Chatting with Moroccan girl in Interpals

[sigmafox]

For a bit more than a year I used Interpals, a site where you can meet people from all the world. Even tough I talked with many girls here, I still need to improve my game, so here I show you an example of a chat that I (Almost 21 years) I had which a cute (but not a lot😅) 23 years old girl from Morocco (She was wearing hijab, but appareances decieve, anyways is a factor to keep in mind), it wasn't one of my best chats, that's why I choose it so I could face my mistakes

Me: Hola (Said hello in my language, to highlight my "exoticness") (Girl name), glad to meet you! But I would be glader if you told me what makes you moody, I don't want to die now 😹😹 (In her profile she mentioned that she was moody)

Her: Why would you die

Idk

What does

Unexpected stuff

Me: Maybe I trigger your inner Hulk accidentaly and when I realized you would be in my city ready to kill me

Her: Maybe

Watch out

Me: So, what don't I have to do? 😹😹

Her: I'll let you know

You have 3 shots before you die

After I tell you

Me: I'll pray for your boyfriend (Trying to find out if she has a boyfriend)

Her: I don't have one

You can rest

Me: By the way, I wonder how does living in Casablanca feels like (I changed topic, persisting on whether she had boyfriend might seem suspicious)

Her: Feels normal

And stressful

Me: Stressful?

Her: Living in a big city is always stressful

Me: Specially the melodic sound of the cars and the majestic crowded streets 😹😹 (Making humor about something that she would indentify quickly)

Her: Hhhh

Yap

Me: It's never late to move to the desert 😎😎

Her: Hhhhh lool

Me: It seems that you would move there

Her: Where

Me: To the desert

Her: I would love too

Wifi

And a salary

Me: I didn't expect to find an internet addicted girl here 😹😹

Her: Seriously

Me: You meant that you are truly addicted?

Her: No

But to watch series

Me: Good, now I can sleep with both my eyes closed 😁😁

So, series are your addiction?

Her: series and movies

are my escape from reality (Important information about her personality)

Me: By what you told me, you must be the oldest sister in your family

Her: Hhhh

You're smooth af

Dude

No I'm the middle

One older one younger

Me: And...both are brothers?

Her: Girls

Me: Anyways I wonder if you lived the extraordinarly beautiful experience that many older siblings had (Trying to bait her to ask something like: Which experience?)

Her: You lived it then (It failed)

Me: (Un)Fortunately not, but almost every older sibling knows how great does it feel when they let your younger siblings to things that you weren't allowed to 😹😹 (Anyways I kept going)

Where I went wrong? What could I have done better? Thanks, your Comrade, SigmaFox

[JackZero]

You could have at least flirted with her.

[GFRESH2DEF]

Jan 27, 2021 23:12:55 GMT sigmafox said:

For a bit more than a year I used Interpals, a site where you can meet people from all the world. Even tough I talked with many girls here, I still need to improve my game, so here I show you an example of a chat that I (Almost 21 years) I had which a cute (but not a lot😅) 23 years old girl from Morocco (She was wearing hijab, but appareances decieve, anyways is a factor to keep in mind), it wasn't one of my best chats, that's why I choose it so I could face my mistakes

Me: Hola (Said hello in my language, to highlight my "exoticness") (Girl name), glad to meet you! But I would be glader if you told me what makes you moody, I don't want to die now 😹😹 (In her profile she mentioned that she was moody)

Her: Why would you die

Idk

What does

Unexpected stuff

Me: Maybe I trigger your inner Hulk accidentally and when I realized you would be in my city ready to kill me

Her: Maybe

Watch out

Me: So, what don't I have to do? 😹😹 <--- Never ask a chick what you need to do. You have to lead her and set the frame, if you want things to turn out the way that you want them to. This is also your 1st question.

Her: I'll let you know

You have 3 shots before you die

After I tell you

Me: I'll pray for your boyfriend (Trying to find out if she has a boyfriend) <--- Nice way to screen her, for if she has a boyfriend. However sometimes..it may bite you in the ass, if she really does have a boyfriend. Because it may make things awkward for her, to try to escalate things with you, if she's reminded that she has a man at home. It could also make you hesitate, on escalating things further with her, if you knew that she had a boyfriend. So for me..i just wouldn't even mention anything, about her having a boyfriend. 

