In progress. I need your advice.

[The.White.Officer]

Hello brothers!



I'm on a journey, as always, damn! I met this girl in the lounge of my hotel (4-star hotel, paid for by my company, fuck the world). We were both alone and we started talking. There is a lot of feeling, she is passionate about travel like me, she loves animals and above all she loves opera.

A few days earlier I had booked for a great opera event in one of the most beautiful theaters in the world here in Italy.



In speaking to her, I told her I had a ticket, and she got very excited. I didn't invite her (Mainly because I didn't know if there were any tickets still available). I checked and there are still places.




I will try to invite her.





Any advice in the meantime? Our conversation was very polite, and I didn't use neg or anything else. No kino.

Also consider my little problem with conversations, and if you like to give me some advice.

( mpuaforum.proboards.com/thread/931/problem-conversations )





What do you advise me to do? Consider that I will see her every day for at least another three weeks.




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[JackZero]

I gave you some advice on your conversation post. Buy a bottle of wine and put it in your room. Invite her to the hotel bar for drinks. Follow the advice that I gave you in your other thread. Mention that you bought a bottle of wine that you wanted to try and invite her to your room to join. Teasingly, make her promise to behave herself if you are comfortable saying something like that to her.

When I say invite her...don't say "...would you like to join me?" Say it more like "...come and try it with me."

[The.White.Officer]

Thanks bro!

I am a wine lover and I am Tuscan. I always have a bottle of good red wine in my suitcase!

The show is scheduled for next week, I booked tickets tonight, haven't paid for them yet. So we will go just before to pay and register. (Should I pay?). We are both twenty-year-old workers, we can both afford it, could I pay and ask her to promise a glass of wine or something in return?! (In a playful and flirtatious way).

I have a lot of old friends in town, I could tell her that one of them finally couldn't come, it shows that I have a lot of girls around (Which is also true).

I checked all the way up to the theater and identified a couple of good places to have a drink after the show. I took pictures and marked addresses. I also learned the best route and any nice things to see along the way. There are a couple of 17th century churches open all night! They are very impressive and beautiful.


There are also excellent restaurants, but I don't think I'll invite you to dinner. Too serious for me.

As you see, my organization. I am very attentive to detail, perhaps too much. But I want to know all about where I'm going.

Advice?

[JackZero]

I was going to mention that wine should be something that you (specifically you) is something that you always have on hand because of your job. So that is a good thing you are already ready for that.

My core wants me to tell you not to buy tickets, but I'm guessing that's more who you are as a man. If that is the case, then it's fine to buy them but I don't think you should pretend that someone backed out. If she's learning your personality, you getting it for her will allow for her to feel special and not that you are doing because someone else dropped out. You'll have a lot of people disagree with me on that and believe me, I understand why they would. I do like the idea of having her promise a glass of wine in return.

For me, the rest is a lot for one day unless I have known her for a while (I do get that you guys are in more of a travel vibe though). If that is something that you like to do, by all means do it.

Just remember, like I said in the other thread, this is about you and her together and enjoying the time that you spend with each other. Your goal is to have her enjoy that time with you and everything else is secondary.

[N2thevoid]

Nov 20, 2022 16:18:39 GMT JackZero said:

I gave you some advice on your conversation post. Buy a bottle of wine and put it in your room. Invite her to the hotel bar for drinks. Follow the advice that I gave you in your other thread. Mention that you bought a bottle of wine that you wanted to try and invite her to your room to join. Teasingly, make her promise to behave herself if you are comfortable saying something like that to her.

When I say invite her...don't say "...would you like to join me?" Say it more like "...come and try it with me."

You can lead a horse to ... wine but you can't make him drink it.

[N2thevoid]

Nov 20, 2022 21:05:27 GMT The.White.Officer said:

Thanks bro!

I am a wine lover and I am Tuscan. I always have a bottle of good red wine in my suitcase!

The show is scheduled for next week, I booked tickets tonight, haven't paid for them yet. So we will go just before to pay and register. (Should I pay?). We are both twenty-year-old workers, we can both afford it, could I pay and ask her to promise a glass of wine or something in return?! (In a playful and flirtatious way).

I have a lot of old friends in town, I could tell her that one of them finally couldn't come, it shows that I have a lot of girls around (Which is also true).

I checked all the way up to the theater and identified a couple of good places to have a drink after the show. I took pictures and marked addresses. I also learned the best route and any nice things to see along the way. There are a couple of 17th century churches open all night! They are very impressive and beautiful.


There are also excellent restaurants, but I don't think I'll invite you to dinner. Too serious for me.

As you see, my organization. I am very attentive to detail, perhaps too much. But I want to know all about where I'm going.

Advice?

Do you wear a tweed crested blazer and sport a monocle by any chance? You could perhaps take her for a whimsical ride on your new velocipede if she's inclined.