Post by TheWhiteTiger on Apr 11, 2022 3:07:05 GMT
Chatting on OkCupid to another gal. We had a pretty slow conversation but I managed to sneak in a few lines that made her laugh to make sure we're not in "interview mode"
e.g.
Me: What kind of adventures are you up to this weekend?
Her: going to spend time with friends this weekend
you?
Me: Was out with a friend too, now gonna watch a movie
Do you miss traveling? I'm dying to go traveling soon
Her: yes i do
Covid ruined everything
Me: I had plans to fly to Japan
Her: me too!
Japan is still in lockdown till now
Me: clearly that should be our first date
Her: lol that be a big one
we gotta get to know eachother first, dude
Me: You're right, we should start with a coffee date first. What if you're a secret spy and will try to assassinate me on the flight?
So we kept talking a bit and then I asked to exchange numbers, and she hits me with this:
Her: before i give you that
i just want to be upfront with you that i am looking for friendship at this time
i just came out of a 7 year relationship
and i need some time for myself to adjust, so seeking for friendship at this time before i can seek for something committed and serious
let me know if that is what you are looking for, before we exchange contact details
Does this sound like I'm out of the game before I even started?
e.g.
Me: What kind of adventures are you up to this weekend?
Her: going to spend time with friends this weekend
you?
Me: Was out with a friend too, now gonna watch a movie
Do you miss traveling? I'm dying to go traveling soon
Her: yes i do
Covid ruined everything
Me: I had plans to fly to Japan
Her: me too!
Japan is still in lockdown till now
Me: clearly that should be our first date
Her: lol that be a big one
we gotta get to know eachother first, dude
Me: You're right, we should start with a coffee date first. What if you're a secret spy and will try to assassinate me on the flight?
So we kept talking a bit and then I asked to exchange numbers, and she hits me with this:
Her: before i give you that
i just want to be upfront with you that i am looking for friendship at this time
i just came out of a 7 year relationship
and i need some time for myself to adjust, so seeking for friendship at this time before i can seek for something committed and serious
let me know if that is what you are looking for, before we exchange contact details
Does this sound like I'm out of the game before I even started?
