause black people to become hostile towards the person who has it done. At the same time, within the black community, in America, light skin is considered more attractive and dark skin is often ridiculed. So that pain runs deep for a lot of black people and it starts in childhood. So when you say get over it, it's almost like telling someone who has been abused as a child to get over it. Fair enough, I didn’t think about colourism being that severe. I still don’t see the point in a thread like this. What exactly does the success of a few users on an anonymous site who have one shared (albeit a major) characteristic mean for his chances? Additionally there’s like 20 million black guys in the USA, so he knows there are many who are blacker than him that do well. Isn’t Paul George dark skinned and he’s considered handsome? He's trying to figure it out and there's nothing wrong with that. Believe me, I've been in the room where black people make fun of other black people for the darkness and lightness of their complexion. Sometimes it's treated as an outright defect and it's ridiculed. For me, it's easy to understand where he's coming from but I don't necessarily agree that the problem is what he thinks it is. When you hear something negative about a category of people, it's hard not to think that it may be an issue when it comes to a limited amount of successes. I don't have a problem with the question because it's comparable to the guys that ask about their height. It's comparable to the guys that ask about fitness. It's comparable to the guys that admit that they aren't too good looking and if they have a chance. The OP targeted a specific type of guy to get an answer to his question and that's a good place for him to start (although he's been through it before on the old forum). A person that shares the same attributes may be able to give him some insight through experience. When it comes to Paul George, I don't think that the OP was implying that a dark guy couldn't be considered handsome. I think what he was trying to ask, and I'm not trying to put the words in his mouth, is if PU would be wasted endeavor if your complexion is considered dark and you can't rely on being handsome? |
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Post by Lord Charm on Jan 1, 2021 23:27:23 GMT
Woah, is this a real thing? I have some friends with a darker skin, but they do pretty well with girls. Think like this: The darker your skin, the bigger your member. My skin is pretty white, so I have to handle a smaller package...  P.S: I am not racist |
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Post by JackZero on Jan 2, 2021 1:47:39 GMT
Woah, is this a real thing? I have some friends with a darker skin, but they do pretty well with girls. Think like this: The darker your skin, the bigger your member. My skin is pretty white, so I have to handle a smaller package... P.S: I am not racist I know it is in the U.S. and it's origins come from slavery. Slaves with lighter skin got to work in the house and the ones with darker skin were out in the fields. That led to one group feeling superior and the other inferior. It's not as bad as it used to be but the scars are still there. You should give the OP hope just because you had to ask if this was actually a real thing. He should even plan a trip to your country just because the girls will want to see him swing his dick around. |
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 5, 2021 16:09:27 GMT
Fair enough, I didn’t think about colourism being that severe. I still don’t see the point in a thread like this. What exactly does the success of a few users on an anonymous site who have one shared (albeit a major) characteristic mean for his chances? Additionally there’s like 20 million black guys in the USA, so he knows there are many who are blacker than him that do well. Isn’t Paul George dark skinned and he’s considered handsome? He's trying to figure it out and there's nothing wrong with that. Believe me, I've been in the room where black people make fun of other black people for the darkness and lightness of their complexion. Sometimes it's treated as an outright defect and it's ridiculed. For me, it's easy to understand where he's coming from but I don't necessarily agree that the problem is what he thinks it is. When you hear something negative about a category of people, it's hard not to think that it may be an issue when it comes to a limited amount of successes. I don't have a problem with the question because it's comparable to the guys that ask about their height. It's comparable to the guys that ask about fitness. It's comparable to the guys that admit that they aren't too good looking and if they have a chance. The OP targeted a specific type of guy to get an answer to his question and that's a good place for him to start (although he's been through it before on the old forum). A person that shares the same attributes may be able to give him some insight through experience. When it comes to Paul George, I don't think that the OP was implying that a dark guy couldn't be considered handsome. I think what he was trying to ask, and I'm not trying to put the words in his mouth, is if PU would be wasted endeavor if your complexion is considered dark and you can't rely on being handsome? I'm not sure he's trying to figure it out - it was just a question of who else is doing well and then a complaint, it wasn't something like "dark-skinned black guys, how do I do well with women and more specifically those outside my race?" which I'd have just probably ignored. Additionally, I was browsing the old forum for general Tinder guidance, and even in 2015 he was spamming the forum with these kinda questions - it's now 2021 and he seemingly isn't making effort to progress. Tbh, with height and fitness I'd just write the same but with shoelifts and improving diet and exercise subbed into the above advice I gave. In terms of dating, I'd say there isn't much philosophical difference between being dark-skinned black and other supposed flaws. The question you've written for him couldn't really be answered, very few guys if any are going to be open about the fact they tried this and failed outside of those on incel boards. Even then if he were to ask, some guys might just end up marrying or being long term with the first girl they met and they're happy enough with that, which may not be what he wants. I'd say he'd just need to get out there and find out, but it's five years later and he has the same questions. Just don't understand the point in these threads tbh. |
