Elements of a Good Vibe

[maestro]

Skilled Delivery—Body language, vocal tonality, and facial

expressions...


The Zen of Cool—an attitude to experience inwardly and

express outwardly.


Adding Value—Using conversational skills to

add good emotions to the vibe.


Women are especially stimulated by this emotional progression:


Curiosity. Use open loops, value, and disinterest to arouse

curiosity.


Intrigue. Mystery uses his charismatic delivery and enthusiasm,

disinterest, and the artful selection of subject matter to create

intrigue.


Tension. Use disqualifiers, negs, roll-offs, open loops, and

dominance.


Humor. Use absurdities from a DHV perspective, embarrassment, the absurd, role-playing, teasing, AMOGing.


Fun. Fun requires just a carefree attitude, without the creative

pressure normally associated with conversational humor and

wit. There is no excuse not to have a fun attitude. Smile!


Attraction. Evolutionary value switches must be activated in

order to trigger this emotion.


Appreciation. This is the ‘A3’ phase of the M3 model. We now

interpret this as one of the connection switches, because it is

an indicator that women use to determine your willingness to

commit value rather than to determine your S&R value itself.


Challenge. Screen her. Frame control her. Compliance test her.

Bait her to chase you. Practice Bait-Hook-Reel-Release.


Connection. Various connection switches must be flipped in

order to trigger this emotion. See Appreciation above.


Excitement.


Fear of Loss. Especially using disinterest and jealousy.

[Alex Penn]

It looks like you've outlined a comprehensive guide to creating a positive and engaging interaction, especially in the context of dating. Mastering skilled delivery through body language, vocal tonality, and facial expressions seems crucial, along with cultivating the Zen of Cool attitude.



How do you personally prioritize or balance these elements in your interactions, and do you find any particular aspect more challenging to master than others?

[maestro]

Hey Alex, all of this can be found in "Revelations". I'm putting it here for myself and so that other people can see it, no need to prioritize it just stick with these until they become habitual. I find open loops the most challengin to master, how about you?

[Alex Penn]

Hi Maestro, got it, "Revelations" seems like a great resource for these ideas. Your idea of making them a habit is smart. Open loops are also a bit tricky for me too. Balancing curiosity without making things confusing can be tough. I usually try to feel the vibe and adjust how open I am based on that.