The 5 DHVs

[maestro]

I want to go over the 5 DHVs and why I think it's important that you hit ALL 5 rather than just a few to get attraction..

Pre-selection
(I don't have too much experience with this but I've noticed all guys who are good with women ALWAYS or almost always have women around them and are PULLING.)

Leader of Men
(This is so important, if you can lead the men or show that you are a leader of men than this is a very attractive quality. I remember one time when I told a stripper that I was the leader of my friends group her attraction for me went up almost immediately! Even just by saying it..)

Protector of Loved Ones
(Stepping up when someone is talking shit to your friend or a girl and showing that your the man in control can definately help, supposedly this has some "Evolutionary" backing behind it because if you had children with a woman you would have to be there to protect them!)

Willingness to Emote
(Showing that you have strong emotions shows that you can go through hard times and still be a "normal" human being who emotes and feels good about life and themselves, I noticed the hair touch from a girl after demnoing in simple conversation that I have emotions like "passion" about really anything (as long as it's not weird or creepy) so this works!)

Succesful Risk Taker
(This is very important and it puts the icing on the cake, if you can demo all four of these but you don't demo this one you will get attraction but it won't be real lasting attraction. Why? Because your not succesful! Women want to be with a man who is succesful and if you can demo that you've been succesful in life before then it means you probably have what it takes to do it again which means you would be able to protect and provide for her and the family. This also shows all the other ones at times because if your succesful she can assume you might be succesful with women too, but it is better to demo this or say this too.

So that's why I feel these are conmprehensive and you need ALL 5 to really get that attraction, the idea is that someone who is evolutionarily more fit will demo these NATURALLY, some guys just get it or have it and do some of these naturally. Others have to work at it, as long as your working on yourself constantly and becoming a better, stronger and more succesful man then these traits will come out of you! Cheers.

[Alex Penn]

Thanks for breaking down the importance of the 5 DHVs (Demonstrations of Higher Value) in attracting women. Your perspective on hitting all five for real and lasting attraction makes sense. It's interesting how these traits align with evolutionary psychology.

Pre-selection's tie to having women around you highlights the social proof aspect. Being a Leader of Men signals competence and authority, while Protector of Loved Ones taps into the primal instinct of security.

Willingness to Emote adds a human touch, showing vulnerability and depth. It's fascinating how sharing emotions can create a genuine connection. Finally, being a Successful Risk Taker ties everything together by showcasing your ability to navigate challenges and provide.

Your emphasis on continuous self-improvement as the foundation for naturally expressing these traits is a valuable takeaway. It resonates with the idea that becoming a better version of oneself naturally leads to the demonstration of higher value.

[maestro]

He Alex, on pre-selection yes it highlights "social proof" and what does this mean to you? I've always learned that "social proof" governs how we make decisions. If other people are doing something then it might be the right thing to do! I know this can work in the "long term" but I'm not sure if it triggers "instant" attraction.

[Alex Penn]

Hey Maestro, that's a cool question! To me, social proof means that if a bunch of people are doing something, it might be the right thing to do. It's like a little mental shortcut we use to make decisions. When it comes to attraction, showing pre-selection through social proof suggests that if others find someone attractive, there's probably a good reason for it.

While social proof is pretty influential in the long run, I get what you're saying about it maybe not causing instant attraction. It kind of sets the scene, making someone seem desirable, but that instant "wow" factor usually involves a bunch of different things. I'm curious, have you ever noticed situations or tricks where social proof had a quicker impact on attraction?