Her: I don't have one

You can rest

Me: By the way, I wonder how does living in Casablanca feels like (I changed topic, persisting on whether she had boyfriend might seem suspicious)

Her: Feels normal

And stressful

Me: Stressful? <--- Your 2nd question

Her: Living in a big city is always stressful

Me: Specially the melodic sound of the cars and the majestic crowded streets 😹😹 (Making humor about something that she would indentify quickly)

Her: Hhhh

Yap

Me: It's never late to move to the desert 😎😎

Her: Hhhhh lool

Me: It seems that you would move there

Her: Where

Me: To the desert

Her: I would love too <--- After she said "I would love too", you could've went into some role playing about, you and her living life together as a desert couple. And then the both of you form a civilization out of nowhere. Girls like to role-play, trust me. They also like to use their imagination as well (Why do you think that, women like to read romance novels? It's because they like to fantasize). There was alot more that you could've done with this, because she opened the door for you to do more with it (escalation window). Plus it would've made this interaction, go into a more sexual direction. Making it a little less platonic, than what it was before. But you missed out on that opportunity.

Wifi

And a salary <--- See! She gave you an opening here, for you to go into some kind of role playing with her (She says that she needs wifi, and a salary in the desert. Come on bro, who has wifi and a salary, in a desert ? It's not logical..it's emotional. She's saying that stuff, because she wants to role play that whole scenario out with you).

Me: I didn't expect to find an internet addicted girl here 😹😹 

Her: Seriously

Me: You meant that you are truly addicted? <--- Your 3rd question

Her: No

But to watch series <--- Here you could've teased her a little bit, about binge watching series on the internet.

Me: Good, now I can sleep with both my eyes closed 😁😁

So, series are your addiction? <--- Your 4th question

Her: series and movies

are my escape from reality (Important information about her personality)

Me: By what you told me, you must be the oldest sister in your family

Her: Hhhh

You're smooth af

Dude

No I'm the middle

One older one younger

Me: And...both are brothers? <--- Your 5th question

Her: Girls

Me: Anyways I wonder if you lived the extraordinarly beautiful experience that many older siblings had (Trying to bait her to ask something like: Which experience?)

Her: You lived it then (It failed)

Me: (Un)Fortunately not, but almost every older sibling knows how great does it feel when they let your younger siblings to things that you weren't allowed to 😹😹 (Anyways I kept going)

Where I went wrong? What could I have done better? Thanks, your Comrade, SigmaFox

Actually, you didn't do too much wrong here. And by that i mean..you didn't seem to take much risks. So with that being said..i'll say that this was a pretty "safe and logical" interaction. Again..women are not logical, they are emotional. So you want to be giving them some emotional spikes (teasing..joking around with her..sexual spikes..role playing). Otherwise..she will get bored of the interaction, and it won't go anywhere, because she lost interest in the conversation (like most girls, with ADD nowadays Lol). Girls may tell guys on their profile, that they want a guy who's serious, to talk to. But in reality..they want someone to stimulate them emotionally. And i saw that you was trying to ask some of your questions, in the form of statements (when you started it off with "I wonder"..or "It seems")..which is good. Keep doing that. But you also asked her questions 5 other times too. You probably weren't even aware that you asked her that many questions. Questions are good to ask the girl, if you want to know her logistics ("What do you do for a living?" "Where are you from?"). But your questions can also hint to the girl, that the conversation is dulling out. Because questions give the impression, or implication, that you don't have much to talk about..which is why you are asking (or forcing her to answer) alot of questions. Which will also make her feel like..that the two of you, don't have much of a connection/chemistry with each other (which is not really true). It's just how she will perceive it. So eventually she'll get bored, and move on to some other guy, that "she feels" like she does have that connection/chemistry with. So try to keep questions to a minimum..make more statements..and try to hit her more on an emotional level (as opposed to, hitting her on a logical level).




I said this before..i'm not the best at online game, because i haven't done it in a long time (but i've just started doing it again recently..because of the restrictions and all of that stuff). So most of you guys, are better at it than i am. But i do know the fundamentals of game..that can also be applied to online game as well.



-G