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Post by Seducer237 on Jan 16, 2022 5:51:55 GMT
Hey there,
So I've started chatting with an adult film star on Twitter and she has got around a 100k followers. We basically talk about her new year resolutions and all that BS.
However, I want to take things further and make myself stand out from the rest of the guys that she keeps chatting with. I've no idea as to how do I get her to see that...
She's an adult film star so obviously she's used to guys hitting on her constantly and I know that if she even gets a whiff of my intentions(sleeping with her) beforehand, I'll be friend-zoned.
Any ideas are welcome...
P.S. Most of the routines won't be useful as she told me before she's already read The Game and is tired of guys trying to pick her up using the same-old routines.
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 16, 2022 11:16:58 GMT
Have you never done online dating? Any women who aren’t behemoths are also inundated with messages too. If you have luck with online, talk to her the same way. Personally, the best advice I can give with online is just talk the same you would irl but not being afraid to defy convention, be freer risky/offensive as you don’t have to worry about awkward pauses. Otherwise, I’d just invite her for a ”Drinks at 1900 in Bar X”. Overthinking will just lead to a higher chance of rejection. Good luck!
Also, I’d stay away from routines online unless it’s the opener to catch attention
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Jan 16, 2022 12:09:19 GMT
Be Original and fun, but I wouldn't even bother to be honest. If you are one of her "Followers", to her, you are one of "them".
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Post by JackZero on Jan 16, 2022 20:09:17 GMT
Wait...wait...wait.
An adult film star with 100k followers has taken the time to speak with you about random BS conversations? There is some missing information here. How did you end up standing out from however many followers that probably contact her on a daily basis? You couldn't be like every other guy, at this point, if she is having conversations with you. There isn't enough time in the world for her to be doing that with everyone that follows her.
You need to provide a bit more detail in how you got to the point that you're at in order to get an appropriate response for your specific situation.
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 16, 2022 20:42:07 GMT
Jack, you’d be surprised at how many famous people respond to mundane comments.
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Post by JackZero on Jan 16, 2022 21:31:39 GMT
Jack, you’d be surprised at how many famous people respond to mundane comments. Probably. It's just that this one seems that there is an actual back an forth conversation. I would lean to what pilgrim pointed out as him being just another one of "them" if she responded to just one comment about a new years resolution. If there is regular conversation, there has to be a reason because of it. I'm not saying that the reason implies that he has more of a chance...I just want to know what her motive is for responding. |
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Post by Seducer237 on Jan 18, 2022 9:55:52 GMT
Wait...wait...wait. An adult film star with 100k followers has taken the time to speak with you about random BS conversations? There is some missing information here. How did you end up standing out from however many followers that probably contact her on a daily basis? You couldn't be like every other guy, at this point, if she is having conversations with you. There isn't enough time in the world for her to be doing that with everyone that follows her. You need to provide a bit more detail in how you got to the point that you're at in order to get an appropriate response for your specific situation. She has got a new year resolution to read 26 books this year (1 every couple of weeks). She's already read 3 by now so I tagged her in a post on Twitter and asked her to read one I had read already. I think she must have bcoz I got a reply from her saying it seems to be a good book and thanks for suggesting it (it's just her being polite to me). So, I told her straightaway that she must get a lot of messages like these from guys and why she replied me? This was a big mistake obviously as I too was surprised she had replied to me but I didn't see it at the time as I asked why she was talking to me and indirectly providing her high value. She said "Idk... ".I said to her " You're quite a nerd to read 3 books in 2 weeks but I bet a lot of people don't see you that way, you're just a sex symbol for them". I was afraid I was being rude but she said "I like my work and people seeing me that way is a part of it". We haven't talked since and that was 3 days ago. I'm pretty tired of this plain talk as it isn't going anywhere and I don't what to do now... I know I acted pretty much like an AFC at the start but to be frank I'm not a pro(yet) so..... |
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Post by JackZero on Jan 18, 2022 19:36:37 GMT
Now I'm all in with Pilgrim. You caught her attention with offering her a book and like Curtis mentioned said, "...you’d be surprised at how many famous people respond to mundane comments." Her response to her just being a symbol for a lot of people, I felt was defensive by her and basically saying "I like my job and f*** everyone else's judgement." I was hoping that there was more to the story that justified going further.
Sure, you could have tried to piggyback off of it, but why put in the effort? AFC or pro, it isn't worth it. She's a pornstar and probably is a distance from your everyday travel plans. I guarantee you, there are girls equally as hot in your area that you won't have to waste time pursuing and fantasizing about.
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 19, 2022 3:30:32 GMT
Now I'm all in with Pilgrim. You caught her attention with offering her a book and like Curtis mentioned said, "...you’d be surprised at how many famous people respond to mundane comments." Her response to her just being a symbol for a lot of people, I felt was defensive by her and basically saying "I like my job and f*** everyone else's judgement." I was hoping that there was more to the story that justified going further. Sure, you could have tried to piggyback off of it, but why put in the effort? AFC or pro, it isn't worth it. She's a pornstar and probably is a distance from your everyday travel plans. I guarantee you, there are girls equally as hot in your area that you won't have to waste time pursuing and fantasizing about. I’d cross heaven and Earth to bang a celeb, as long as they weren’t especially old or fat. I can see the appeal, even if you see better girls out and about |
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Post by pilgrimmeister on Jan 19, 2022 19:50:09 GMT
Now I'm all in with Pilgrim. You caught her attention with offering her a book and like Curtis mentioned said, "...you’d be surprised at how many famous people respond to mundane comments." Her response to her just being a symbol for a lot of people, I felt was defensive by her and basically saying "I like my job and f*** everyone else's judgement." I was hoping that there was more to the story that justified going further. Sure, you could have tried to piggyback off of it, but why put in the effort? AFC or pro, it isn't worth it. She's a pornstar and probably is a distance from your everyday travel plans. I guarantee you, there are girls equally as hot in your area that you won't have to waste time pursuing and fantasizing about. I’d cross heaven and Earth to bang a celeb, as long as they weren’t especially old or fat. I can see the appeal, even if you see better girls out and about Nobody is saying it can't be done. However, in my opinion, despite the rise of dating sites, which is just like an argos catalog with people in it, is that the only sure way to get a connection and calibrate with women of high social status is out in the field, where a bunch of tools including body langauge, vibe, calibration humour and looks/presntation can dial into the right woman, despite their social status. So, if I bump into a celebrity out in the open, to the point where I am in the position to share my vibe then I will do, but she would be treated no different than any other encounter. Point being you cannot display skills with body language and vibe online. A pornstar or celebirty will only be entertaining online for one reason, and that is money. These women will see so much cock, they can typically chose who their partner is out of those they already meet IRL. Infact, I am instructing a class, including Mirroring and Matching techniques tomorrow. |
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