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Post by businesscardbandit on Jan 11, 2023 4:12:06 GMT
So here’s my dilemma. I’m 21 in the USA. Every date that I’ve had in 2021 has led to nothing unless there is a kiss close. So after a lot of rejection last year I decided to get back in the game. I have 3 dates scheduled for this weekend and they are all coffee dates. How do I escalate and kiss close the girls on a 1-2 hour coffee date? And is it wise to kiss close on a coffee date?
It seems like kiss closing on coffee dates is on hard mode. If anyone can give some tips or experiences id appreciate it.
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Post by Wacker on Jan 13, 2023 1:03:28 GMT
Dont stay in the coffee shop for the whole date. Stay for maybe 15 minutes and go for a walk. Its alot easier to break the touch barrier while walking rather than sitting at a table with her.
Be touchy. Not sexually! When u take a turn to go across the street. Put your hand on her shoulder and tell her "let's go this way" and make sure its an open hand. Not a fist.
After doing things like this she will become more comfortable with your touch. And u will also with her physical touch.
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Post by N2thevoid on Jan 25, 2023 9:38:28 GMT
You've created an unrealistic expectation and screwing things up as a result. Focus more on being present rather than any particular outcome,
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Post by curtis72 on Jan 25, 2023 21:24:26 GMT
You've created an unrealistic expectation and screwing things up as a result. Focus more on being present rather than any particular outcome, This is great advice OP. Take particular heed |
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Post by slimshady on May 25, 2023 9:30:21 GMT
You've created an unrealistic expectation and screwing things up as a result. Focus more on being present rather than any particular outcome, This is great advice OP. Take particular heed Yes this x 10 ... Why you trying to kiss close In a coffee shop ?? sounds kind of weird, to me. Try taking them for a walk or a bar or something etc coffee shops aren't for making out  but much respect for trying |
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Post by N2thevoid on May 28, 2023 15:16:33 GMT
Reminds me of the sorta guy who reveals all the girls hit on him at the local Hooters.
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Post by Alex Penn on Dec 6, 2023 14:13:31 GMT
Alright, man. Coffee dates, quick and intense. Keep it real, be confident. Break the touch barrier naturally, maybe a light touch on the arm during a laugh. When you feel the vibe, go for it – a subtle, confident move. Wise? Hell yeah, if the connection's there. No need to overthink.
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but much respect for trying