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Post by maestro on Jan 18, 2024 5:32:21 GMT
Hey G-Host, sure I will answer this. So in any group or social circle you have "higher ups". These are people who are deemed to have "high value" within the group. People who may have a good "reputation" or something along those lines. The idea of being a "tribal leader" is being "A" tribal leader. Meaning 1, you don't have to be the tribal leader of every group, for example Wiz Khalifa has "Taylor Gang" but he's not "Everyone Gang", it is simply more attractive if you are the leader of the group. So, with that said the idea is to boost your "long term" social value so if you are able to "lead the group" the girl will find you more attractive and start asking questiong either in her mind or out loud to you.. So this is attraction..
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Post by Alex Penn on Jan 19, 2024 22:22:54 GMT
I would like to touch on three theories from the pick up artist community and whether or not they work and why I think they do: One is being the tribal leader, this is a theory made popular by Mystery but I think alot of guys get this wrong, do you have a solid group of guys who are your "gang" or your "tribe" if not how are you going to show to the girl that your cool and popular? How are you going to show that your a "tribal leader" or atleast part of a group with one? It's a neccessary part of the game and can be difficult, being famous will show that you are the "alpha male" but that doesn't neccessarily make you a "tribal leader" or part of a group, go for both. Become famous and become a "tribal leader" or be a part of a group atleasr. That way they both work to make you an Alpha Male and "part of a tribe". Second is "Peacock Theory": Does this actually work? I think it does but also see guys who look cool and pull girls wearing sweatpants and hoodies, honestly I think that's because the street style is so popular and they can pull off a cool look. I think it works and if you look at all the great players in Hip Hop for example, "Snoop Dogg", "50 Cent", "Eminem", "Biggie Smalls" and "Tupac" they all stuck out with their clothing and "peacocked" so ask yourself the question do you want to be a real player on the level of these great people in the "game" or do you want to blend in with the rest? Stand out and use this to your advantage, do it everyday if possible or atleast dress your best everyday because it is a lifestyle and an image you are projecting and it also makes you "feel" cooler as well. Group Theory: This works and I think most people who argue against it have never really tried it, I've been doing magic my whole life and I think that's one reason why I gravitate to the Mystery Method partly because Mystery used to be a magician. If you can walk up to a group of people with guys and girls in it and perform magic, you can get the girl. If you can show a cool magic trick to a guy and ignore the girl, you can get the girl. It's the same thing that's always worked ignore and neg the target, pay attention to the guy, peacock and DHV by showing that your a cool guy. That's it, I have to admit I need to get better at this because this is where the game is played but I will keep pushing. Cheers. How do you blend pick-up artist theories into your approach while keeping it real? Any go-to techniques or strategies that work well for you in social situations?
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Post by maestro on Jan 20, 2024 5:27:13 GMT
I don't mention pick up theories during the approach, honestly I have the interaction mapped out to the point where if they were to ask me if I was a pick up artist there would be no real red flag. These theories are just meant to be talked about among your boys or online, during interactions I just "vibe" and keep it real and that seems like the best way..
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Post by Alex Penn on Jan 25, 2024 21:58:00 GMT
Thanks for sharing your approach, Maestro. Keeping things natural and vibing during interactions sounds like a solid strategy. Do you find that certain elements from these theories influence your mindset or behavior subconsciously, even if you're not actively discussing them during the interaction?
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Post by maestro on Jan 26, 2024 18:52:49 GMT
I think in the beggining you think yo yourself, "Oh, I should peacock tonight." Or I should do XYZ for group theory or to "be the tribal leader." But certainly the more time you spend out there practicing the more you do the "right" thing naturally without having to think about it as much. Hopefully you truly increase your "social value" and that's what it's about. Cheers.
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Post by G-host on Jan 26, 2024 19:21:58 GMT
Hopefully you truly increase your "social value" and that's what it's about. Cheers. That sounds superficial to me haha nothing wrong with having a good retutation but the way i do "game" (or life really) is that whats most imortant for me is what i value. Of course i LOVE to be appreciated and being thought highly about thou, but it all starts with me loving myself i think.
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Post by maestro on Jan 26, 2024 20:02:36 GMT
Hmm, I don't think improving your social value is "supeficial". Maybe to some it might seem so but I think alot of people are trying to do just that, especially people in this game. Yes, at he end of the day it's about loving yourself and about becoming the "best" version of yourself.
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