Not a seduction video but you will learn a lot

[JackZero]

A lot of guys come on too strong when it comes to attracting women.  It doesn't mean that he's too nice, too forward, or too aloof.  It's just that he's not calibrated correctly.  A woman will often throw signals your way to let you know where you stand with her in the moment.  This is a great video that isn't talking about seduction, but it's a really good primer for seduction.

[N2thevoid]

"Nice" often looks like concealing your motives/intentions. Being 'overly' nice can breed of a feeling of inauthenticity.

Dr. Marshall Rosenberg explains how "much of the violence in this world is done by NICE people" in NVC.

To me INTENTIONS tell the story, rather than a made-up construct of "attraction imbalance(s)".