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Shy Girl
Feb 4, 2022 15:32:17 GMT
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Post by Seducer237 on Feb 4, 2022 15:32:17 GMT
So, I've started texting a grad student that I've matched with on tinder. But this girl's incredibly shy and very slow to open up. How do I escalate further?
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Post by JackZero on Feb 4, 2022 16:43:58 GMT
Are you saying that you're having a hard time because you can't read where you stand with her or is it because of some other reason?
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Shy Girl
Feb 9, 2022 3:25:19 GMT
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Post by Seducer237 on Feb 9, 2022 3:25:19 GMT
Are you saying that you're having a hard time because you can't read where you stand with her or is it because of some other reason? I was having a hard time as to what to say, here's how it went... Me:Are you creative? Shygirl:Creative? In what aspect? Me:I have a girl messaging me and I don't know how to tell her it's not going to work out between us. Any ideas? Shygirl:Haha, just tell her how you feel. Me:Whoa, you're mean. I now think the last one was a bit of an overkill as she stopped texting after that. What could I have done better? I know I wasn't good and I need to improve, any feedback would be appreciated..
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Post by JackZero on Feb 9, 2022 3:48:06 GMT
The point of tinder is to meet. Ask her if she's ever been on a date from tinder. If she answer's "no", ask her why not? Her answer isn't what's important, you just need to imply that you want to meet her in person. If she says "yes", then tell her you want to be her next few tinder dates. Then you work it from there. The point of this is not to get her to say yes to a date at that moment, but instead to plant the seed of the date. This way she'll know the direction that you want to go instead of you small talking her for too long causing her to lose interest.
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 6, 2023 14:16:12 GMT
Got it, man. Slow and steady wins the race. Respect her pace, be patient. Show genuine interest, share stuff about yourself. Build trust, then suggest a low-key hangout. Make her comfortable, no pressure.
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