How to express sexuality

[G-host]

How could i better lead the conversation into a sexual place without being uncomfortable becuse something in me tells me that theres a fine line between conveying it in a natural way, and being a creep and/or that i only think about sex?

[G-host]

Maybe by flirting? Google tells me that flirting means "behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions." How do i get more serious about it? Just straight up tell her that you are not looking for a relationship but want to have fun and make love? Theres gotta be a better tactic than this 

[G-host]

I found a great answer in a book named Female mind control handbook. Theres alot good stuff on seduction and heres how it answers my question -

Harness her attraction

Men often take the lead when it comes to the
sexual side of a relationship because they
think being overly assertive is the way to win
women’s hearts.
The truth is, if you push her beyond her
comfort zone, you’re actually putting her in
the driver’s seat. As soon as she says no to
you, the power balance has shifted in a way
that may be impossible to repair. Because
now she’s acting as a gatekeeper which means
you’re on the outside, looking in.
Stay out of this minefield. Instead, be the one
in the relationship who is holding back. Don’t
push her for sex too early in the game.
Think of it this way: have you ever heard a
woman complaining about a guy not wanting
to get in her pants? Of course not. Most
women say “men only want one thing”.
The truth is, even though they may not respect
men who hound them for sex, women love to be
desired. It’s an important part of their self image
and how they see themselves in the world. By
flipping the script on this typical dynamic,
you’re taking the power position. It just takes
a little restraint and suddenly you’re the one
calling the shots, not her.

[G-host]

It gets better, with "the secret language"

Tip one is to look at a womans lips when shes talking to you...
but only for 2 seconds at a time...
and no more than 8 seconds apart

By staring at one of her most intimate body parts,
you will flood her brain with seductive ideas

Tip two is to touch a girl whenever she laughs...
by touching a girl WHILE shes laughing or smiling,
you are forcing her to mentally associate your touch
with feelings of fun and excitement.

[G-host]

I read in another thread something one of the moderators said, that theres a difference between “showing interest” and “acting like a scary creeper.”

[Wacker]

Something that ive done on dates is to walk backwards and look at their eyes while talking. Eyes /lips whatever. It also helps to let me lead them and also turn my back allowing for them to catch up/chase(like in an instant date). I dont do it for a very long. Maybe for 5-10 steps.

Another thing il do is while im walking side by side with her. I walk close enough for the outward parts of our arms to rub against eachother while walking. It helps test that physical touch barrier. Dont do it as one constant movement. Break off after a few seconds and do it again minutes later. Could be 20 minutes. Could be 2 minutes. The second time or third time you do it have the back of your hands to touch. It can be a really easy transition into hand holding.

[GFRESH2DEF]

Nov 7, 2021 16:47:32 GMT Wacker said:

Something that ive done on dates is to walk backwards and look at their eyes while talking. Eyes /lips whatever. It also helps to let me lead them and also turn my back allowing for them to catch up/chase(like in an instant date). I dont do it for a very long. Maybe for 5-10 steps.

Another thing il do is while im walking side by side with her. I walk close enough for the outward parts of our arms to rub against eachother while walking. It helps test that physical touch barrier. Dont do it as one constant movement. Break off after a few seconds and do it again minutes later. Could be 20 minutes. Could be 2 minutes. The second time or third time you do it have the back of your hands to touch. It can be a really easy transition into hand holding.

I like Wacker's comment here. Because these are subtle sexual spikes, that you can do. And they do work! Because you want to get the girl aroused, without triggering her ASD. And what Wacker said here..is a really good way, to do just that. And at the same time..it is a good way to test (gauge) her compliance. If she complies with it (meaning if..she doesn't pull back, or get defensive..and she's basically allowing you to do that to her)..then that is a sign, that you can move up to the next rung..of the sexual escalation ladder. But if she does get defensive or pulls back..you can just stop doing that for a bit. And try it on her again, a little bit later. To see if her buying temperature has gone up. If she allows it this time..then it means that her sexual buying temperature has gone up. And now..you can move up, to the next level, of the sexual escalation ladder.



-G

[GFRESH2DEF]

Oct 27, 2021 14:55:13 GMT G-host said:

It gets better, with "the secret language"

Tip one is to look at a womans lips when shes talking to you...
but only for 2 seconds at a time...
and no more than 8 seconds apart

By staring at one of her most intimate body parts,
you will flood her brain with seductive ideas

Tip two is to touch a girl whenever she laughs...
by touching a girl WHILE shes laughing or smiling,
you are forcing her to mentally associate your touch
with feelings of fun and excitement.

This is good advice too OP.



For you guys, who want practical techniques..for how to seduce a woman, while in set. Here it is..right here!



-G