xmoses
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Post by xmoses on Jan 14, 2021 1:59:12 GMT
can you tell us about your approaches? I'm going to approach some girls this coming days and post the interaction here. I'll provide a YouTube link.
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xmoses
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Post by xmoses on Jan 14, 2021 2:17:37 GMT
If you spent 2 hours a day for a month and couldn't get a date, I guarantee it's something that you're doing wrong. Had almost 2 dates with unattractive chick, one was fat other had pimples all over her face very nerdy. All the slim good looking ones flaked. Had 1 good looking one plan a date but ghosted me. I feel like if i was white or another race i would've had like 4 dates (1 per week) for that shitty month. Here are my pics. ibb.co/YjpcS5Xibb.co/xzdjLQ2ibb.co/wLq90szFor people who find black attractive i'm considered good looking. I get complimented by blacks girls alot and had significant amount of them try to hook up with me growing up.
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 14, 2021 14:13:46 GMT
I rate your fashion tbh
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 14, 2021 15:33:15 GMT
Broadly speaking; are you direct with your intentions? I'd avoid that if I were you, being direct will only sell a girl on your looks but if you are indirect you have a chance to hook them with your lifestyle, sense of humour, personality etc
It's not the most efficient way though as you may end up chatting for a while uncertain just to get a phone number she won't respond to. Obviously, with direct, you'll polarise so her responding right off the bat will indicate she has some level of attraction.
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Post by N2thevoid on Jan 14, 2021 17:25:34 GMT
It’s not your looks it’s your vibe
Plus why are you dating girls you aren’t attracted to?
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 14, 2021 17:48:37 GMT
It’s not your looks it’s your vibe Plus why are you dating girls you aren’t attracted to? I think the answer's obvious, do you really want him to say that it's because he's desperate/got no other options?
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Post by GFRESH2DEF on Jan 14, 2021 17:50:42 GMT
I agree with these fellas, that we will need more information from you. Maybe like 2 or 3 examples of your interactions with women. That way we can have a more accurate picture, of what's really going on. You look clean in your pics, and you have a decent style. And i know dark skin black guys, that have no problem getting girls outside of their race. Looks-wise you're no Morris Chestnut (no homo..i'm just keeping it 100)..but your hygene and style does make up for your lack of looks. Which will probably put you at about an average in looks. That should be good enough. But are there some girls that will disqualify you, simply because you're not exactly good looking?..Yes it's true, there's no getting around that. Women are superficial beings..surprise surprise! However..your personality, and game..could make up for it. So with that being said..is your personality too hum drum, and basic/boring? And how's your game? Are you emotionally spiking these girls that you're interacting with (Are you making them smile and laugh?..Are you teasing them?..Are you making them feel comfortable and safe around you?..Are you flirting with them?..Are you kino'ing them?..Are you dissing them a little bit too?)..getting them to feel a range of different emotions, whenever they talk to you..that's making them feel little drips and tinkles in their panties? Are you doing any of those things? These are all valid questions, that you need to be asking yourself. And if you aren't doing any of those things..maybe that's where you're having issues.
Another issue that it could be, can be as simple as..you're not properly screening the girls that you are interacting with. Are you wasting your time, talking to girls that would never be interested in you? Like for an example..you might be trying to seduce women, that have never ever dated a black guy before..let alone a dark-skinned black guy. And if they haven't..could it be that they are racist?..maybe. But i feel like those girls are in the minority. It's more likely just a preference thing, rather than a racist thing. Like if you're talking to a girl, who all she has dated in her past, were white guys..then your chances of hooking up with her will be slim. Because dating white guys, is what she's used to, and that's all she knows. And she's probably not going to change that up anytime soon..unless your game is really on point!
I thought about this stuff last night, when i was in downtown..after i got off from work. These concepts and ideas, will just hit me out of the blue, in my downtime sometimes..usually when i'm alone, and when no one else is around me. So again..it's either, a bad game/boring personality issue. Or it's your screening for a chick that's more compatible with you, that's off. Either way..there's no way for us to know for sure OP. Until you give us more details, about your full interactions with these women.
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Post by JackZero on Jan 15, 2021 0:09:57 GMT
I love GFRESH's post because they are basically my beliefs.
OP, I'm going to give you a simple thing to try. Increase your social circle to include the type of women that you are attracted to but think that they wouldn't be into you. Be flirty and playful with all of the women in your circle but keep it as friends only. The more girls you do this with within one circle, you're going to find that a few of them are going to be into you. You can convert women that aren't necessarily into you if you get enough time in their presence. It's important that you are flirty with them because you don't want to lock yourself in as a friend.
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Post by N2thevoid on Jan 15, 2021 1:12:13 GMT
It's like cold contacting sales targets. The people who give up expecting a response after the first try get no where and formulate some self-defeating belief (or re-affirm one that's already there), vs the ones that persevere and take a non-response not as a negative, but as a part of the game.
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xmoses
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Post by xmoses on Feb 12, 2021 6:13:19 GMT
My fashion is bad? no way i know i have style people always complement my fashion loll
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Post by curtis72 on Feb 13, 2021 10:45:22 GMT
My fashion is bad? no way i know i have style people always complement my fashion loll I said I rate your fashion, as in I was complimenting it.
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Post by curtis72 on Apr 3, 2021 16:36:49 GMT
can you tell us about your approaches? I'm going to approach some girls this coming days and post the interaction here. I'll provide a YouTube link. Are you gonna post these interactions or give us insight into how you approach them?
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xmoses
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Post by xmoses on Apr 5, 2021 6:58:06 GMT
I'm going to approach some girls this coming days and post the interaction here. I'll provide a YouTube link. Are you gonna post these interactions or give us insight into how you approach them? I was thinking about it but having thoughts it's useless because i don't believe the problem is with verbals. Really it's not rocket science to get a date. You just have a regular conversation with a girl and if she likes you (mostly due to looks) she will reply to your text for a date. I have good social skills so i don't *THINK* the problem is with conversations. However when i get the time i will post audio of conversations in case it could help out which i doubt lol
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