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Post by JackZero on Jan 5, 2021 17:17:51 GMT
He's trying to figure it out and there's nothing wrong with that. Believe me, I've been in the room where black people make fun of other black people for the darkness and lightness of their complexion. Sometimes it's treated as an outright defect and it's ridiculed. For me, it's easy to understand where he's coming from but I don't necessarily agree that the problem is what he thinks it is. When you hear something negative about a category of people, it's hard not to think that it may be an issue when it comes to a limited amount of successes. I don't have a problem with the question because it's comparable to the guys that ask about their height. It's comparable to the guys that ask about fitness. It's comparable to the guys that admit that they aren't too good looking and if they have a chance. The OP targeted a specific type of guy to get an answer to his question and that's a good place for him to start (although he's been through it before on the old forum). A person that shares the same attributes may be able to give him some insight through experience. When it comes to Paul George, I don't think that the OP was implying that a dark guy couldn't be considered handsome. I think what he was trying to ask, and I'm not trying to put the words in his mouth, is if PU would be wasted endeavor if your complexion is considered dark and you can't rely on being handsome? I'm not sure he's trying to figure it out - it was just a question of who else is doing well and then a complaint, it wasn't something like "dark-skinned black guys, how do I do well with women and more specifically those outside my race?" which I'd have just probably ignored. Additionally, I was browsing the old forum for general Tinder guidance, and even in 2015 he was spamming the forum with these kinda questions - it's now 2021 and he seemingly isn't making effort to progress. Tbh, with height and fitness I'd just write the same but with shoelifts and improving diet and exercise subbed into the above advice I gave. In terms of dating, I'd say there isn't much philosophical difference between being dark-skinned black and other supposed flaws. The question you've written for him couldn't really be answered, very few guys if any are going to be open about the fact they tried this and failed outside of those on incel boards. Even then if he were to ask, some guys might just end up marrying or being long term with the first girl they met and they're happy enough with that, which may not be what he wants. I'd say he'd just need to get out there and find out, but it's five years later and he has the same questions. Just don't understand the point in these threads tbh. I reread his question and I'm not seeing what you saw. The title is pointed to a specific category of guy. The question is about their results. Then he is stating an opinion. I believe the opinion is misguided but I understand that talking to someone that shares the same attribute and has success carries more weight than guys that offer solutions that they haven't been able to try for themselves. I'm sure if Lebron James wrote a wheelchair basketball book the people confined to wheelchairs wouldn't take it too seriously. We haven't had this question asked on this forum and if a guy that fits OP's description can give him the answer, I think it's a good thing. If he becomes motivated to spam the board, we will deal with it. |
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Post by flyingbanana on Jan 5, 2021 18:03:04 GMT
Woah, is this a real thing? I have some friends with a darker skin, but they do pretty well with girls. Think like this: The darker your skin, the bigger your member. My skin is pretty white, so I have to handle a smaller package... P.S: I am not racist 8.5.5 Ha that sounds pretty racist. What does skin color have to do with dick size? People come in all shapes and sizes. |
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Post by N2thevoid on Jan 5, 2021 18:24:24 GMT
How are your results with girls outside your race? i feel like these girls are very racist I would say this is a very relevant topic as self-image is one of the biggest hurdlers to our spiritual and mental growth. Everyone had their own perceived limitations - “I am... too short/too poor/too old/too bald” and so on. These limiting “too” (proximal/more surface) beliefs are really the product of the distal/root belief that you aren’t enough. It is an original trauma picked up during our early years. A belief such as this holds so much power, and informs how we navigate through the world as adults. We diagnose our selves and in many ways live a life sentence so long as we cling to the belief. This trauma results from an un-integrated part of yourself (usually from child hood). It is not your fault, however as an adult it is your responsibility to correct this - think of all the opportunity you’d have once removed. The belief, as non-life serving it is for the adult you, likely served an adaptive purpose in your earlier years. Maybe it closed you off from strangers to keep you from exposing yourself to potential hurt, while keeping you close fo those who look more similar to you. As mentioned, this is one of the instruments for maintaining in-group cohesion. You see this with dogmatic religious sects, occupations, membership to organizations (AA, a sports team etc). Now, as an adult, the belief is mal-adaptive. It not only no longer serves any functional purpose, it also denies you of opportunity for connection. So what can be done? You can visit a trauma therapist (someone trained in EMDR, OEI, somatic sensing). You can take an exposure graded approach; acting in the opposite way to the belief - but through microbehaviours. For example, saying “hello” to women you would ordinarily tell yourself you’re “too <perceived flaw of self>.”. Then once that becomes boring for you (you’ve ‘adapted’ to the new standard), you move up the rung of the ladder to the next intimidating things, such as asking the person how their day is going and so forth. Basically what a lot of PU books suggest. You won’t be able to work through this on the level of logic. Deeply entrenched emotional experiences generally won’t correct using a top-down approach. This is why talk therapy doesn’t work for many things beyond empathy and offering insight to a problem (which can be quite useful). |
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