"She is not yours, it is just your turn."

[flyingbanana]

This quote is often made as a way to fight oneitus.  Going into a relationship, with this mindset, will help to numb the pain of a breakup it seems but at the price of not fully enjoying the relationship.  Same as rotations/dating many at once.  Is this the mindset to have?  What do you guys think of this quote?  Better to not catch feelings or go all in with each woman you are with? How do you deal with this reality internally?

[pilgrimmeister]

With rotation girls, this is exactly the midset. They are not yours, they are just "on loan" and as they are not yours, then can sleep with whoever they wish, as well as yourself.

In this day and age, relationships don't last forever. Women have that many more options with dating sites, its easy to keep looking for better all the time and that is now the world we live in. If we want to keep a woman, we constantly need to keep things fresh and exciting, or she will simply move on.

It's also why I have this solid rule with rotation girls. When feelings develop, exclusivity is on the cards, then its time to go "all in" or move them on if you are not 100% sure. Never keep them hanging on with maybe's. 

[G-host]

[Alex Penn]

Look, relationships aren't forever."not yours, just your turn" is a reality slap. But here's the deal – it's not about being stone-cold. Feel the connection, but don't cling like your life depends on it.