Post by The.White.Officer on Dec 17, 2022 16:57:45 GMT
Few weeks ago I was in Ushuaia (Argentina), exactly the "end of the world".
Since the first time I arrived in this community many things have changed, thanks to you guys I have improved a lot.
So, now I work for a luxury cruise company in Antarctica and in the most remote places of the world. In fact, for this reason, I found myself in Ushuaia. I was in port and felt like being alone. It was raining outside, and I just wanted to eat something good.
I was in this bar full of crew people and tourists. Of course, I had my table by the window and was able to see my ship as well.
At some point the waitress shows up to take my order. Brothers, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. Long brown hair, tall with a spectacular smile. She came over and took my food order.
As soon as I saw her, I don't know what happened to me, I immediately went into the “you must know this girl” mode.
So I made some jokes about the climate there and how irritable people were in bad weather too. She laughed and patted my shoulder lightly. Promising me that she would hurry up with my food.
A few minutes later, she indeed returned with my plate. Once placed on the table, she asked me, “What are you doing here?” I told her that looking out the window, she could see my “golden prison”. She smiled pointing at the ship, I said, yes exactly that piece of iron hahaha.
I told her she was being very rude for not telling me her name yet, (I exposed myself at the risk of her telling me I hadn't either) but I felt sure she would play along. And so it was. A few minutes later, I discovered that her name was Silvaine. I joked about correct pronunciation and she laughed.
The girl was gorgeous and that's why I didn't want to waste this possibility. So I said to her (in a flirting way) Look there's everyone in the room looking at you, I don't know why, maybe they've all fallen in love with you, or... They're waiting for you.
She smiled and walked off to serve the other customers.
I continued to eat not paying particular attention to what was happening, I was actually reading an art magazine, which was talking about an art exhibition right in my hometown. (I've found that the best way to appear disinterested is to actually be, by doing something that catches your attention.)
After about 25 minutes, I was done eating, but she was no longer in the room. I looked around her and saw her behind the bar counter. Perfect, I thought in my head. I went to pay what was due. Guys Argentina is super cheap huh!
After paying, I walked over to the counter, which was just around the corner from the dining room. She was serving one of my subordinates, nothing better! Among other things, my subordinate is a fantastic 55-year-old Filipino gentleman, a fantastic person who is always smiling, the ideal companion to make a girl laugh!
I approached my sailor from behind, winking at Silvaine, I think he thought I was crazy at the time, however I came closer and closer, ran my hand through his hair and said in a false voice “I'm an amazing Filipinas girl, do you want to meet me?”
He turned around and with a fantastic smile he said to me: "Always joking eh Sir." I smiled and said, one can't be sad in front of such a beautiful girl. I said this looking at Silvaine. Then I lowered my eyes to my colleague and said, don't worry I'm not gay yet, I'm not talking about you.
However, a few minutes later my subordinate greeted me with all due respect and told me that he would inform the master that I was still ashore, I thanked him and greeted him. And finally I was left alone with Silvaine, it was three in the afternoon and there was no one left except a seventy-year-old German couple.
I admit, I joked with Silvaine about how passengers do tons of stupid things. She told me that she works in the bar to pay for university and that she studies economics or something like that.
After about ten minutes of chatting I told her that I had to escape on board, otherwise the ship would have left late, she asked me if I would return to that port in the future and I told her that I would be there the following week. But I told her, I don't know if I'll be able to get off, we officers must always keep our guard, we have a port-manning. I gave her my business card and told her to text me, so I could get her number as well. And that next week I invited you to see my ship because we were going to have an Italian food tasting. She was very happy with the invitation, and she told me that she would let me know.
About two days later I found a WhatsApp message saying like: “hello I'm Silvaine, I hope you haven't already forgotten about me, sailor”
I let about an hour pass before answering, and then I wrote her: “hello, I'm the white officer
who are you, the Brazilian girl or the Portuguese one?! She replied that I was an idiot and that the legends about sailors back then were true, eh
(Obviously joking).I told her that my invitation was still valid, and she answered me soon after that she would be coming, some information on how to dress and how to behave and that was it, she would be coming to the port at 12.20, perfect lunchtime in Italy ahaha.
At 12.30 she hadn't arrived yet, so I decided to go back to the bridge to finish some work, I saw her enter the bridge a few minutes later accompanied by the same sailor she had met a few days before, yes we officers have our sailors on watch so when I work he works too and same thing with breaks, so perfect synchronism.
I told her that she was dressed really well and that she was going to make me look bad, haha. She laughed, she looked very amused.
We went into the saloon with all the passengers, expedition leaders and cooks and ate a ton of pasta. Lasagna, meat sauce, pizza etc...
She and I sat at a secluded table and I started them to do some kino, arm around her neck, then hand behind her back to make her feel how cold it was in her city. After a couple of hours, I invited her up for a glass of wine or coffee in my office.
The nice thing is that the cabin and my office are divided by a door that I had left open so that she could see my room and then feel comfortable after her. I asked her what she wanted to drink and we finally decided to have a glass of cognac. We sat down on the sofa with glasses in hand and she began to speak closely to her about how beautiful the sea was today and how the clouds formed a large mountain, then as I spoke I ran a hand through her hair, looked at her for a few seconds eyes then I approached with my mouth slowly to his, and I stopped for a few moments in front of his. Then kiss her.
She ran her hand through my hair and came closer to me. And.... from that point well guys I'll give you the details, but one of the best sex of my life!
A couple of hours later the waiter came to call me to warn me that the guard was an hour away and that the master had looked for me, so I calmly told Silvaine that if she didn't want to come with me to Antarctica, unfortunately she had to leave, and that we would see each other the following week.
Well today it's been 4 days, so I'll see her again soon, I don't know what will come of this story, but I'm glad I met her.
Lessons learned:
— Never leave with a horny dog mentality, leave as if you don't give a damn, but with an open mind to interesting encounters,
— If you have to show disinterest, do something that interests you more than the girl at that moment,
— Be elegant, not only in the way you dress, but also in the way you speak and behave, you will be more attractive because you will be different from everyone,
— Don't think too much (I learned this right here thanks to you guys)
— Don't use fucking routines, use them only at the beginning and as little as possible, I think your game should be versatile to the situation and very multifaceted.
Bottom line, I've been helped tremendously by the community, and I want to give something back by writing these reports to help new players as well.
We have to be prepared for the hookup, but we don't have to go after the girls (at least that's how it seems). Waiting for the girl that interests us to appear and then using what we know to get to know her.
Women are very intelligent and we have to respect them. The game must serve us to be better prepared. Don't imagine it as a manipulation, otherwise you will never succeed and you will only be frustrated.
Give me feedback and let me know what you think I could have done better / not done?! Always open to criticism, I want to improve