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Post by G-host on Jan 4, 2024 15:05:11 GMT
So ive been thinking, how is a good leader sopposed to be? What i have come up with is that first, he has to follow.. he needs to meet her to where she is so that he can take her to where SHE or you two togheter, want to be. Instead of some power hungry fella, a control freak or being the big bad alpha who is in charge of EVERYTHING. Not saying that most of them are this way, im exaggerating to make a clear point. Any thoughts about this?
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Post by G-host on Jan 4, 2024 15:21:28 GMT
”Compassion as a management strategy -- as opposed to ruling with an iron fist -- has been shown to boost employee trust, loyalty and retention.”
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Post by G-host on Jan 8, 2024 13:41:40 GMT
I wonder how Hitler had an entire nation under his spell.. Just imagine if we used those tactics for the sake of love.
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Post by Alex Penn on Jan 19, 2024 22:31:28 GMT
Your perspective on leadership aligns with a more collaborative and empathetic approach, which is quite insightful. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and meeting people where they are, rather than imposing authority or control. The idea of a leader being a facilitator who guides and supports, rather than a rigid figure, is a refreshing take.
Empathy, active listening, and adaptability are key traits in this type of leadership. It's about creating a shared vision and journey rather than a unilateral direction. This approach not only fosters a more inclusive and cooperative environment but also allows for the development of strong, meaningful connections.
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Post by G-host on Jan 19, 2024 22:49:57 GMT
Yes, you touched what i was trying to highligt. Very perceptive of you and i like how you formulated it! I noticed, you do this often
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Post by G-host on Apr 17, 2024 15:59:06 GMT
Be careful who you follow
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Post by maestro on Apr 19, 2024 19:25:52 GMT
Yes, this i great. It's an attraction switch to show that you are the "leader of men" which is survival value. If you can then show that you have some girls interested in you that's replication value. If you have both you already pretty attractive. I have trouble with this somewhat, being the leader of men is sometimes more of an illusion than anything else, does anyone have any insight into this? It's hard to be the leader of men without pushing into "hyper mode", I think what it really is is your mindset and perspective. If you take a guy who's a great leader and put your mindset into his head you would start to lead to. What do you think? Cheers.
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 11:58:11 GMT
One way of "taking lead" and disarm a hostile person that yells is to, match it.. start by yelling yourself and as you continue to talk, calm down, more and more until you become "friendly" in your tone. Its one way to do this that has worked like magic for me! This isnt just "alpha male" attidute, is makes you someout of a hero in peoples eyes and i have found that that, is even more charming that being the one in charge. There was one time that a was with a couple of friends, my ex and her female friend that i had known before. The boys started to being "funny" by making fun of my ex and i had enough of that and shouted that she is way fucking smarter than they will ever be (i think the jokes where about her being stupid or some shit like that). THey shut the h*ll up and a while after, her female friend just coulnt get enough of me, she even "fell" on me when i was sitting on the bed. She wanted to fuck me but we never did. Several reasons, she had already fucked evero one i knew and she was going on a streak whre she didnt shave, anywhere. I had fun thou. Also, they way she wanted me cut me off guard so to speak. Didnt really know how to proceed with her. Ivwas thrown of by how easy it would have been and im not used to that. Any way, im not propsing one should try to be a knight in white armor that saves everyone, what im getting at is that for me, that is being a nice guy. And thats attractive 2
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Post by maestro on Apr 29, 2024 15:16:24 GMT
Cool, yeah. I think taking the lead and being friendly is important. I think an alpha male takes the lead naturally, by being fun and telling stories. Being playful, I think it's good you stood up for yourself and by expressing your emotion healthily you may have triggered the "willingness to emote" attraction switch. I think it's important to emote without going too far. What do you think?
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 15:48:44 GMT
I just cant really see why one would want to be an aplha, think you are making it a bigger deal than it is. I have said it once before, that there can only be one of those in a group. Prepared to fight for the title? I think its overrated. Theres plenty of other things that are attractive and in my mind, its to be who i am. There can also only be just one of those and that, you can be. It also gives others freedom or, permissoion, to be who they are, too.
Theres this scenerio, right.. and this is a true story.. i was in a group with a natural alpha. Had ZERO chance with that guy but i befriended him and didnt try to win the title but at the same time, i wasnt a follower., eighter. I Could still do me, and i think he actually appreciated that more then if i was like, humping hs leg. I still felt attractive, even in the eyes of women. Sometimes even more so, when they saw this big dog next to me, on my side. Plus, him and i didnt have the same taste in women.
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 16:00:09 GMT
The best advice i can give on this subject is to take lead of your own life.
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Post by maestro on Apr 29, 2024 16:58:12 GMT
That's good advice, you don't neccesarily need to take over as alpha but remember if your the "tribal leader" she will find you more attractive. Also, "social proof" or conveying that you come "pre-selected" is one of the five characteristics of an alpha male. So, have women. Confidence, or being confident enough to tell a story. Humor, or being playful. Smile, having a great smile and Connection which is C1, C2 and C3. That this was "special". What do you think?
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 17:03:11 GMT
Ill rather go to my own rhytm, my own drum and beat
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 17:14:11 GMT
One thing i notice by your approach is that you tend to give yourself value, based on other peoples opinion of you. If it comes from inside, theres no stopping how much you can shine by loving yourself.. you can take it as far as imagination goes. But, sometimes that wont work eaighter. People can sense your motives and where you are coming from. And they are exellent and know which switches you go off on. And you can sense when yhey are sensing, that someting isnt really as you project. And theres a but to this too, if you are really into a dream of yourself as a man of value for ex, you will keep pushing and eventualy, it will become your reality. And man, just imagine what you can imagine. It goes way beyond what you can get just by how others see you. They will start to treat you differently. And life has a funny way of testing you first, and than give you the whole fairy tale. You will learn what works and what doesnt, enough to make a few adjustments. And life will show you pleasent surprises that you could not even comprehend until you went on this journey of creating yourself.
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Post by G-host on Apr 29, 2024 17:18:12 GMT
Begin by asking yourself, what is it you really, REALLY want? And why. Find the source of you desire. Why do you want a woman for ex. Then ask, how would i feel if i was already what i needed to be to reach my goal.
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