Is meeting a girl in a lingerie store off limits?

[Wacker]

So. Like i said in the past. Ive been having a hard time meeting women during the day. But. A place i do always see women are in lingerie stores(at the mall). But i always thought that it would be off limits.

Have you guys ever done this before?

[TheWhiteTiger]

Apr 28, 2022 0:40:28 GMT Wacker said:

But i always thought that it would be off limits.

I'll start with a throat clearing that I am what you might call a recovering AFC, but I'd encourage you to not think of most places as "off limits" (there are some that would fall into that category).

Think of places as being on a spectrum of difficulty, and on a spectrum of techniques.

For your question, lingerie stores would be more difficult, and also the approach would be different than, say, a park. But is it impossible? no, there's probably guys out there that can do it. Would that be my first choice? Also no.

Apr 28, 2022 0:40:28 GMT Wacker said:

Ive been having a hard time meeting women during the day. 

A hard time how? If the issue is finding women... literally any other store in the mall, a cafe, or the local park would probably have better odds.

If the issue is approaching/opening/closing, I'm not sure what part of being a guy in a lingerie store you think this would help.


I'm not trying to be mean spirited, but can you provide more context about the thought process of why lingerie store vs a grocery store?

[Wacker]

Last saturday. I went to the mall and im not kidding. I only saw one girl and she was in a lingerie store. And it got me thinking. I guess i havnt approached any girls in the mall that are their shopping for female clothings. Whether its lingerie or tshirts in just female stores.

[TheWhiteTiger]

Apr 28, 2022 13:25:39 GMT Wacker said:

Last saturday. I went to the mall and im not kidding. I only saw one girl and she was in a lingerie store. And it got me thinking. I guess i havnt approached any girls in the mall that are their shopping for female clothings. Whether its lingerie or tshirts in just female stores.

One woman... in the entire mall?

Ok are there any coffee shops near the mall? or near your place?
I'm trying to understand the situation. May I ask what's the population of your town/city?

EDIT: In any event, like I said, I think it's pretty high up there in terms of difficulty. Not impossible, but if you're just wanting to practice approaching that is the wrong place entirely

[Wacker]

I dont need to practice. I just need more opportunities. That was only really my 3rd day of purposely going out to meet women. Im just going to force myself to start approaching more 2sest during the day

[TheWhiteTiger]

Sounds like a reasonable solution

[slimshady83]

To the OP...

When I use to go out 4-5 days a week back in the day, I approached any where and every where - there are no rules/guidelines.

How ever If you're going to approach girls in this situation - I highly recommend going "SUPER DIRECT" on the girl - don't go indirect by saying you need help buying for your mum/female friend etc

Go straight up to them, tell you were just walking past and thought she was "fucking gorgeous" and had to come say Hi and introduce yourself - no beating around the bush in these situations.

Edit: Also depending on the situation, you need to make your point try and get her number, take her out that night etc Get in and get out as soon as you can, as they're normally busy or not keen for longtalks (not all but some) just want to go about their business 

[cooker]

I kinda get OP's logic - go to a place where most females are = more game. And as others have written here, any place should work to some degree... IMO it depends also on the objectives: if you are just looking for females to pickup, whatever the age, lifestyle etc, any place is game.

Some 2 cents on how you may pull this:

- make an obvious entrance to the store to show you are alone. Majority of guys wondering in a lingerie store are with their SO, so if you approach a girl, she will think your girlfriend may be around... doesnt help.
- just being alone in a female lingerie store can give a creep vibe. You need to be REALLY good in your game.
- may be easier to get the number of the store assistant than of a customer (most likely she will be curious/thinking of a sale, makes it easier to go around the bitch shield)
- try to make rounds on different times of day and week (more variety of females, and the store assistants wont call security ahah)
- its a mall, so people go slow around - dont forget to give a time constrain really early on the approach, so they dont think some guy will follow them around the mall. Preferably something outside the mall.
- asking for suggestion etc is a cliche, but could be a modest opening. But why not be creative and defuse that opening as a opening? Something like "I wanted to get an excuse to talk with you /hear what your voice sounds like, but only I can think of those cheesy pickup lines to ask for help choosing a lingerie... its so bad really/lol/laughs"

Good luck! Did you get any bites yet?

[G-host]

This brought up a memory of mine i wish to tell.. So i was in a store for clothes and saw this beautiful young woman working there by the cash desk. I noticed wse had a thing ive been minding. The back of her bra was in something i couldnt translate into english but i shall post a photo so yall can see what i mean

Any way, i asked whats it is called and if i coul see it. So she turned around and i think she held her hair up so i could have a better view. When she did that, i felt my hand reaching forward, almost toughing. It could have been seen as creapy but this time, i felt a good vibe between us, its was kind of hot. You know like, just enough for being at a place with others. We kind of knew we were about to be a little dirty in public but at the same time was kind of innocent  

Days later i was back, with my mom and haha, i saw these panties for women. Sexy underwear made of that material. If it wasnt for my mom, i would have done something with them. Or mabe just standing there for a minute extra. Maybe even cast one look at that girls direction. She would have noticed becuse what we had was secutive, enchanted even  

Correction.. The lace material was black. 

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[G-host]

And i resently discovered that my mom is cool and a top seductress (for her son) becuse my whole family gathered for indian food. And, there where alot of beautiful women but we were given the most beatiful girl, in my opinion. You know what she did? She asked me for a peace of bread just as that waitress looked at us. It made me think. Its like my family were letting her know that i provide food (caveman attitude).. and i have people that love me. She was really charming and had a good timing and we felt in synk.

So for the sake of this tread i will say - if it feels right..then pleace, go ahead!

Oh and haha when we had eaten and started to stand up and exit. I was first to get up and i turned my body towards that lovely woman and my head, to the left.. looking at my loved ones. It was as if i wasnt turned to her but the rest of my body language where telling her that, "i see you".

[G-host]

I even held the door for everyone.. dont know if she saw it or not but the experience was that in this context, it would have been very charming and polite. But, i didnt entirely do it to impress this worker thou, im like that anyway so it came naturaly to me.

[G-host]

Apr 28, 2022 0:40:28 GMT Wacker said:

So. Like i said in the past. Ive been having a hard time meeting women during the day. But. A place i do always see women are in lingerie stores(at the mall). But i always thought that it would be off limits.

Have you guys ever done this before?

The problem i think is that you have to have, some excuse to be in suck a "womens place". Or, try the direct method. Go straith to your target and tell her you just had to come up and meet her