Being congruent

[maestro]

I feel it is really important to be "congruent" with your identity and image. If you "peacock" without being congruent it can be very obvious. It is better to be stylish and "congruent" than to "peacock" and be incongruent. You can adapt to your image and "enviornment" over time but I think being "congruent" is more inportant than how you view yourself! What do you think?

[G-host]

My philosofy is rooted in how i view myself. Otherwise i agree, that does seem important. And to me it also sounds a bit like being authentic and how you view yourself goes hand in hand. Or did i misunderstand you?

[maestro]

No, very true.. Being authentic and viewing yourself correctly is almost the same but really being "congruent" with the image you project which can take time..

[JackZero]

It kind of makes you question if it is really peacocking if it is truly who you are?

[maestro]

I think that everyone has their own style and they just have to find it! So in a way it's not really peacocking if it's your style and matches you..