Pick up Forums

[slimshady83]

I'm doing multiple things atm... Don't have time to write much

I'm just wondering really quick, what ever happend too all the pick up forums? 

I mean I know some got taken down changed over etc

But I'm here in Sydney Aus and I'm trying to find local forums in the hope to meet some local wings to go out again

2022 and I'm looking to build an empire and getting back out there

Anyone know any Sydney Aus Forums? 

[JackZero]

There’s really no money in pickup anymore. Most sites can’t sell their courses, through forums.

[pilgrimmeister]

Over thr the last few years things have changed, with the rise in online and tinder dating being the norm, to some extent in many areas that approaching women on the street is seen is a big taboo and weird. With that, the amount of guys doing pickup has gone and is slowly becoming a lost art.

I know a few social groups who even have rules that sexual implied approaches are banned and that they should use dating websites and tinder for that kind of thing.



So pick up forums and classes do not gain much interest these days.

[Wacker]

Which means less competition 😈 Lol. But for real. Ive talked to some of my friends from highschool and they cant believe the stories ive made with women throughout 2021. Especially with there being covid. The majority of people believe that its impolite and cringy to cold approach women throughout the day. But its the complete opposite. A woman loves to be swept off her feet during the day. As long as you are able to pick up on the social cues it wont be cringy. It will be romantic. But hey... People can use "covid" and the word "cringe" as an excuse to not approach. Im not complaining. Makes it easier for me. Makes me stand out from all the normies in the world who dont deserve to meet that girl standing next to the yogurt at walmart.

[Wacker]

Another thing i forgot to bring up. I believe nowadays. There is a huge amount of men spending money towards virtual girlfriends/e girls. The red pill and black pill are more common than they ever were. I keep meeting men who have said to my face that they have completely given up. They say "Im pretty done with dating and trying to meet the girl of my dreams. if it happens... it will happen. But im not going to get stressed out over it anymore." I know im still young but i see so many people with relationship problems and when i ask them where they are going to date, they say "i have tinder, and i go to the clubs sometimes." And when they say sometimes. Its like once a month. Like wtf, no wonder.

Do you guys find that youre meeting more and more men who have just given up?

[pilgrimmeister]

Jan 4, 2022 12:12:19 GMT Wacker said:

Another thing i forgot to bring up. I believe nowadays. There is a huge amount of men spending money towards virtual girlfriends/e girls. The red pill and black pill are more common than they ever were. I keep meeting men who have said to my face that they have completely given up. They say "Im pretty done with dating and trying to meet the girl of my dreams. if it happens... it will happen. But im not going to get stressed out over it anymore." I know im still young but i see so many people with relationship problems and when i ask them where they are going to date, they say "i have tinder, and i go to the clubs sometimes." And when they say sometimes. Its like once a month. Like wtf, no wonder.

Do you guys find that youre meeting more and more men who have just given up?

Many have. For me at least, when I go out, I always make it a point to put a smile on a girls face and make them laugh, no matter where and when. But it's always calibrated and never with the sole intention of getting a lay that day. That said, if they are enjoing my company, then things can progress from there. I often have hot female visistors around to mine for an evening of fun just from being the way I am. However, for me to commit and go all in, they need to be the complete package, and I haven't found that yet. I have had same day lays before where the logistics are right and the spark was instant, but most often that is not the case. 

Some men have given up completely, but they are usually the ones without a social life. 

As with those social groups I spoke about, despite some of their "rules", hookups etc happen on their own accord. What they don't want is creepy deperate guys joining the group just to harras the women. NYE was fun for me, one of the girls was very open for rounding the night off back at hers. 

[slimshady83]

Fair point guys ...

I'll be posting on here again once I start going out again, was hoping to go out this wknd, but busy AF ATM...

Things will be calming down soon and can't wait as I'm done with ONLINE GAME too many single mums (not what I want long term) and too many girls who don't reply even when you say something funny I'm over ONLINE

Time to get back out there again

Will be starting a Journal on here to get back into things a bit.

Going to be rusty as though LOL

[TheWhiteTiger]

I'll chime in here and say that on the whole, this echoes true.

There's a lot of guys who have given up or are feeling like dating is less fun and more of a minefield (which it kind of is).
Honestly, with a global pandemic having swept the world, and the constant feeling of major bad historical events happening, I can't say it's unexpected.

There's also a major shift in what it means to be a man, and while I think there are some good changes that are happening, there is an overall shift from when the "right kind of person to be" was a successful man, to it now being a successful woman.

Personally, I think if these forums were mainly a staging point for selling products (and in all honesty, I've seen good products, and I've seen "companies" that are run by absolute creeps/sexual assailants) it's OUR responsibility to reconstruct them as a place to really encourage guys to go and find whatever it is they want out of their romantic lives.