She showed no interest and said she had a fiance
Apr 3, 2021 0:55:48 GMT
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Post by curtis72 on Apr 3, 2021 0:55:48 GMT
So I'm walking home and it's Friday afternoon. I'm passing through the street and see a public table with a girl sat down, who has a glass of wine in front of her who we'll call Ginger
Me: Hey, I rate that you're starting on the wine this early
Ginger: No, lol this is my friend's. I'm a beer drinker myself
she pulls out beer
Me: Ah nice me too, generally what ladsladslads like me drink, I wouldn't have you down as a beer drinker
Ginger: Yeah, it's great stuff.
Me: Are you drinking alone or have your friends deserted you?
Ginger: Haha no, they've just gone to the shops to get some booze
Me: Am I alright to sit down here?
Ginger: Yeah sure
I sit opposite her. I normally sit next to girls on dates and stuff if the set up allows, but I feel it's best to be a tad more cautious in day game in the first few steps. Particularly as they're make or break and there's plenty of time to escalate later
We chat for a < five minutes before her friends arrive but in the mean time, she mentions that she's going to be meeting some more people in the park for a gathering and invites me along. Her two friends arrive, from what I can pick out they're both single by the conversation. It's typical girl's conversation; "I hate this feature about myself." "No don't worry, I wish my feature was like that", generally complimenting and fishing for compliments, which I'm happy to give and they all approve of me. Things are going well, the conversation turns to Welsh politics as the three of them are doing politics Post Graduate degrees and of the girls is Welsh. I live with a Welsh guy who's into politics so just regurgitate his take when I'm asked on it. Before the girl who asked me the question has a chance to respond, one of the girls (the third of them, who we'll call Scandinavian) says I have nice hair. I say "Thanks" and tell her she's pretty herself. Shortly after, the other two girls don't know that the first girl who invited me along to the gathering in the park. I agree to go and we pick up some booze. As we sit back down, Scandinavian asks if I need the toilet, we head to the unisex toilet and I figure she's kinda interested.
Scandinavian is obviously at the gathering of 40 people. So I pretend to act social, shaking guys' hands, flirting with girls. I generally aim to kinda compliment blokes and puff them up, as it's more likely they'll help me out on the pull. It's why I'm generally against cocky-funny, because if you're cocky-funny with girls they may expect you to take that attitude with everyone which will often cockblock you, as some people will just think you're a cock. Naturally with girls, I'll just flirt with. Scandinavian seems interested in a guy but he isn't up to much in terms of taking things further (honestly, I should have escalated with her sooner, but I don't like to do it with her friends in the day). When she gets bored of him tell her I'm cold and she puts her arms around me and cuddles me. The three girls are conversing, and I find out Ginger has a fiance lol. Things go on, I later take her away for a bit go for the kiss close and then we hang around teasing and flirting at the meeting in the park. I then ask if she fancies getting a taxi back to mine, she agrees. The rest is up to your imagination.
In all honesty my game wasn't great and she helped facilitate things, but I'm not massively concerned about that in this case as it's been a while and I still got a result. A couple of things I found interesting;
1) It's much easier to win the approval of a girls' group than you may think
2) Even if the girl you approach is unavailable what's the worst that can happen? In my case she was, I met a load of new people, had a good night and I still got the result.
This is my first lay report and I have dyslexia, so it may be a bit clumsy, but feel free to ask any questions.
Me: Hey, I rate that you're starting on the wine this early
Ginger: No, lol this is my friend's. I'm a beer drinker myself
she pulls out beer
Me: Ah nice me too, generally what ladsladslads like me drink, I wouldn't have you down as a beer drinker
Ginger: Yeah, it's great stuff.
Me: Are you drinking alone or have your friends deserted you?
Ginger: Haha no, they've just gone to the shops to get some booze
Me: Am I alright to sit down here?
Ginger: Yeah sure
I sit opposite her. I normally sit next to girls on dates and stuff if the set up allows, but I feel it's best to be a tad more cautious in day game in the first few steps. Particularly as they're make or break and there's plenty of time to escalate later
We chat for a < five minutes before her friends arrive but in the mean time, she mentions that she's going to be meeting some more people in the park for a gathering and invites me along. Her two friends arrive, from what I can pick out they're both single by the conversation. It's typical girl's conversation; "I hate this feature about myself." "No don't worry, I wish my feature was like that", generally complimenting and fishing for compliments, which I'm happy to give and they all approve of me. Things are going well, the conversation turns to Welsh politics as the three of them are doing politics Post Graduate degrees and of the girls is Welsh. I live with a Welsh guy who's into politics so just regurgitate his take when I'm asked on it. Before the girl who asked me the question has a chance to respond, one of the girls (the third of them, who we'll call Scandinavian) says I have nice hair. I say "Thanks" and tell her she's pretty herself. Shortly after, the other two girls don't know that the first girl who invited me along to the gathering in the park. I agree to go and we pick up some booze. As we sit back down, Scandinavian asks if I need the toilet, we head to the unisex toilet and I figure she's kinda interested.
Scandinavian is obviously at the gathering of 40 people. So I pretend to act social, shaking guys' hands, flirting with girls. I generally aim to kinda compliment blokes and puff them up, as it's more likely they'll help me out on the pull. It's why I'm generally against cocky-funny, because if you're cocky-funny with girls they may expect you to take that attitude with everyone which will often cockblock you, as some people will just think you're a cock. Naturally with girls, I'll just flirt with. Scandinavian seems interested in a guy but he isn't up to much in terms of taking things further (honestly, I should have escalated with her sooner, but I don't like to do it with her friends in the day). When she gets bored of him tell her I'm cold and she puts her arms around me and cuddles me. The three girls are conversing, and I find out Ginger has a fiance lol. Things go on, I later take her away for a bit go for the kiss close and then we hang around teasing and flirting at the meeting in the park. I then ask if she fancies getting a taxi back to mine, she agrees. The rest is up to your imagination.
In all honesty my game wasn't great and she helped facilitate things, but I'm not massively concerned about that in this case as it's been a while and I still got a result. A couple of things I found interesting;
1) It's much easier to win the approval of a girls' group than you may think
2) Even if the girl you approach is unavailable what's the worst that can happen? In my case she was, I met a load of new people, had a good night and I still got the result.
This is my first lay report and I have dyslexia, so it may be a bit clumsy, but feel free to ask any questions.
