Post by TheWhiteTiger on Oct 9, 2022 19:15:19 GMT
This FR will be much shorter than my previous ones since there isn't much PUA related stuff to include here
I went on a 2nd date with a girl I met from online, we've been talking for a while while I was away on a business trip in another city, but now that I'm back we set up a date to walk her dog together.
I decided to surprise her on that date since she was working overtime way too much, so I bought her her favorite cake for that date, which she appreciated a lot. We talked about each other, getting to know each other, very basic comfort building.
There are really two noteworthy (for this forum) moments on that date.
One was when I realized I might be becoming too nice to her since my nature is to compliment, so I decided I needed a neg. Luckily, there was a neg ready at hand that was befitting her particular situation, she has a VERY slight overbite, so I used Style's "I know this is wrong to say, but I grew up on Bugs Bunny cartoons, and you have the cutest Bugs overbite". I watched a recent(ish) video of Mystery where he said that the way you know a neg works is if the reaction is a laughter (a genuine one, not a nervous one). This was indeed the reaction seen, so I know this hit the spot. I also did that so I can break through my own habit of playing things safe and going on dates sometimes without having done anything productive in that date that helps ME grow.
Second noteworthy moment was when I walked her to her car. She asked for a hug so I gave her a hug and then lifted her in that hug position. She liked that, so I put her down, and just picked her up by her back and knees to carry her (like you'd carry a kid) from the passenger side of the car (where she put her dog) to the driver's door. She really enjoyed that and then wanted another hug.
This isn't any particular PUA idea, but if you get that a girl is comfortable and you can demonstrate strength (and I am BY FAR not terribly strong), it can be a very strong aphrodisiac. While there's pre-build "techniques" out there, I think one key point is to always play with your strengths, whatever they might be.
I went on a 2nd date with a girl I met from online, we've been talking for a while while I was away on a business trip in another city, but now that I'm back we set up a date to walk her dog together.
I decided to surprise her on that date since she was working overtime way too much, so I bought her her favorite cake for that date, which she appreciated a lot. We talked about each other, getting to know each other, very basic comfort building.
There are really two noteworthy (for this forum) moments on that date.
One was when I realized I might be becoming too nice to her since my nature is to compliment, so I decided I needed a neg. Luckily, there was a neg ready at hand that was befitting her particular situation, she has a VERY slight overbite, so I used Style's "I know this is wrong to say, but I grew up on Bugs Bunny cartoons, and you have the cutest Bugs overbite". I watched a recent(ish) video of Mystery where he said that the way you know a neg works is if the reaction is a laughter (a genuine one, not a nervous one). This was indeed the reaction seen, so I know this hit the spot. I also did that so I can break through my own habit of playing things safe and going on dates sometimes without having done anything productive in that date that helps ME grow.
Second noteworthy moment was when I walked her to her car. She asked for a hug so I gave her a hug and then lifted her in that hug position. She liked that, so I put her down, and just picked her up by her back and knees to carry her (like you'd carry a kid) from the passenger side of the car (where she put her dog) to the driver's door. She really enjoyed that and then wanted another hug.
This isn't any particular PUA idea, but if you get that a girl is comfortable and you can demonstrate strength (and I am BY FAR not terribly strong), it can be a very strong aphrodisiac. While there's pre-build "techniques" out there, I think one key point is to always play with your strengths, whatever they might be.
